Doesn’t matter how much effort you put in for someone, if they aren’t willing to pull their own weight, you two ain’t going nowhere.
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"Fake it till you make it" is garbage advice.
Don't fake anything.
Build strong and solid foundations. Strive for genuinely improving every single one of your shortcomings.
This cannot be done if you do not work on your self-awareness.
But if you fake being someone you're not?
You'll never get truly know yourself.
All you'll be is a copy of what you think someone else is.
You will never feel complete.
Instead, take the time to go through the pain of growth and realizing what makes you who you are.
Only then can you actively try and improve everything.
Become a better person through hardwork and conscious effort.
If you "fake it", you'll be living through the eyes of others, you'll forget to impress yourself as you'd be too focused on impressing others.
You come first, you're the person you should impress.
Everyone else's opinion of you has absolutely no value.
Never forget this.
Don't focus on faking it, focus on making it.
Don't fake anything.
Build strong and solid foundations. Strive for genuinely improving every single one of your shortcomings.
This cannot be done if you do not work on your self-awareness.
But if you fake being someone you're not?
You'll never get truly know yourself.
All you'll be is a copy of what you think someone else is.
You will never feel complete.
Instead, take the time to go through the pain of growth and realizing what makes you who you are.
Only then can you actively try and improve everything.
Become a better person through hardwork and conscious effort.
If you "fake it", you'll be living through the eyes of others, you'll forget to impress yourself as you'd be too focused on impressing others.
You come first, you're the person you should impress.
Everyone else's opinion of you has absolutely no value.
Never forget this.
Don't focus on faking it, focus on making it.
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Tough Pill to Swallow:
The world doesn't care about you.
Everybody is just looking out for themselves.
The world doesn't care about you.
Everybody is just looking out for themselves.
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Focus on winning, not "looking cool". Reality lasts, appearances don't last. Winning is like being in good health, having muscle, and good skin. Looking cool is like wearing makeup. The next morning, only one of them still looks good.
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If you're feeling lazy, just get up and get things done. You're not a kid - no one is going to push you to succeed but yourself.
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Everyone talks about 'upgrading' after a relationship.
But remember.
An upgrade is not someone who looks better than your ex.
An upgrade is someone who treats you better than your ex.
That is not to say neglect the looks, but know what to place more value on.
But remember.
An upgrade is not someone who looks better than your ex.
An upgrade is someone who treats you better than your ex.
That is not to say neglect the looks, but know what to place more value on.
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You must ruthlessly cut off people from your life who waste your time.
The assumption here- that you’re a badass dude who’s on a journey to become what he was born to become.
If you’re not growing anyway, then sure- you can let people do anything to you. It’s not like you have something better to do anyway.
Wha? You said you are growing? Alright then. I’ll continue.
I’m talking about the people who arrive 15 minutes late everytime.
The irony is, these are the people who have nothing better to do.
Because if the person had a life, he/she would know the value of somebody else’s time.
Notice this in your own life- every person who arrives on time everywhere- is often the busiest and most successful person.
The assumption here- that you’re a badass dude who’s on a journey to become what he was born to become.
If you’re not growing anyway, then sure- you can let people do anything to you. It’s not like you have something better to do anyway.
Wha? You said you are growing? Alright then. I’ll continue.
I’m talking about the people who arrive 15 minutes late everytime.
The irony is, these are the people who have nothing better to do.
Because if the person had a life, he/she would know the value of somebody else’s time.
Notice this in your own life- every person who arrives on time everywhere- is often the busiest and most successful person.
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Waste your 20s glued to phone screens and you will hate yourself in your 30s.
Don't get caught in the mindless scrolling of doom.
Watching others' life will do no good to you.
Instead, start building your own life.
Don't get caught in the mindless scrolling of doom.
Watching others' life will do no good to you.
Instead, start building your own life.
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Cope
One of the first things I always look out for when interacting with people is cope.
What areas of life do they cope and how hard do they try to.
I don’t care if you’re broke, ugly, short, weak, dumb, etc
Do you cope or do you acknowledge your weaknesses to yourself.
People who cope don’t make progress. They are good at making excuses. But…but…but…
SHUT THE FUCK UP!
Everybody has excuses. Do you really think yours makes any difference?
Alright, you’ve given your “valid” excuse, now what? Has your situation changed?
Like the incredible saying:
“Do you want to be right or do you want to be rich?”
I choose rich every time.
I don’t care what your condition is. Don’t complain. Don’t cry. Don’t cope.
Suck it up and throw punches not hands up. I detest cope so much because I do not ever wish to see it in myself. It’s such a contagious and deadly virus that simply being around those who use it often will make you start using it if you’re not strong willed.
You’re doing well, but your friends are always complaining and whining about how life isn’t fair.
Eventually you start to feel like you got lucky. You start to relax and believe things are really out of your control. Instead of using the same momentum that got you where you are, you relax. Eventually, a sense of dread takes over and you start slipping back.
Then you start to cope.
After all, I’ve had it too good, life wasn’t supposed to be this easy.
You eventually become like them. A bunch of losers who cope and whine about life.
What makes this even more deadly is you never know when this process is in progress until you arrive at shit-town.
What do?
Cut off everyone who copes around you and discard excuse givers.
I’d rather a friend who’s dumb and knows he has to work three times as hard as the average person to catch up than one who is dumb and refuses to work because “life didn’t deal him a fair hand”
Nobody cares about your cope. Get to work.
One of the first things I always look out for when interacting with people is cope.
What areas of life do they cope and how hard do they try to.
I don’t care if you’re broke, ugly, short, weak, dumb, etc
Do you cope or do you acknowledge your weaknesses to yourself.
People who cope don’t make progress. They are good at making excuses. But…but…but…
SHUT THE FUCK UP!
Everybody has excuses. Do you really think yours makes any difference?
Alright, you’ve given your “valid” excuse, now what? Has your situation changed?
Like the incredible saying:
“Do you want to be right or do you want to be rich?”
I choose rich every time.
I don’t care what your condition is. Don’t complain. Don’t cry. Don’t cope.
Suck it up and throw punches not hands up. I detest cope so much because I do not ever wish to see it in myself. It’s such a contagious and deadly virus that simply being around those who use it often will make you start using it if you’re not strong willed.
You’re doing well, but your friends are always complaining and whining about how life isn’t fair.
Eventually you start to feel like you got lucky. You start to relax and believe things are really out of your control. Instead of using the same momentum that got you where you are, you relax. Eventually, a sense of dread takes over and you start slipping back.
Then you start to cope.
After all, I’ve had it too good, life wasn’t supposed to be this easy.
You eventually become like them. A bunch of losers who cope and whine about life.
What makes this even more deadly is you never know when this process is in progress until you arrive at shit-town.
What do?
Cut off everyone who copes around you and discard excuse givers.
I’d rather a friend who’s dumb and knows he has to work three times as hard as the average person to catch up than one who is dumb and refuses to work because “life didn’t deal him a fair hand”
Nobody cares about your cope. Get to work.
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Do not forget to be proud on yourself for all the work you put in.
If you earned it, you must be proud of it.
If you haven't earned it yet.
Get to work.
Someone out there is working to outperform you this very moment.
Put in the work or lose.
I want to see all of you at the winner's end.
Grind hard.
If you earned it, you must be proud of it.
If you haven't earned it yet.
Get to work.
Someone out there is working to outperform you this very moment.
Put in the work or lose.
I want to see all of you at the winner's end.
Grind hard.
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Always smell good.
Men seriously need to take this advice.
You will never understand what you are missing unless you go out wearing a sexy fragrance.
Men who smell good>>>>>> men who do not stink>>>>>>>men who stink
Men seriously need to take this advice.
You will never understand what you are missing unless you go out wearing a sexy fragrance.
Men who smell good>>>>>> men who do not stink>>>>>>>men who stink
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People STUPIDER than you, with far less talent, are fucking lapping you
Simply because they want it more, do more, get in front of more people, have less shame, and give less of a fuck
How much longer are you gonna let them clown you?
Simply because they want it more, do more, get in front of more people, have less shame, and give less of a fuck
How much longer are you gonna let them clown you?
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The road to hell is paved with good intentions.
Not all your friends are friends.
Not all your friends are friends.
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Having a powerful presence is all about confidence.
I’m not just talking about being confident, I’m talking about treading on the edge of arrogance.
Speak with absolute conviction and intent.
People have to wonder “what the fuck is this guy on?” whenever you speak about a particular topic.
But there is a catch; you never speak about shit you don’t know.
Remember, you’re not just trying to sound like an expert, you must be one.
Don’t just read extensively on your interests, delve into them.
Stop reading business books and start a business.
Stop reading about chess players and play/train till your rating can turn heads.
Stop talking and reading masculinity and ‘about women’ stuff and go date a couple of girls.
Stop ruminating on shit and get yourself bruised a bit.
Go into the arena and gain some valuable real life knowledge.
This is the only way your words will carry weight when you speak.
You become undeniably ‘real’ because your words are real and you’re not just regurgitating some shit you read on the internet two weeks ago.
I’m not just talking about being confident, I’m talking about treading on the edge of arrogance.
Speak with absolute conviction and intent.
People have to wonder “what the fuck is this guy on?” whenever you speak about a particular topic.
But there is a catch; you never speak about shit you don’t know.
Remember, you’re not just trying to sound like an expert, you must be one.
Don’t just read extensively on your interests, delve into them.
Stop reading business books and start a business.
Stop reading about chess players and play/train till your rating can turn heads.
Stop talking and reading masculinity and ‘about women’ stuff and go date a couple of girls.
Stop ruminating on shit and get yourself bruised a bit.
Go into the arena and gain some valuable real life knowledge.
This is the only way your words will carry weight when you speak.
You become undeniably ‘real’ because your words are real and you’re not just regurgitating some shit you read on the internet two weeks ago.
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When you’re with people they can sense when you doubt yourself or when you don’t speak with absolutely conviction.
You cannot afford to be a loud mouth who knows little about what he’s saying.
All the greats ‘lived’ their philosophy [except maybe Nietzsche and a few other classics]
But the truly greats lived their philosophy. You must emulate this if you intend to be an unstoppable force of nature.
Do not back down from a challenge.
Only cowards back down from social challenges.
If someone thinks what you’re saying is bullshit [amongst your friends] don’t shy aware from engaging them in a debate to see whose points are more legitimate.
If you’re unable to win, then perhaps reevaluate your stance and see if you have more to learn.
If you do win, it only shows you know your stuff or the challenger is the oblivious one. Plus, learning to articulate your ideas is always a bonus.
You cannot afford to be a loud mouth who knows little about what he’s saying.
All the greats ‘lived’ their philosophy [except maybe Nietzsche and a few other classics]
But the truly greats lived their philosophy. You must emulate this if you intend to be an unstoppable force of nature.
Do not back down from a challenge.
Only cowards back down from social challenges.
If someone thinks what you’re saying is bullshit [amongst your friends] don’t shy aware from engaging them in a debate to see whose points are more legitimate.
If you’re unable to win, then perhaps reevaluate your stance and see if you have more to learn.
If you do win, it only shows you know your stuff or the challenger is the oblivious one. Plus, learning to articulate your ideas is always a bonus.
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You must be an interesting person.
You become interesting when you have varying interests you’re deep into.
You know at least 5 different, unrelated areas of life you have some good knowledge and experience in.
For example:
-You’ve started a business
-You run a community project
-You’ve gained a title playing chess
-You’ve dated quite a number of women
-You’re also part of an exclusive club in your town
You could easily talk about a bunch of different things with different people.
The more diverse you are, the more interesting you get.
Nobody wants to hear from a dude living in his mom’s basement that hasn’t gone out to do shit in his life apart from schooling.
Lastly, but very importantly, is to get in shape.
This just enhances everything you do. Going to the gym is a life hack.
You basically 10X whatever you’re doing by lifting heavy shit.
Nobody cares that you’ve done all that if you’re fat.
But when you’re jacked, and you’ve done all that, then you become godlike.
Don’t be lazy and fuck everything up because you don’t lift.
You don’t need to be picking up bitches brother, you need to pick up some weights.
You become interesting when you have varying interests you’re deep into.
You know at least 5 different, unrelated areas of life you have some good knowledge and experience in.
For example:
-You’ve started a business
-You run a community project
-You’ve gained a title playing chess
-You’ve dated quite a number of women
-You’re also part of an exclusive club in your town
You could easily talk about a bunch of different things with different people.
The more diverse you are, the more interesting you get.
Nobody wants to hear from a dude living in his mom’s basement that hasn’t gone out to do shit in his life apart from schooling.
Lastly, but very importantly, is to get in shape.
This just enhances everything you do. Going to the gym is a life hack.
You basically 10X whatever you’re doing by lifting heavy shit.
Nobody cares that you’ve done all that if you’re fat.
But when you’re jacked, and you’ve done all that, then you become godlike.
Don’t be lazy and fuck everything up because you don’t lift.
You don’t need to be picking up bitches brother, you need to pick up some weights.
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