Back to the model building now:
Once you’ve written down the more important qualities of B, memorize them.

This should be easy since you wrote it yourself, so they are all things you already know.

You just need to have it at the highest level of your consciousness at all times.

Once you have these characteristics firmly in your head, at the highest level of consciousness [you can recall everything in an instant without having to think for long] you model all your actions to never violate any of these characteristics.

That’s basically it.

So, the question is always:
“Would B do xyz?”

If the answer is ‘no’ then don’t do XYZ.
“How would B approach/handle this situation?”
Do exactly that.

If you can do this for just 1 month, guaranteed your life will massively change.

The only thing that may be a problem is the stretch of your imagination and the quality of your ideals and the characteristics you’ve chosen for your persona.

The reason many are unable to follow this model is simply that we live in such a

hyper-distraction-based-attention-seeking-existence…

You may start now and end up forgetting you even had something like that going on and just end up reverting back to old habits.

Meditation helps a lot.

In the morning and in the evening.
Just the activity alone will constantly remind you of your goals and help you bring them to the forefront of your priorities.

Once this is all you think about, every single time, you are good to go.

To recap:

Step 1: Write down the characteristics of your ideal self

Step 2: Gauge every action/decision to ensure you don’t violate the items in Step 1

Step 3: Do this consistently for at least a month

Yes, this is the entire model, and it works as hell.

Now, important characteristics may include very strong principles like:

“B does not betray his brothers” but you don’t make big decisions like whether to rat on someone who trusted you or not every day.

Rather you’re faced with smaller, seemingly unimportant decisions.

Things like whether to open your Facebook app now or finish your work first.

Things like whether to cook or just order pizza.

Things that seemingly make no difference.

For these, you’ll have to use your intuition to make quick guesses and follow on the go.

“Would B really be scrolling on FB now or working on completing his project”

Since your ideal self is flawless, he would of course be working on his project.

You’ll fail one or two times on your first attempt, but eventually, if you stick with it, you’ll watch yourself develop a whole new character and get into that character in real-time.

This is how you become who you want.

Your mother is good to you because she sees you as a son before she sees you as a man.

Other women do not see the son, they see only the man, which is why you shouldn't expect women to treat you like your mother does. They are more mercenary, and less sacrificial.

If a woman isn't making it easy for you to get close to her, opening doors to her mind & body, don't keep pushing

Respect yourself

Move on, make a long-term investment in becoming a better man

You display an attitude of scarcity with women when you rummage through the trash of women not signaling enthusiastic desire for you.

A high-value man with multiple prospects, wouldn't scrap for such women.

Look high-value, and work to be high-value.

You do not need to FEEL that your hand is getting burned, to know putting your hand on a hot stove is a bad idea.

Similarly, you do not need to FEEL compassion in order to offer help to a person you see is suffering.

Few Understand This.

Nobody in the history of the world has ever gone from the bottom of a dominance hierarchy to the top by playing fair and following the rules.

Gentlemen,

Don't waste any time on women who don't at least match your level of effort.

Some will present themselves as "responsible but not ready for a relationship".

Then use you by asking for your advice, knowledge, opinions, & emotional support.

While f*king other men.

You do have limits; your intelligence, cunning, energy, and stress tolerance are not infinite.

Never hit the edge of your limits in the presence of other people; do so only in private.

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