Maheedhar's Planet Leaf: 5 వేల సంవత్సరాల ముందు వెలసిన శ్రీ వల్లభ స్వామి గురించి తెలుసా? | MPlanetLeaf

Maheedhar's Planet Leaf: Shocking Truth and Science Behind Chakras! (Part-2) సప్త చక్రాల వెనుక వున్న 'అద్భుత సైన్స్'! MPL

Maheedhar's Planet Leaf: Miraculous Sri Nimishamba Devi Temple Facts! నిముషంలో కోరికలు తీర్చే తల్లి ‘నిముషాంబా దేవి’ ఆలయం!

Maheedhar's Planet Leaf: History of Gaya 1 of 7 Sacred Cities of Hinduism! సప్త ముక్తి పురాలలో ఒకటైన పుణ్యక్షేత్రం గయ చరిత్ర!

*Care or control ??*

I was in a a consultation with a middle age couple.They started fighting right in front of me. The upset husband said- *See doc....I 'care' so much for her & this is what I get in return..*

To which the fuming wife replied- *He doesn't care...he just 'controls'...!*

*The care from one person was perceived as control by another !*

Made me think... *what is care and what is control ?*

How to identify them??

Soon I received the answer.

I had an argument with my teenage daughter over a trivial disciplinery issue...Harsh words were exchanged leaving both of us in tears...😪

After sometime, as our emotions settled down , we said sorry to each other...

*My daughter hugged me*

and said- *Papa ,you know why you got upset?*

*You were not upset because I did wrong..but u were upset because I didnt follow your instructions....*

*There is a big difference..!*

*I was stunned with her mature thinking pattern. ..I received my answer too... I was trying to control her under the disguise of care...that caused the conflict ....*

If I really *'care' from someone , I will not get upset or angry with that person...I will keep searching different ways to help him..*

*If I am struggling in any relationship...I need to closely observe if there is any subtle control hidden behind my apparent care...because*

*Care is an expression of love*

*While control is an expression of ego...*

Control cuts...Care connects ...

Control hurts...Care heals...

Keep caring for people but dont control them ... because

Often people are not wrong...they are just 'different'...

Keep caring... 😊

Maheedhar's Planet Leaf: దసరా నవరాత్రుల్లో ఈ విధంగా ఆరాధన చేయడం సర్వశుభకరం! Must Know Facts of Dussehra Festival! MPlanetLeaf