Is duniya mein hum aate dusre ki marji se or marte bhi dusre ki marji se or is beech hume ek zindagi milti hai jeene

Lekin kya sach mein hum usko apni marji se jee pate hai ya woh bhi dusron ki marji se

Ab aa toh gaye duniya mein phir shuru mein toh apne parivar ka saya hota hai phir kuch saalon baad woh saaya dhundhla kyon ho jata hai

Kya woh dhundhla saya ye btata hai ki ab tumhe apne maa baap ka saaya banna hai or apni zimmedari nibhani hai......

Zimmedari ek esi cheej hai jo bahar se sunne mein or bolne mein toh itni badi nahi lgti lekin jab samay zimmedari nibhane ka aata hai toh insaan bokhla kyon jata hai

Kya woh abhi bhi us layak nahi bna ya usko itni zimmedari pehle kabhi nahi mili

Lekin ye zimmedari esi hoti hai ki kisi k sapne barbaad kar skti hai kyonki zimmedari sapno se badi hoti hai or jab zimmedari apna roop dikhati hai toh bade se bade sambhav sapne asambhav ho jate hai

Phir bachti hai nirasha, dukh or pachtava or phir zindagi woh mod leti hai jo kabhi kalpana bhi nahi thi

Ab sochiye jo kalpana mein na ho wesa ho jaye toh insaan kitna bebas ho jata hai

Or kyon na ho bebas sapne jab tootte hai toh aawaj nahi aati lekin dard seene par lage khanjar se jyada deti hai......

Jab insaan k sapne tootte hai toh bahut kuch chla jata hai jese jeene ki iccha, shauq suvidhaye ya yun kahe ki jo raat din ek karke kisi sapne ko poora krne mein lage hai or unka sapna toot jaye toh woh bas ek zinda laash ban kar reh jaate hai

Ab aap samjh gaye honge ki kitni badi hoti hai zindagi or kitni ahem hoti h zimmedariyan

Or ye baat ese samjh nahi aati isko samjhne k liye lakho aansu hajaro sapne or kitni raaton ki kurbani deni padti hai

Isiliye zimmedariyan uthane se pehle us layak ho jao kyonki agar kismat palti or umar se pehle zimmedari aagyi na toh jab tak sehna sikhoge tab tak toh aadhi umar hi nikal jaayegi !!!!

~ Arpit Chaurasiya

Sometimes we want to go to past and change something, something unimaginable or unacceptable that has already happened in our life

But we don't have that option, we know that there's no chance to change the past nor we can't forget it.

Mental wounds not goes anywhere it remains with us no matter how much we grew.

For someone the wounds are of loosing someone, for someone it can be career failures and there's thousands of things that can affect your mental health.

But if somehow you're managing to live this life then you have the great strength

Living a life when you know you're dead from inside is truly appreciative.

Only a warrior can live without dead dreams, feelings and emotions. And everyone is not a warrior.

After thinking the whole night while traveling through the train i realised that this phase is one of the difficult phases of my life.

Where again, I have to compromise with my career as I was not able to focus on my exams due to some personal reasons.

And the same reason is responsible for the rise of struggle while appearing for my semester exams and these are just semester exams. That's why I'm not focusing on any important competitive exams as I know that my situations are more dynamic than the whole economy of India.

Still have a lot to share but don't think to share as I'm a very closed book type person with 0 best friends.

Anyways, due to many issues and my semester exams i will be very less active during December-January

I want to ask you all a question?

I'll give you two life options and you have to choose one with proper reason

1) Life of a person who always thinks to achieve something big and always ends up getting trapped in a new problem and always fails to execute it.

He always gets tensed about his future and never lives in the present as the situations are not in the favour of doing the same

2) Life of a person who doesn't have any goal or any dream he doesn't worry about his future but always lives in the present by roaming with friends, playing games, watching movies etc

So examine all the things and answer to this question and also don't forget to give your opinion (avoid making assumptions in this case study question).

I'll be waiting for your response at my channel's comment group

Review of all the responses I got regarding this message!!

Firstly most of the people said that it must be a little balanced, some had chosen an option but resisted to provide the reason, some provided a few reasons but it looked like a motivational line or similar to it.

So basically here I haven't asked you all to make balance, give motivational lines, or to judge anything. I gave this case study where you can't change anything as there's some cases too where a person struggled all his life but left the world achieving nothing.

So in this world you can't say that the negative phase of life always ends after the commencement of happiness, sometimes the negative phase ends when the person leaves the world.

So here I asked for the current phase, future consequences of both lives and the current physical and mental state

Anyways I appreciate all those who responded to my message

Aaj mujhe ek baat samjh aayi!!

Mere case mein mehnat ka fal bhi kadwa hota hai 🥲

Topic change

Due to my exams, i travel approx 500+ km every weekend and mostly I prefer a few trains of southern states,

In the very beginning, the reason to travel from these trains was to not miss my 2nd train due to any delay caused by the 1st train.

But when I travelled from A.P. Express I got a seat on the 3rd coach as the coach was near the engine, the acceleration of the engine (WAP 7) was super lit and gave me goosebumps.

And with passing days the reason gets broader, the trains of southern states are most preferred by me due to low bookings, get confirmed tickets even booking in waitlist and time schedule.

There are many stories of these journeys, from getting angry at school boys boarded on the train from tamil nadu for a picnic to playing UNO with some strangers of Andhra Pradesh.

There are many negative and positive experiences we get while traveling but after combining all these, I can share a conclusion with you.

We should talk to others with respect and kindness, no matter whether they are strangers or known ones.

Always start a conversation with a positive attitude and you will also receive the same respect, for example I am sitting in front of a person who is from tamil and we both are talking with each other with the same respect, he consistently tries to adjust his legs and luggage and I am also doing the same with him.

A lot of people discriminate with others by color, facial differences which is not good as people don't get recognised by their physical features, they get recognised by their behaviour towards others.

So I want each and everyone to raise their voice against these types of discrimination, a few days ago a northeast boy was killed in uttrakhand which is very heartbreaking.

We must not forget that we all are indians, our blood can be different but our blood boils when someone tries to harm india and indians, that makes us united!!

Thanks for reading this, hopes your best

It has been observed by me that from December all my channels are unable to provide the committed material which should be uploaded to help students in many ways.

There are many reasons for the same: firstly the majority of students were not active, our team were appearing for their sem end exams and even I am also busy in my end sem exams but once after my all hard subject's exam gets completed (On 11/01) I will start organizing everything in such a way that students get maximum guidance and support as per their activeness.

All Class 12th boards students, CUET students, College students will benefit from my channels.

So stay tuned to your respective channel
12th - @HumanitiesXCommerce
CUET - @CUETx2026
College - @GraduAid

Do connect to my personal channel @Arpit_Chaurasiya

Thanks!!

Whenever it comes to people, I find myself alone no matter whether it's about personal life or professional life and I accept the fact that no one can change me as the changes done by thousands of people can't be recovered by a few it's very rare and close to impossible in my life.

Due to providing materials to other stream students I have to depend on others as my domain is Commerce only but whenever I try to find new people to invite them into my team I get only disappointment.

After 2019 i thought every year is worse than the previous one but in 2023 when I came to a phase of acceptance where I cared more about the things I have in the present, destiny collapsed in such a hard way that I have to face the consequences of that for my whole life. Personal to Career, all things were trashed and the trauma I got from 2024 is unbearable and nobody can understand it except those who witness it.

And literally after 2024 I have to suffer every day, week, month, year.

I did my best to help others and till now I guided more than 3,000 students and almost wasted my 3 years achieving nothing.

Now I think I should change my plans and perspectives of life.

Sometimes being a villain or bad person is better than doing good deeds and achieving nothing people work for themselves then they work for their family then they work for their city state or country and if a person can't grow itself then how can he make others happy.

Arpit from early 2024 knowing more then its capacity to Arpit from 2026 being worried about everything, working on everything and achieving nothing.

This transition is not a joke it's a cruel truth

And please don't message me for any sympathy or condolences. I managed all this alone so I don't need any 2 or 3 days of sympathy or attention.

I am good being alone and I hate those who knew everything but still they never cared about it.

~ Arpit Chaurasiya

Hey AC's followers, every time I used to tell my feelings or stories but I never heard about my follower's stories from this channel.

So I would like to listen to you all so please tell me how's your life going and what are the future targets you are expecting to achieve this year and don't worry I will not judge you.

So feel free to write in the comment section and you can also tell me in my DM.

DM at @Arpit_Chaurasiyaa

Regards
Arpit Chaurasiya

Why humans made the world so complicated where the duties and responsibilities of an individual becomes soo heavier. Why can't we live in little without any tension, anxiety or stress.

Why do humans always behave unsatisfied.

Sometimes I think that humans made the world so complex that some people are living happily without any secure career or future and others are struggling like hell to make their career secure.

Achieving more mad levels of being a rail fan, I'm that type of person who checks running status of his favourite trains on random days....

Aaj meri tammo (Tamil Nadu Exp.) kitne baje pahuchi?😂

I almost crossed 6000+ KM of travelling distance in multiple rail journeys just in 3 months (from 1st Jan to 21st March)

I am 100 percent confident that I'll cross 15,000 km of travelling distance till the end of 2026 ❤️

We as a team, saw many dreams especially i, who saw a dream to make education affordable for all of us and corruption-free.

This was not a normal goal this was my mission as i also faced a lot as a student and I understand the pain of each and every student.

But despite many efforts I've been making from the last 3 years to make this happen, it never shows progress.

And the reason was NO SUPPORT FROM STUDENTS

Yes, typing 3 lines of encouragement doesn't make any contribution it only looks like a formality and when it comes to doing anything everybody says mujhe kya milega and forgets what we provided them free.

Many people motivated me and when some of them joined the team, they got the reality check and now they're also saying that they will not work after this batch because of no support.

It's Kalyug and you know what in this time only those get fruits who cheats others, scam others and break all laws to make money and all the persons of supporting them only.

I saw many people selling pirated books on random channels and students are buying from them but they can't enroll in our batch where we made each and everything on our own without breaking any ethics.

But I think students only support those who are in the market to loot money from them only.

Now some people can say why are you crying over this or sharing these sad stories, compete and earn blah blah

Remember education is not a business for me that's why I never misguide others for my profit otherwise if I took education as a business then people can't even imagine what I can do to make my business run.

Now the main point
I'm not going to continue any batch after this CUET 2026 Batch on telegram, it means that maybe we can provide youtube videos for the upcoming batch but here on telegram I will not interact with any strangers.

The reason is that I have much more responsibilities than any other person of my age.
And by going against my family I used telegram to provide educational content to you all and due to 3 years of no growth, I think now I must be selfish otherwise the consequences for me will be more harsh. My family has many educated and successful people. Like Senior Faculty IIT Delhi, industrialists, many teachers.
Even yesterday I went to a govt teacher with my family members and then all school staff and management rushed for us on the result day to treat us well.

I even have very good contacts with the former UGC chairman through my relatives but I never used it as i want to be self dependent I don't want to use anything just for my favour.

Even when any problems arise with my academics, i simply go to the senior faculty of my college like the IT dept. Head, HOD, Principal to resolve my query and I always go there alone without any external influence.

So now I'm not going to be available for the general public, I'll only be available for my team members and some close friends.

And due to this I'll also follow a 0 hour screen time rule which means that I can completely discontinue the use of smartphones and will become isolated.

And also I'm thinking of doing some changes and reduce the quantity of free materials as we're providing everything free from three years but still if students can't support us then we also have to see our pockets as there's many expenditure we made to run educational channels like Data bills, softwares premium etc

A formal and official note will be released soon by @SecondarySuccess to confirm the changes.

Regards
Arpit Chaurasiya

Listen to this voice note only if you can listen to it till the end.

Thank-you everyone for making me realise why I wasted my 4 years for the welfare of those students who are selfish and don't want to support anyone who can change the system

The main Irony is that the majority of our students are from humanities and they don't even know how to support someone or how to raise their voice against wrong.

Regards
@Arpit_Chaurasiya

It's The End
I tried everything, wasted 5 years, lost many precious things

With all this I'm officially declaring my discontinuation on telegram

I tried all things to make my initiative survival but that doesn't work and the reason is not lack of support or anything.

It's my destiny which made my every effort waste, so I think I shouldn't continue.

So this is my last session on telegram and I'll complete it till CUET 2026 and maybe I will remain in contact with some of my loyal students or team members who made every effort to support me.

I don't know the future of SecondarySuccess but I know the future of i on telegram, which is that I am not going to come here again.

At last I want to say thank you everyone and sorry to all those whom I hurt

Regards
@Arpit_Chaurasiya

The Burning Candle

A burning candle always tries to glow its surroundings, he never thinks about itself, the candle knows that by making their surroundings shine, he only destroys himself as the wax which is his lifeline will finish slowly by burning himself but still he chooses to make others glow.

Why does he do this? Is there anything beneficial for him or does he not like to live?

And why people won't understand the value of him, he's getting intense heat and pain by burning himself and still he doesn't give up until the disruption in the supply of oxygen or until finishing himself completely.

Comment your views!!

Let's start a new plan with those who value me and my projects !!

Let's make 2026 a year of revolution,

This time we'll not focus on one side, the focus will be on all the things for which I am responsible!!

- Educational Startup
- Clothing Business
- My Studies

This time I'll give my best try with considering all other options to switch as soon i detect disaster.

Normally my luck doesn't support me but I can't live a life without my dreams so working for them is an essential part for me no matter the dreams will success or won't.

But I'll keep my previous decision in consideration so the activities on telegram will be reduced to 30 percent.

Those productive minds who wants to learn something and support me can dm me at @ArpitChaurasiyaa

Ended with semester exams !!
Now I came from my hectic phase to null phase

Earlier, I was busy as hell because of my exams, travelled a lot but still did not go to any famous place or anything, and didn't meet anyone except my relatives.....

And now after coming back home, i am thinking what should I do now as plans are not working, studies to relation nothing is working, and now I downloaded insta again and that too has too many things which my brain and heart can't digest.

These types of phases come a lot in life when your life gets changed in just a few hours or days and you have to deal with it anyhow.

I'll also accept it move up very quickly because for me the most important thing is the time I'm wasting because of my stillness.

Today's Extreme Anxiety & Stress

From morning I was in a neutral mood like as always. But in the afternoon I saw a reel of a very young girl injecting insulin in her stomach she was suffering from Diabetes 1 with Tuberculosis. Later through i got to know that she's no more.... From thinking about how courageous she is to how much pain she gone through, the emotions were unexplainable.

And from afternoon i saw her many reels came to my feed and then slowly slowly my feed became extremely depressive.

One girl pushed a man, one women grinded her husband in grinder, one daughter killed her mother for govt job and property, one mother killed her son because of her extra affair, one auto driver sold a 13 year old girl after ra*ing her and then 30 other men gang ra*ed her in hotels, a young girl was killed due to wrong injection in operation theatre due to doctor negligence

And the one who must take the most of responsibility plays blame game and that's us. The Humans who became more cruel then any creature or monster.

We as an society just blame each other like

Are ye toh bjp ki galti hai, are nahi ye toh pappu , toti chor, kejriwal inki galti hai.

Dharmendra Pradhan resign kro nitin Gadkari resign kro modi resign kro , kya resignation se ho jayega?

Ab toh politics k sath nayi nayi cheejen aagyi

Some Womens are getting inspired by sonam raghuvanshi, siya and other murderes while mens are looking for their basic rights

Women blame mens and men blame womens, can we fix the system by doing this?

Remember the 13 year old girl and other girls who were ra*ed by men are the victim who suffered and in chetan siya case, chetan was the victim

So in the blame game of men and women only the innocent ones are getting killed or exploited so we must protect the innocents and this can be done by coming to on ground not by doing insta debates or playing online blame games.


Remember before the system, government and anything else, we're has the main responsibility

So the only request for the youth is to educate yourselves, debate logically, don't support anything on color, culture, state, caste or party.

Always think neutrally and once you became educated and started choosing the right and speaking against the wrong. You'll get the power to change the government, change the system and everything

Remember this post doesn't support any political party as all the parties which exists are corrupted and are beyond repair.

Regrets hurt the most!!

A few years ago I joined telegram just to finish my loneliness and today I regret that why I joined telegram.

As people who created expectations didn't follow what they said, left
Some misunderstood me.

And now I realised that if I didn't join telegram maybe I would be a little more lonely but mentally stable with any achievements

Maybe the character was good as many decided to pre judge me based on my online interactions which are far with my offline interaction.

Regrets make men strong and weak at the time, sometimes it helps you to achieve something but if the negative force is stopping it then it may weaken the confidence and progress.

Honestly I can't move on from anything so easily, it takes years for me to accept and forget something and some memories and regrets still can't be accepted by me even after 2-3 years.

That's why I don't expect more i usually think about a simple life but some of my dreams and missions don't support my simple life plan.

As the justice is yet to be served and i don't care about the reaction and consequences. If the situation demands blood then I can ll my self or ll someone else too, build something or destroy too.

I still have some outmost responsibilities which are stopping to do justice but once it gets managed, the world will see what justice to a common man looks like

Those who left me, wait a few years and I'll make you regret it.

~ The Burning Candle

Grief
What is grief?

Grief is an ordinary feeling or emotion.

It can be due to anything which was not expected or which pushes us to the negativity.

But for a person who's losing everything slowly, what grief is for them?

Just a mere feeling/emotion? No for them grief is everything which is keeping them alive, now you all are thinking how can grief keep someone alive. But it actually happens, grief of losing something which motivates a human to do something for that thing/person you lost.

Grief is an ocean of acute pain which keeps reminding you that you have some pending missions or tasks which you have to accomplish otherwise you'll regret it forever.

For me grief is the deadliest pain which is continuously pushing me in the sea of negativity but my life is not a ordinary life

Living like Arpit Chaurasiya is the most horrible life a person could have. And I pray that the things are happening with me don't happen with any other as i know how I am living each and every day alone fighting with my own thoughts, my destiny, my problems and much more.

Every day is a challenge for me and most of the days I got defeated.

A person whose life is trapped with painful problems like me are the one who is living a life like a person lives in hell.

And i pray again to God, please don't write this hell in any other's life


~ The burning candle