Confession #C11030
21 F,
Okay so I have this problem where I'm addicted to sex it all started with the constant abuse I went through. I've been raped a few times by friends I have trusted and also a family member. Somehow it became an addiction to fuck around. I'm really not proud of it I do have a high body count and I honestly regret it now and I don't know like any other girl who went through rape or abuse just don't like having sex right? I feel so bad like something is wrong with me for wanting it. It's not like it feels good every time maybe just with a few guys and amongst all the dudes I have fucked only one made me finish. Sex isn't all that great but I crave for it and Idk I just want it to stop. Or it to be with the same person. But I can't seem to have a long term relationship with anyone mostly because Guys are ass now. They either cheat or doesn't man up and I hate being the man in the relationship buying flowers and shit for them when I have never received anything from a man I was with. Also I hate men who hook up with you and then go around flexing it to people like why can't guys just keep shut.
------Mod Comment------
hypersexuality in victims of abuse is more common than you might think, so your assumption is kind of off base. This is not a diagnosis by any means. You however appear to be exhibiting some clear signs of a trauma response with projections, difficulty in forming bonds etc.
I think there is work to be done, and therapy can help you immensely. I highly recommend you approach it.
21 F,
Okay so I have this problem where I'm addicted to sex it all started with the constant abuse I went through. I've been raped a few times by friends I have trusted and also a family member. Somehow it became an addiction to fuck around. I'm really not proud of it I do have a high body count and I honestly regret it now and I don't know like any other girl who went through rape or abuse just don't like having sex right? I feel so bad like something is wrong with me for wanting it. It's not like it feels good every time maybe just with a few guys and amongst all the dudes I have fucked only one made me finish. Sex isn't all that great but I crave for it and Idk I just want it to stop. Or it to be with the same person. But I can't seem to have a long term relationship with anyone mostly because Guys are ass now. They either cheat or doesn't man up and I hate being the man in the relationship buying flowers and shit for them when I have never received anything from a man I was with. Also I hate men who hook up with you and then go around flexing it to people like why can't guys just keep shut.
------Mod Comment------
hypersexuality in victims of abuse is more common than you might think, so your assumption is kind of off base. This is not a diagnosis by any means. You however appear to be exhibiting some clear signs of a trauma response with projections, difficulty in forming bonds etc.
I think there is work to be done, and therapy can help you immensely. I highly recommend you approach it.
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Confession #C11032
Reading that gay roommate fiasco made me think of what readers here think of gay people in general. If you, the reader, find out that someone close to you is gay or lesbian, what would you do? Mods, pls make a poll with these options:
- Nothing
- Distance myself from them but remain friendly
- Cut them off
- Tell someone else and out them
Reading that gay roommate fiasco made me think of what readers here think of gay people in general. If you, the reader, find out that someone close to you is gay or lesbian, what would you do? Mods, pls make a poll with these options:
- Nothing
- Distance myself from them but remain friendly
- Cut them off
- Tell someone else and out them
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Maldives AfterDark 🇲🇻🇵🇸🇱🇧
Confession #C11020 If a girl said your penis size is 'ok' , what does exactly she mean??
What does it mean if a girl says your penis size is "ok"?
Anonymous Poll
13%
It really is "ok"
30%
It's actually not "ok"
15%
She's literally the devil playing mind games
42%
Hers is probably bigger
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Confession #C11035
to #C10984
I literally do NOT feel sorry at all for pick me woman like her coming from 21F.
Like they base their whole life around getting a man, ANY man for that matter.
Has ZERO life goals for themselves and just tries too hard to get male approval.
Guys can sense this and these girls wonder why thry get treated so bad...
It's all what these girls talk abt like middle school crushes all over again.
"guess what he looked at me" "guess what he did this.. blah blah" and nothing else.
so ofcourse with zero self growth and self identify she's going to marry whoever shows attention to her or to prove smth and ends up preggo and she does it again!
like wym she has no job or a way to be independent??
and then wonders why her lives a mess.
Best thing I've done is ditch woman like her. She won't really be your friend. These typa girls are exhausting and will ditch u for a any man they can get.
and they won't be happy when your life starts looking good and god forbid u get a good man. she'll want him and your money too.
to #C10984
I literally do NOT feel sorry at all for pick me woman like her coming from 21F.
Like they base their whole life around getting a man, ANY man for that matter.
Has ZERO life goals for themselves and just tries too hard to get male approval.
Guys can sense this and these girls wonder why thry get treated so bad...
It's all what these girls talk abt like middle school crushes all over again.
"guess what he looked at me" "guess what he did this.. blah blah" and nothing else.
so ofcourse with zero self growth and self identify she's going to marry whoever shows attention to her or to prove smth and ends up preggo and she does it again!
like wym she has no job or a way to be independent??
and then wonders why her lives a mess.
Best thing I've done is ditch woman like her. She won't really be your friend. These typa girls are exhausting and will ditch u for a any man they can get.
and they won't be happy when your life starts looking good and god forbid u get a good man. she'll want him and your money too.
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Confession #C11036
Ladies would u fuck a good looking guy with a 7+ If he just wanted nothing but sex like cut the talk and lets fuck thing would that happen if so thumbs up
Ladies would u fuck a good looking guy with a 7+ If he just wanted nothing but sex like cut the talk and lets fuck thing would that happen if so thumbs up
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Confession #C11039
how do i let my girl bestie know her hair is botched?? like so mnay girls here get scammed with hair services its not even funny...
your hair isn't supposed to look that orange or yellow and dry 😭😭
like pls get a refund. for that price... its not it..
it looks like those girls in dhiraagu adverts 😭😭
how do i let my girl bestie know her hair is botched?? like so mnay girls here get scammed with hair services its not even funny...
your hair isn't supposed to look that orange or yellow and dry 😭😭
like pls get a refund. for that price... its not it..
it looks like those girls in dhiraagu adverts 😭😭
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Confession #C11040
I have a confession and serious question.
I had unprotected sex with a fwb thing. And i can't get tested untill a few weeks after so waiting for that. Lowkey i want to keep the kid if i am pregnant but thats not the reason i didn't use protection. Too Tired to have one more abortion i have had two. In the last 8 yrs.
My question is where are all the genuine kind people who want to get married at? Men and women like seriously deadass tired of trying to find somebody to be with. And i don't live in male so i don't have the privilege of randomly meeting potentials.
I have a confession and serious question.
I had unprotected sex with a fwb thing. And i can't get tested untill a few weeks after so waiting for that. Lowkey i want to keep the kid if i am pregnant but thats not the reason i didn't use protection. Too Tired to have one more abortion i have had two. In the last 8 yrs.
My question is where are all the genuine kind people who want to get married at? Men and women like seriously deadass tired of trying to find somebody to be with. And i don't live in male so i don't have the privilege of randomly meeting potentials.
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Confession #C11041
With this whole glory hole thing going on. Is it the [redacted] karoke place you can get in touch with if you call [redacted] karoke. Their main karoke place is in [redacted] but they also have [redacted] place and i have always seen people around that place in an unusual manner. In groups and that place karoke sound system is not good enough for any groups to be there that much. Please tell me if i am right mods. After everything you have redacted.
------Mod Comment------
We honestly don't know. So far nobody's thrown in a definite thing in here either.
With this whole glory hole thing going on. Is it the [redacted] karoke place you can get in touch with if you call [redacted] karoke. Their main karoke place is in [redacted] but they also have [redacted] place and i have always seen people around that place in an unusual manner. In groups and that place karoke sound system is not good enough for any groups to be there that much. Please tell me if i am right mods. After everything you have redacted.
------Mod Comment------
We honestly don't know. So far nobody's thrown in a definite thing in here either.
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Confession #C11044
i’ve been dating this guy for a couple of months and he treats me really good but i feel so numb and i don’t think i love him. like my ex fucked me over so bad that i feel like im incapable of loving someone else lol kbye that’s all.
i’ve been dating this guy for a couple of months and he treats me really good but i feel so numb and i don’t think i love him. like my ex fucked me over so bad that i feel like im incapable of loving someone else lol kbye that’s all.
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Confession #C11045
so, i dont know why im here writing this but here it goes. Im a F25yrs old, i was in a long term relationship for over 8 years and recently decided to separate from him. The separation stemmed from his irresponsibilities which put my dignity at stake basically his phone got hacked from one of the link scams and the my explicit pictures on his phone is with some creep blackmailing me. He didnt comprehend the damage he had done n i got the ick. Is he worth it? dhen neyge nuvaane mikameh ekam ehaaves loabiveyey
------Mod Comment------
a few things, I guess.
a) not being tech savvy enough to not have had the stuff safely stored in the first place is only very thinly excusable in this day and age. It's very easy to protect them.
b) him not "comprehending the damage" is a definite red flag and I'd dump him over this more than the leak itself tbh.
Is it worth it? I couldn't tell you. Sounds like you're a little over it.
so, i dont know why im here writing this but here it goes. Im a F25yrs old, i was in a long term relationship for over 8 years and recently decided to separate from him. The separation stemmed from his irresponsibilities which put my dignity at stake basically his phone got hacked from one of the link scams and the my explicit pictures on his phone is with some creep blackmailing me. He didnt comprehend the damage he had done n i got the ick. Is he worth it? dhen neyge nuvaane mikameh ekam ehaaves loabiveyey
------Mod Comment------
a few things, I guess.
a) not being tech savvy enough to not have had the stuff safely stored in the first place is only very thinly excusable in this day and age. It's very easy to protect them.
b) him not "comprehending the damage" is a definite red flag and I'd dump him over this more than the leak itself tbh.
Is it worth it? I couldn't tell you. Sounds like you're a little over it.
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Confession #C11048
Reading these gay/lesbian confessions, i just wondered how normalized these things are like are you not scared of the Afterlife??? We are just temporary on this earth and do you guys not think like THIS IS JUST SO WRONG AND YOU WILL GET SEVERE AZAABU FOR THIS URGH WTH.
Reading these gay/lesbian confessions, i just wondered how normalized these things are like are you not scared of the Afterlife??? We are just temporary on this earth and do you guys not think like THIS IS JUST SO WRONG AND YOU WILL GET SEVERE AZAABU FOR THIS URGH WTH.
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Confession #C11050
🚨 TRIGGER WARNING
29m
Idk if this is a confession or a suicide note.
Idk if I can do this anymore. The constant hurt from the very people that say they love me. My own family betraying me the last second for thier own benefits. How do i live in a world where everywhere i look i see pain and misery? My friends would hate themselves if they knew I'm writing this bc honestly they're the only reason that I've been able to hold on this long. They're more than just friends they're my brothers.
But idk if i can keep lying to them saying I'm okay anymore.
I'm sorry my brothers. I'm sorry....
🚨 TRIGGER WARNING
29m
Idk if this is a confession or a suicide note.
Idk if I can do this anymore. The constant hurt from the very people that say they love me. My own family betraying me the last second for thier own benefits. How do i live in a world where everywhere i look i see pain and misery? My friends would hate themselves if they knew I'm writing this bc honestly they're the only reason that I've been able to hold on this long. They're more than just friends they're my brothers.
But idk if i can keep lying to them saying I'm okay anymore.
I'm sorry my brothers. I'm sorry....
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