https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5yRGUMEuh-c Holding grudges is just another word for having standards.
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Fran Lebowitz on the joy of revenge, holding grudges and why men shouldn't dye their hair | 7.30
American author Fran Lebowitz is known for her acerbic wit, her distinctive style and her observations on modern society. The New Yorker - who had her literary start at Andy Warhol's magazine - lives a famously digitally-disconnected life. 7.30's Sarah Ferguson…