Divorce does not shake the THRONE of Allah.

Prophet Muhammad salalaahu Alaihi wasalam has divorced before.
His companion has divorced before.
Prophet Muhammad salalaahu Alaihi wasalam daughters (2) have divorced before .

Divorce is allowed in Islam and Allah knows best,haven said divorce is allowed in Islam do not mean you divorce when you want it,no.

You divorce with Islamic reasons,there are some cases divorce is allowed and some case is not allowed and the prophet even said if a woman ask for divorce when is not necessary will not go to Jannah.

A man divorce and a woman ask for khul(initiate divorce).

Does the Throne of Allaah shake because of divorce?.

Answer
A hadeeth concerning that has been narrated from the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him), but it is a fabricated and false hadeeth.

This is what has been narrated from ‘Ali ibn Abi Taalib (may Allaah be pleased with him), that the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “Do not issue divorce, for the Throne shakes because of divorce.” Narrated by Ibn ‘Adiyy in al-Kaamil (5/112) and by al-Khateeb in Tareekh Baghdaad (12/191), and via Ibn al-Jawzi in al-Mawdoo’aat (2/277), via ‘Amr ibn Jumay’ from Juwaybir from al-Dahhaak from al-Nazzaal ibn Sabrah from ‘Ali ibn Abi Taalib (may Allaah be pleased with him).

Ibn al-Jawzi said:

It is a mawdoo’ (fabricated) hadeeth… ‘Amr ibn Jumay’ used to narrate munkar ahaadeeth from prominent people, and mawdoo’ ahaadeeth from sound narrators. End quote.

He was as da’eef (weak) and a fabricator by many scholars, including the following:

Al-Khateeb al-Baghdaadi in Tareekh Baghdaad (12/187), Ibn al-Qaysaraani in Dhakheerat al-Huffaaz (2/1147), al-Sakhaawi in al-Maqaasid al-Hasanah (p. 31), al-Shawkaani in al-Fawaa’id al-Majmoo’ah (p. 139), al-San’aani and al-‘Ajlooni in Kashf al-Khafa’ (1/361), and al-Albaani in al-Silsilah al-Da’eefah (1/278, hadeeth no. 147).

The fact that the hadeeth is da’eef does not mean that divorce is permissible and is not disliked by Allaah. Rather divorce is disliked by Allaah, and is not permissible except when there is a need for it. A man does not have the right to divorce his wife for no good reason that makes it permissible.

Shaykh al-Islam Ibn Taymiyah (may Allaah have mercy on him) said:

The basic principle concerning divorce is that it is forbidden, and it is only permitted as much as is necessary.

Majmoo’ al-Fataawa, 33/81.

Shaykh Ibn ‘Uthaymeen (may Allaah have mercy on him) said:

The basic principle concerning divorce is that it is makrooh, and the evidence for that is the verse in which Allaah says concerning those who swore not to have intercourse with their wives for four months (interpretation of the meaning):

“Those who take an oath not to have sexual relation with their wives must wait for four months, then if they return (change their idea in this period), verily, Allaah is Oft-Forgiving, Most Merciful.

227. And if they decide upon divorce, then Allaah is All-Hearer, All-Knower”

[al-Baqarah 2:226-227]

This (the phrase “then Allaah is All-Hearer, All-Knower”) is a kind of warning, whereas in the case of taking back the wife, Allaah says, “verily, Allaah is Oft-Forgiving, Most Merciful”. This indicates that divorce is not liked by Allaah, and that the basic principle is that divorce is makrooh.

Al-Sharh al-Mumti’, 10/428

PROVISIONS FOR THE DIVORCED WOMAN.
Undoubtedly, Islam ordered that provisions be made for the divorced woman. But it's not in the form of sharing the divorcing husband's assets as done in KUFR Culture, Law and Tradition.
The provisions for the divorced woman covers the Iddah period. It's the WAITING PERIOD, during which the woman can neither remarry, nor enter into any relationship with an opposite sex. It lasts for the period of three menstrual cycles. It could last longer than that, if a pregnancy appears before the end of the three menstrual cycles.
The Iddah has a number of purposes. One, to allow for tempers to cool off, for the possibilities of a settlement, where the divorce is revocable. Two, to allow an early pregnancy to reach observable period, as it affects the entire post divorsal treatment. Three, to allow for reflections and planning of the days as ahead, under a different life situations. Etc.
The provisions for the divorced wife is same as that of a full wife, except that there would be no conjugal relations with her. She's entitled to all rights to care and protection. Where the divorce is irrevocable, having conjugal relations with her is prohibited. Where it's revocable, a conjugal relations with her automatically revokes the divorce!
Where a pregnancy occurs, the Iddah period lasts until the birth of the baby. At the birth of the baby, the Iddah ends along with all the entitlements, except that of the baby. The mother becomes entitled to the caretaker allowances for the baby, until when she ceases to be in charge of the lad.
The provisions spoken of for a divorced woman only covers the waiting period. Islam teaches that at the end of the waiting period, a divorced woman should return back to her parents, regardless of her age and status. Parents are ordered to receive and care for her fully, until she marries another husband. Islamic Law does not permit that a woman lives on her own, without a supervisory guardian.

كتاب النكاح9 The Chapters on Marriage
(51)Chapter: Hitting women(51)باب ضَرْبِ النِّسَاءِ
Sunan Ibn Majah 1985

It was narrated that Iyas bin 'Abdullah bin Abu Dhubab said:
"The Prophet said: 'Do not beat the female slaves of Allah.' Then 'Umar came to the Prophet and said: 'O Messenger of Allah, the woman have become bold towards their husbands? So order the beatin g of them,' and they were beaten. Then many women went around to the family of Muhammad,. The next day he said: 'Last night seventy women came to the family of Muhammad, each woman complaining about her husband. You will not find that those are the best of you.' "
حَدَّثَنَا مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ الصَّبَّاحِ، أَنْبَأَنَا سُفْيَانُ بْنُ عُيَيْنَةَ، عَنِ الزُّهْرِيِّ، عَنْ عَبْدِ اللَّهِ بْنِ عَبْدِ اللَّهِ بْنِ عُمَرَ، عَنْ إِيَاسِ بْنِ عَبْدِ اللَّهِ بْنِ أَبِي ذُبَابٍ، قَالَ قَالَ النَّبِيُّ ـ صلى الله عليه وسلم ـ ‏"‏ لاَ تَضْرِبُوا إِمَاءَ اللَّهِ ‏"‏ ‏.‏ فَجَاءَ عُمَرُ إِلَى النَّبِيِّ ـ صلى الله عليه وسلم ـ فَقَالَ يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ قَدْ ذَئِرَ النِّسَاءُ عَلَى أَزْوَاجِهِنَّ فَأْمُرْ بِضَرْبِهِنَّ ‏.‏ فَضُرِبْنَ فَطَافَ بِآلِ مُحَمَّدٍ ـ صلى الله عليه وسلم ـ طَائِفُ نِسَاءٍ كَثِيرٍ فَلَمَّا أَصْبَحَ قَالَ ‏"‏ لَقَدْ طَافَ اللَّيْلَةَ بِآلِ مُحَمَّدٍ سَبْعُونَ امْرَأَةً كُلُّ امْرَأَةٍ تَشْتَكِي زَوْجَهَا فَلاَ تَجِدُونَ أُولَئِكَ خِيَارَكُمْ ‏"‏ ‏.‏

Grade: Sahih (Darussalam)
Reference : Sunan Ibn Majah 1985
In-book reference : Book 9, Hadith 141
English translation : Vol. 3, Book 9, Hadith 1985

Don’t be afraid of poverty when it comes to marriage!

‎إن يكونوا فقراء يغنهم الله من فضله

In case they are poor, Allaah will enrich them of His Grace…

al-Qurtubi: Do not refrain from getting married because the man or the woman is poor.

If they are poor, Allaah will make them independent of means by His bounty.

This is a promise of independence of means to those who get married, seeking the pleasure of Allaah and seeking to protect themselves from sin.

‎● [تفسير القرطبي ١٢:٢١٨]

Before marrying someone please openly discuss finances, moral values, future goals, family expectations, and health issues with each other beforehand. A friend of mine didn’t have these discussions before marriage and now both partners are facing difficulties because of it

Sh. Ibn ʿUthaymeen Raḥimahullāh said:

“I see it from the blessing of Allāh upon a husband if he's married to a woman who loves him!!”

● [سلسلة اللقاء الشهري ٣١]

[Chapter: The wife who stipulates in the marriage contract that her husband cannot take another wife].

Al-Marwazī رحمه الله stated:

I asked Imām Ahmad, "What about the woman who stipulates that her husband cannot marry another woman, nor have a concubine, and not take her out of her own house (to live with him)?"

Imām Ahmad replied: "All these conditions are for her (it is her right). If the man marries another woman or takes her out of her house, then she can choose to stay or to divorce him."

Ishāq (ibn Rāhawayh) agreed with Ahmad.

٢١٥٠ - إن اشترطت عليه ألا يتزوج عليها]

قلت: امرأة اشترطت على الرجل عند عقدة النكاح ألا تتزوج علي، ولا تتسرى، ولا تخرجني من داري؟

قال: هذِه الشروط كلها لها، فإن تزوج أو
تسرى فهي مخيرةٌ، إن شاءت أقامت معه، وإن شاءت فارقته. قال النبي -صلى اللَّه عليه وسلم-: "إِنَّ أَحَقَّ الشُّرُوطِ أَنْ يُوفَى بِهَا مَا أسْتَحْلَلْتُمْ بِهِ الفُرُوجَ".

قال إسحاق: كما قال.


"مسائل الكوسج" (١٠٧٤)

Zina takes everything from you.
Your wealth, Barakah, state of mind, everything.
It’s one of the few sins in the Qur’an called “fahishah” pure filth.

Here’s why it’s far more destructive than you think;

Zina is not just an act. It’s a chain reaction. It begins with a glance. A smile. A message. A meet-up.
And then before you realize it your heart has crossed a line your body will soon follow.

Allah didn’t just say “don’t commit zina.” He said:
"Do not even go near it." (Qur’an 17:32)
Because the roads leading to zina are just as deadly as zina itself. One step too close and you’re in quicksand.

When you fall into zina, you lose more than you gain:
•Your faith temporarily leaves you (Hadith).
•Your rizq is affected.
•Your du’a feels empty.
•Your mental state becomes restless.
It’s not just a sin, it’s a thief.

Allah didn’t just say “don’t commit zina.” He said:
"Do not even go near it." (Qur’an 17:32)
Because the roads leading to zina are just as deadly as zina itself. One step too close and you’re in quicksand.

Real love is when two hearts beat for one goal: to be reunited in Jannah. Like Umm al-Dardāʾ(رضي الله عنها) once said to Abu al-Dardāʾ(رضي الله عنه):
“You chose me in this world. I choose you for the akhirah.”

Even after Abu al-Dardāʾ passed away and others came to propose, she turned them down, saying:
“I have already promised myself to Abu al-Dardāʾ in the next life.”

Because her heart wasn’t searching for a new beginning; it was already waiting for a reunion in Jannah.

May Allāh bless us with a love story that doesn’t end in this world, but continues by His Mercy, forever.

Ref: Siyar Aʿlām al-Nubalāʼ, 4/284

We need a generation of women whose *hearts are attached to the Hereafter.*

Women who take the *Mothers of the Believers and the righteous companions* as their role models… not actresses, singers, or those who live for nothing but display.

Women who seek sacred knowledge, and nurture in their children the foundation of correct belief.

Women whose concern is not fashion, markets, weddings, or idle talk… but the *pleasure of Allāh* and *the raising of the word of Tawhīd.*

`From here, real change begins.```

*The righteousness of a woman = the righteousness of the Ummah.*

_Be that woman… raise yourself, and you will raise generations._ ✨

سفینة الصابرین

Dear Muslim Brother or Sister,
Don't make your spouse as your life's goal. Your real goal in life is to worship Allah and to do deeds that please Him. Marriage and fulfilling each other's rights after marriage is part of this process but not the end goal in and of itself. When you realize this it becomes much easier in your relationship to understand each other as well as to mutually take decisions for Allah's sake as well as to cope up with all the external pressures from family

Whoever does not recognize his mother except for one day of the year is disobedient to her. As for he who upholds relations with her, gives her gifts and is loyal and honours her every day, then #‎Mothers_Day is meaningless to him, as Mother’s Day is appropriate for the disobedient, not the loyal.

من لا يعرف أمه إلا يوما في السنة فهو عاق لها، ومن يصلها ويهديها ويبرها كل يوم فلا معنى لـ عيد الأم عنده، فعيد الأم مناسبة للعاقين لا للبررة

"BECOMING... not SEEKING

Some men say, "How hard it is to find a righteous woman in this era." And some women also say, "How hard it is to find a righteous man these days." Maybe the statement above is true, although not absolute. However, what's more important is how good it would be if we directed that statement to ourselves first before saying it to others. "Have I become a righteous man? Have I become a righteous woman?"

Sometimes we're too busy judging others that we forget to judge ourselves. We're too busy SEEKING someone who we think is righteous. We're too busy SEEKING someone who's good. Meanwhile, we forget to strive to BECOME a righteous person ourselves.

A question should arise, "Are we worthy of hoping to get a righteous partner?" The answer lies within ourselves. Don't dream of getting a righteous woman if you're not yet able to become a righteous man. Don't dream of getting a righteous man if you're not yet able to become a righteous woman.

Why keep SEEKING? Why not BECOME? Don't seek what's good; become the best. Don't seek a righteous person; become a righteous woman. Don't seek a righteous man; become a righteous man. Because even if we seek, if we ourselves don't become, Allah won't give.

However, if we become, without seeking,Allah has already prepared, because when it comes to a partner, Allah will give according to our personality and level of faith. The more we seek perfection, the more we won't get it, because true perfection doesn't exist; what exists is the sincerity of our hearts to accept imperfection.

Realize that what we get today is the best according to Allah..and never doubt, because that realization will make us..."

*Al-Husayn ◌ؓ said:*

The Prophet ﷺ asked a lady, “Do you have a husband?” She said, “Yes.”

He ﷺ said, “How are you with him?” She said, “I do not fall short in serving him, except in what I am unable to do.”

He ﷺ said, “Then pay attention to how you are with him, for he is your Paradise or your Hell.”

📚 Sahih al-Jami‘ 1509

Marriage is not a photoshoot. Not matching outfits, cinematic reels, or one night of applause.
Marriage is two exhausted people still choosing each other after life has broken them differently.
It is holding hands in hospital corridors. Eating cold food after long arguments. Paying bills with silent anxiety. Watching dreams fail, parents age, health collapse, and still saying:
“I am here.”
Real marriage is not built on butterflies. It is built on endurance. On forgiveness repeated a thousand times. On staying soft when life turns hard.
Anyone can celebrate together in one night light. The rare ones survive together in darkness, may be for life.

The story of Uwais Al-Qarni رحمه الله

“The story of Uwais Al-Qarni was mentioned in Sahih Muslim as well as in other books. Now even though he was from the Tabi’een and did not see the Messenger [ صلى الله عليه و سلم], the Messenger [صلى الله عليه و سلم ] had advised Umar ibn Al Khattaab رضي الله عنه that if he meets [Uwais] then he, Umar, should ask [Uwais] to ask Allah to forgive him and to make supplication for him.

Asir ibn Jaabir رضي الله عنه narrated:

Whenever people would come from Yemen, Umar رضي الله عنه would ask them, “Is Uways Al-Qaranee amongst you?” until, one year, he met Uways.

He said, “Are you Uways Al-Qaranee?” He said, “Yes.”

Umar continued, “From Muraad, then Qaran?” He said, “Yes.”

Umar then asked, “Were you once afflicted with leprosy and your skin healed except for a dirham’s area?” Uways said, “Yes.”

Umar finally asked, “Do you have a mother (that is alive)?” He said, “Yes.”

Umar then said, “I heard the Messenger of Allah صلى الله عليه و say, ‘Uways ibn Aamir will come to you with the delegations from Yemen, from Muraad, then from Qaran. He was once afflicted with leprosy and his skin healed except for a dirham’s area. He has a mother, and he treats her kindly. If he was to ever swear by Allah (for something) Allah would fulfill his oath. If you can, request that he ask forgiveness for you.”

Umar then requested from Uways, “Ask forgiveness for me.” And Uways Al-Qaranee did.

[Sahih Muslim]

Marriage is one of the easiest thing in Islam but I don't even understand some of you and your family.
The problem of your family is just to show off and your problem too is just to show off to your friends.

Maybe already you even made someone who did not pay your bride price to have sex with you free and now someone want to marry you and you are even given the person headache with plenty things, don't your family know you are already cheap for haven sex already with someone or even that so call man who came home to marry you?

I beg let someone son breath, make marriage simple and easy for it is in Islam.

If he has the means Alhamdulillaah but if he do not, don't stress him let him do what he is capable of without borrowing.

Why is Adultery Worse in the Case of Women?

Ibn Al-Qayyim rahimahullah states:

«الزِنى من المرأة أقبحُ منه بالرجل، لأنها تزيد على هتكِ حقِّ الله: إفسادَ فراشِ بعلها، وتعليقَ نسبٍ من غيره عليه، وفضيحةَ أهلها وأقاربها، والجناية على محض حق الزوج، وخيانته فيه، وإسقاط حرمته عند الناس، وتعييره بإمساك البغى، وغير ذلك من مفاسد زناها».

“Adultery is more repulsive in the case of a woman compared to a man, because she doesn't just violate the right of Allāh, she exceeds that by: contaminating her husband’s bed, tying someone else’s lineage to him, dishonouring her family and relatives, violating her husband’s right and betraying him as it relates to that, disgracing his reputation with the people, causing him to be shamed for staying married to an adultress, and other evils which arise due to her (committing) adultery.”

[Zaad Al-Ma’ād (5/377)]

-Hauwa Abdulrahman

Every man wants to marry a woman who gives him peace, but many men forget that a woman's peace is a reflection of how he treats her.

5 Things Your Marriage Probably Needs EVERY DAY...

1. PRAISE: Tell your spouse every day that you appreciate them and tell them what they do well. Make it your daily goal to focus on what they do right ... more than you do what that do wrong.

2. AFFECTION: Kind words, touching, hugging, kissing, cuddling, etc should be a daily activity in your marriage. Say "I love you," each day. Give a hug and a kiss.

3. CHECK IN: Take a few moments everyday to check in. Ask your spouse, "How was your day?" or "Are you doing okay?" or "Is there anything I could do to help you?"

4. PRAY: Pray for your marriage, spouse and family every day. This is one of the greatest ways to bless your marriage and family.

5. TIME: Spend some quality time together each day. Quality time is giving your undivided attention, not just being in the same room together.