Forwarded from Muslim Children Tips
You can be successful, respected, and admired by people… but if you’ve failed your parents, you’ve missed something huge.
They carried you before you could walk, fed you before you could earn, and loved you when you had nothing to offer in return.
Now roles reverse… and suddenly patience becomes “too much,” calls become “later,” and time becomes “when I’m free.”
Allah didn’t just recommend kindness to parents — He placed it right after His worship.
Not just obedience… but ihsaan — excellence.
Lower your voice.
Watch your tone.
Show up for them — not when it’s convenient, but when it matters. Because one day, that door will close… and no amount of regret will bring it back.
#Parents #RespectParents #LoveYourParents #FamilyFirst #IslamicReminder
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They carried you before you could walk, fed you before you could earn, and loved you when you had nothing to offer in return.
Now roles reverse… and suddenly patience becomes “too much,” calls become “later,” and time becomes “when I’m free.”
Allah didn’t just recommend kindness to parents — He placed it right after His worship.
Not just obedience… but ihsaan — excellence.
Lower your voice.
Watch your tone.
Show up for them — not when it’s convenient, but when it matters. Because one day, that door will close… and no amount of regret will bring it back.
#Parents #RespectParents #LoveYourParents #FamilyFirst #IslamicReminder
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*🌿 Etiquette of Advising and Correcting Parents 🌿*
📖 The noble Tābiʿī Hasan al-Basri (d. 110 AH) was asked:
“Should a person advise his parents to do good and forbid them from wrong?”
💬 He said:
“If they accept, then advise them…
but if they dislike it, then remain silent.”
📚 (Al-Amr bil Maʿrūf wa an-Nahy ʿan al-Munkar – Ibn Abī al-Dunyā: 40)
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📖 Imam Malik ibn Anas (d. 179 AH) was asked the same question:
💬 He said:
“Yes… but with humility,
and remain gentle and lowered before them.”
📚 (Al-Jāmiʿ – Ibn Abī Zayd al-Qayrawānī: 1/157)
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📖 Ishaq ibn Rahwayh (d. 238 AH) was asked:
“Should a person advise his father and forbid him from wrong?”
💬 He said:
“Advise him gently…
and do not say anything in front of others.”
📚 (Masāʾil Ḥarb al-Kirmānī: 2/955)
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📖 Ahmad ibn Hanbal (d. 241 AH) said:
💬 “If he sees his father doing something inappropriate,
he should correct him without harshness or bad behavior,
and never speak harshly.
If the father does not accept, then leave him as he is.
The case of one’s father is not like that of others.”
📚 (Al-Ādāb al-Sharʿiyyah – Ibn Mufliḥ: 1/449)
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📖 Sanami Hanafi (d. 734 AH) said:
💬 “In the case of parents, the method of enjoining good
is to inform them once.
If they accept, then that is good.
But if they show displeasure, leave them as they are,
and make duʿā and seek forgiveness for them.
This was the way of Prophet Ibrahim (peace be upon him).”
📚 (Niṣāb al-Iḥtisāb: 197)
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📌 Summary:
✔️ Be gentle and respectful
✔️ Lower yourself with humility
✔️ Do not correct them publicly
✔️ Advise once only
✔️ Then make duʿā for them
📚 The jurists are agreed that with parents,
enjoining good and forbidding evil
must remain within gentle verbal advice only.
(Al-Mawsūʿah al-Fiqhiyyah al-Kuwaytiyyah: 17/262)
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📖 The noble Tābiʿī Hasan al-Basri (d. 110 AH) was asked:
“Should a person advise his parents to do good and forbid them from wrong?”
💬 He said:
“If they accept, then advise them…
but if they dislike it, then remain silent.”
📚 (Al-Amr bil Maʿrūf wa an-Nahy ʿan al-Munkar – Ibn Abī al-Dunyā: 40)
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📖 Imam Malik ibn Anas (d. 179 AH) was asked the same question:
💬 He said:
“Yes… but with humility,
and remain gentle and lowered before them.”
📚 (Al-Jāmiʿ – Ibn Abī Zayd al-Qayrawānī: 1/157)
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📖 Ishaq ibn Rahwayh (d. 238 AH) was asked:
“Should a person advise his father and forbid him from wrong?”
💬 He said:
“Advise him gently…
and do not say anything in front of others.”
📚 (Masāʾil Ḥarb al-Kirmānī: 2/955)
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📖 Ahmad ibn Hanbal (d. 241 AH) said:
💬 “If he sees his father doing something inappropriate,
he should correct him without harshness or bad behavior,
and never speak harshly.
If the father does not accept, then leave him as he is.
The case of one’s father is not like that of others.”
📚 (Al-Ādāb al-Sharʿiyyah – Ibn Mufliḥ: 1/449)
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📖 Sanami Hanafi (d. 734 AH) said:
💬 “In the case of parents, the method of enjoining good
is to inform them once.
If they accept, then that is good.
But if they show displeasure, leave them as they are,
and make duʿā and seek forgiveness for them.
This was the way of Prophet Ibrahim (peace be upon him).”
📚 (Niṣāb al-Iḥtisāb: 197)
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📌 Summary:
✔️ Be gentle and respectful
✔️ Lower yourself with humility
✔️ Do not correct them publicly
✔️ Advise once only
✔️ Then make duʿā for them
📚 The jurists are agreed that with parents,
enjoining good and forbidding evil
must remain within gentle verbal advice only.
(Al-Mawsūʿah al-Fiqhiyyah al-Kuwaytiyyah: 17/262)
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Ibn al-Qayyim رحمه الله said:
"The tongue is like a lion. If you let it loose, it will wound someone." (Al-Fawa'id, Ibn al-Qayyim)
Most relationships were not destroyed by actions. They were destroyed by words said in the wrong moment.
"The tongue is like a lion. If you let it loose, it will wound someone." (Al-Fawa'id, Ibn al-Qayyim)
Most relationships were not destroyed by actions. They were destroyed by words said in the wrong moment.
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Can I subscribe to matrimonial platforms if I still haven't gotten married | Sheikh Aziz bin Farhan Al Anizi حفظه الله
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A woman is fully capable of displaying her beauty, wearing revealing clothes, styling her hair, and adorning herself in every way.
But Allah honored us with a religion that teaches us dignity over display, modesty over attention, and protection over exposure.
We are not products made for every passing eye. Our beauty was not created to be displayed for strangers and public validation.
In front of our husbands, we can beautify ourselves however we wish. But outside, we choose modesty for the sake of Allah, not because we are forced, but because we know our worth and what Allah commanded us to guard.
May Allah keep our sisters firm upon modesty, purity, and obedience to Him, Ameen 🤲🏻
But Allah honored us with a religion that teaches us dignity over display, modesty over attention, and protection over exposure.
We are not products made for every passing eye. Our beauty was not created to be displayed for strangers and public validation.
In front of our husbands, we can beautify ourselves however we wish. But outside, we choose modesty for the sake of Allah, not because we are forced, but because we know our worth and what Allah commanded us to guard.
May Allah keep our sisters firm upon modesty, purity, and obedience to Him, Ameen 🤲🏻
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Shaykh Salih al-Fawzan حفظه الله said: “The two spouses are the foundation of the family. If the relationship between the two of them is bad, then there will be no stability in the home.”
📚 •Dawr al-Mar’ah fī Tarbiyat al-Usrah
📚 •Dawr al-Mar’ah fī Tarbiyat al-Usrah
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If it is difficult to live with an immoral woman, it is better to divorce her
Abu Musa, may Allaah be pleased with him, reports that the Prophet, sallallaahu ʻalayhi wa sallam, said, "There are three people who call out to Allaah, but their supplication is not accepted: 1. A man who does not divorce his wife, despite her evil character. ...[Saheeh by Al-Haakim, and Ath-Thahabi's approval of his classification, Sheikh Al-Albaani classified it as sound.
I (the narrator Laqit) then said: Messenger of Allah, I have a wife who has something (wrong) in her tongue, i.e. she is insolent. He said: Then divorce her. I said: Messenger of Allah, she had company with me and I have children from her. He said: Then ask her (to obey you). If there is something good in her, she will do so (obey); and do not beat your wife as you beat your slave-girl. [Abu Dawood 142]
Abu Musa, may Allaah be pleased with him, reports that the Prophet, sallallaahu ʻalayhi wa sallam, said, "There are three people who call out to Allaah, but their supplication is not accepted: 1. A man who does not divorce his wife, despite her evil character. ...[Saheeh by Al-Haakim, and Ath-Thahabi's approval of his classification, Sheikh Al-Albaani classified it as sound.
I (the narrator Laqit) then said: Messenger of Allah, I have a wife who has something (wrong) in her tongue, i.e. she is insolent. He said: Then divorce her. I said: Messenger of Allah, she had company with me and I have children from her. He said: Then ask her (to obey you). If there is something good in her, she will do so (obey); and do not beat your wife as you beat your slave-girl. [Abu Dawood 142]
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Forwarded from Muslim Health Tips
Keep in mind below symptoms & whenever it feels unusual or abnormal, do consult a doctor immediately.
A 'Lump' or a 'Knot'.
A 'Lumpish' feel.
Retraction of nipple.
'Bloody' or 'blood stained' nipple discharge.
Thickening of skin over an area of the breast.
Lumps in the armpit.
Be Aware - Get Treated On Time.
Stay Blessed - Stay Safe.
BOOK AN APPOINTMENT for root cause healing program under supervision of Dr M. A. Chaudhary.
A 'Lump' or a 'Knot'.
A 'Lumpish' feel.
Retraction of nipple.
'Bloody' or 'blood stained' nipple discharge.
Thickening of skin over an area of the breast.
Lumps in the armpit.
Be Aware - Get Treated On Time.
Stay Blessed - Stay Safe.
BOOK AN APPOINTMENT for root cause healing program under supervision of Dr M. A. Chaudhary.
Marriage is one of the easiest thing in Islam but I don't even understand some of you and your family.
The problem of your family is just to show off and your problem too is just to show off to your friends.
Maybe already you even made someone who did not pay your bride price to have sex with you free and now someone want to marry you and you are even given the person headache with plenty things, don't your family know you are already cheap for haven sex already with someone or even that so call man who came home to marry you?
I beg let someone son breath, make marriage simple and easy for it is in Islam.
If he has the means, alhamdulillaah but if he do not, don't stress him let him do what he is capable of without borrowing.
The problem of your family is just to show off and your problem too is just to show off to your friends.
Maybe already you even made someone who did not pay your bride price to have sex with you free and now someone want to marry you and you are even given the person headache with plenty things, don't your family know you are already cheap for haven sex already with someone or even that so call man who came home to marry you?
I beg let someone son breath, make marriage simple and easy for it is in Islam.
If he has the means, alhamdulillaah but if he do not, don't stress him let him do what he is capable of without borrowing.
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A Woman Without a Male Guardian is Easy Prey
A woman once came to Makkah to perform Hajj and ʿUmrah. She was very beautiful. When she went to throw the stones at the Jamarāt, the famous poet ʿUmar ibn Abī Rabīʿah, who was known for admiring and praising women, saw her. He spoke to her, but she did not answer.
On the second night, he approached her again. She shouted at him, saying: “Stay away from me! I am in the Sacred Sanctuary of Allah, during days of great holiness.”
He kept insisting, so she became afraid that people might notice. She left quickly and returned to her tent.
On the third night, she said to her brother: “Come with me and show me the rites.”
When ʿUmar ibn Abī Rabīʿah saw her brother with her, he stayed where he was and did not approach her. She laughed and said her famous words:
تعدو الكلابُ على من لا أسود له
وتتَّقي صولة المستأسد الضاري
“Dogs attack the one who has no lion to protect him, but they fear the charge of a strong, fierce lion.”
When the Caliph Abū Jaʿfar Al-Manṣūr heard this story, he said:
“I wish that every young woman of Quraysh could hear this story.”
In another land, there was a wise and righteous woman. She lived with a young girl. Whenever the girl wanted to go out, the woman would say to her son:
“Go with your sister. A woman without a man to protect her is like a sheep among wolves—even the weakest of them becomes bold toward her.”
A message to fathers, mothers, brothers, and husbands:
If she was bothered even in the Sacred House of Allah, then what about our markets and streets? O protectors of women, do not leave them alone—not because you doubt them, but because you want to protect them and safeguard their honour.
[Uyūn Al-Akhbār by Ibn Qutaybah (107/4)]
A woman once came to Makkah to perform Hajj and ʿUmrah. She was very beautiful. When she went to throw the stones at the Jamarāt, the famous poet ʿUmar ibn Abī Rabīʿah, who was known for admiring and praising women, saw her. He spoke to her, but she did not answer.
On the second night, he approached her again. She shouted at him, saying: “Stay away from me! I am in the Sacred Sanctuary of Allah, during days of great holiness.”
He kept insisting, so she became afraid that people might notice. She left quickly and returned to her tent.
On the third night, she said to her brother: “Come with me and show me the rites.”
When ʿUmar ibn Abī Rabīʿah saw her brother with her, he stayed where he was and did not approach her. She laughed and said her famous words:
تعدو الكلابُ على من لا أسود له
وتتَّقي صولة المستأسد الضاري
“Dogs attack the one who has no lion to protect him, but they fear the charge of a strong, fierce lion.”
When the Caliph Abū Jaʿfar Al-Manṣūr heard this story, he said:
“I wish that every young woman of Quraysh could hear this story.”
In another land, there was a wise and righteous woman. She lived with a young girl. Whenever the girl wanted to go out, the woman would say to her son:
“Go with your sister. A woman without a man to protect her is like a sheep among wolves—even the weakest of them becomes bold toward her.”
A message to fathers, mothers, brothers, and husbands:
If she was bothered even in the Sacred House of Allah, then what about our markets and streets? O protectors of women, do not leave them alone—not because you doubt them, but because you want to protect them and safeguard their honour.
[Uyūn Al-Akhbār by Ibn Qutaybah (107/4)]
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*Some married men cannot take a second wife, they are just sampling different ladies using the claim, 'I want to marry a second wife', to exploit sisters sexually. Be mindful!!!*
Abu Sheikh
Abu Sheikh
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Al-Qurṭubī rahimahuLlaah said:
❝Amongst humans, the ones shayṭān most often target are women, especially during their menstruation.❞
Tafsīr al-Qurṭubī 2/283
❝Amongst humans, the ones shayṭān most often target are women, especially during their menstruation.❞
Tafsīr al-Qurṭubī 2/283
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In our circle, most brothers get married while struggling. Family members and friends will have to support him, to wed. Some brothers started in one room before living in flats. If you know any brother who wants to get married, and shoulders the responsibilities, he deserves accolades, because uncultured men will rather seek haram sex for free without responsibilities.
To be a man is not a joke, it requires consistent prayer and efforts. He makes his money alone, but spend more than 80% on his wife and children. It takes a religious understanding to do this. Unrefined men want 'baby mamas', impregnate these women and refuse to be involved in responsibilities, being a responsible husband and father is a virtue.
Many married men feel this weight deeply, even if they don't always say it out loud. As a man, you're expected to be the rock provider of accommodation, food, clothing, protector, lover, handyman, emotional supporter, and sometimes even the villain when things get tough. The society does not forgive a man who is unable to provide.
While a married man is going through tough time, he needs a supportive wife. If you're feeling overwhelmed right now, you're not alone and it's okay to admit it. Talk to your wife if you can, or find trusted mentors, or even a counselor to vent to. Bottling it up makes it heavier.
Abu Sheikh
To be a man is not a joke, it requires consistent prayer and efforts. He makes his money alone, but spend more than 80% on his wife and children. It takes a religious understanding to do this. Unrefined men want 'baby mamas', impregnate these women and refuse to be involved in responsibilities, being a responsible husband and father is a virtue.
Many married men feel this weight deeply, even if they don't always say it out loud. As a man, you're expected to be the rock provider of accommodation, food, clothing, protector, lover, handyman, emotional supporter, and sometimes even the villain when things get tough. The society does not forgive a man who is unable to provide.
While a married man is going through tough time, he needs a supportive wife. If you're feeling overwhelmed right now, you're not alone and it's okay to admit it. Talk to your wife if you can, or find trusted mentors, or even a counselor to vent to. Bottling it up makes it heavier.
Abu Sheikh
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🚧Advice to the Youth regarding Haraam Communications with the Opposite Sex Via Social Media Texting Etc 🚧
_The Mufti Shaykh Abdul-Azeez Aaalish-Shaykh_
O Muslims, youth from the Muslim males and females have engaged in these websites and have regretted that; but their regret did not benefit them. They regretted that which has occurred and their error became clear to them. (It also became clear) that some of the youth of the Ummah are wolves in the images of men; they deceive and delude; they do not bring benefit. They exhaust their resources in the Haraam without the fear of Allaah to prevent them from their falsehood and deter them from continuing in their crimes.
An article was written regarding (people) who were tried with this calamity and affliction; and that which occurred from (impermissible) communication and that which occurred as a result of these websites from the destruction of homes and corruption of characters and the dissolving modesty, chastity, and nobility.
It says regarding some of those who were tried with this calamity that a woman spent a number of years with her husband in tranquility and goodness; security and chastity, until she was tried with these websites at the prompting of a friend, or the likes of that. She began a relationship with a youth who deceived her and deluded her; he corrupted her against her husband and promised her that if she separates from her husband then he would be her husband. She worked until she separated from her husband due to the scheme of that despicable person.
When he caused her to fall into that which she fell into and the affair resulted in Faahishah with her, he separated from her. She called him repeatedly, but he said: "I cannot trust someone who is lowly (like you); one who deceives once would deceive again (i.e., if you deceived your husband you would deceive me) I know good women and I have proposed to them in a legislative manner, and not by way of those devices."
This, O brother, is the result of these matters. So have Taqwa of Allaah O Muslim youth. Do not begin relationships by way of these forums; such that it would harm you in your religion and corrupt your character.
Source: http://ar.miraath.net/article/1521
Summary translation by Raha ibn Donald Batts
_The Mufti Shaykh Abdul-Azeez Aaalish-Shaykh_
O Muslims, youth from the Muslim males and females have engaged in these websites and have regretted that; but their regret did not benefit them. They regretted that which has occurred and their error became clear to them. (It also became clear) that some of the youth of the Ummah are wolves in the images of men; they deceive and delude; they do not bring benefit. They exhaust their resources in the Haraam without the fear of Allaah to prevent them from their falsehood and deter them from continuing in their crimes.
An article was written regarding (people) who were tried with this calamity and affliction; and that which occurred from (impermissible) communication and that which occurred as a result of these websites from the destruction of homes and corruption of characters and the dissolving modesty, chastity, and nobility.
It says regarding some of those who were tried with this calamity that a woman spent a number of years with her husband in tranquility and goodness; security and chastity, until she was tried with these websites at the prompting of a friend, or the likes of that. She began a relationship with a youth who deceived her and deluded her; he corrupted her against her husband and promised her that if she separates from her husband then he would be her husband. She worked until she separated from her husband due to the scheme of that despicable person.
When he caused her to fall into that which she fell into and the affair resulted in Faahishah with her, he separated from her. She called him repeatedly, but he said: "I cannot trust someone who is lowly (like you); one who deceives once would deceive again (i.e., if you deceived your husband you would deceive me) I know good women and I have proposed to them in a legislative manner, and not by way of those devices."
This, O brother, is the result of these matters. So have Taqwa of Allaah O Muslim youth. Do not begin relationships by way of these forums; such that it would harm you in your religion and corrupt your character.
Source: http://ar.miraath.net/article/1521
Summary translation by Raha ibn Donald Batts
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Keep this Zikr moist on the tongue for the next 9 days..
اللَّهُ أَكْبَرُ ، اللَّهُ أَكْبَرُ ، اللَّهُ أَكْبَرُ
لاَ إِلَهَ إِلاَّ اللَّهُ
اللَّهُ أَكْبَرُ ، اللَّهُ أَكْبَرُ
و للَّهِ الحمد
Allāhu Akbar, Allāhu Akbar, Allāhu Akbar
Lā ilāha illAllāh
Allāhu Akbar, Allāhu Akbar
Wa lillāhil-ḥamd
Allah is the Greatest, Allah is the Greatest, Allah is the Greatest.
There is no god worthy of worship except Allah.
Allah is the Greatest, Allah is the Greatest.
And to Allah belongs all praise.
اللَّهُ أَكْبَرُ ، اللَّهُ أَكْبَرُ ، اللَّهُ أَكْبَرُ
لاَ إِلَهَ إِلاَّ اللَّهُ
اللَّهُ أَكْبَرُ ، اللَّهُ أَكْبَرُ
و للَّهِ الحمد
Allāhu Akbar, Allāhu Akbar, Allāhu Akbar
Lā ilāha illAllāh
Allāhu Akbar, Allāhu Akbar
Wa lillāhil-ḥamd
Allah is the Greatest, Allah is the Greatest, Allah is the Greatest.
There is no god worthy of worship except Allah.
Allah is the Greatest, Allah is the Greatest.
And to Allah belongs all praise.
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"In the end, what we need is someone who brings out the best in us:
someone who inspires us to grow and become better versions of ourselves in the eyes of Allah.
. A partner who uplifts and guides us to achieve our dreams, rather than tearing us down.
Someone who loves us unconditionally, yet encourages us to work on our flaws and become better.
A person who is humble, honest, and authentic in every way. With a heart full of forgiveness, patience, and wisdom to teach and guide.
Someone who shows genuine gratitude for the journey we share, despite our imperfections. Together, we can navigate life's challenges and grow, even in our imperfection."
someone who inspires us to grow and become better versions of ourselves in the eyes of Allah.
. A partner who uplifts and guides us to achieve our dreams, rather than tearing us down.
Someone who loves us unconditionally, yet encourages us to work on our flaws and become better.
A person who is humble, honest, and authentic in every way. With a heart full of forgiveness, patience, and wisdom to teach and guide.
Someone who shows genuine gratitude for the journey we share, despite our imperfections. Together, we can navigate life's challenges and grow, even in our imperfection."
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Marriage isn’t just about finding the right person, it’s also about becoming the right partner.
True love is built on self-reflection, patience, & growth.
Allah describes marriage as a source of "tranquility, love, & mercy." That starts with working on our own character first
True love is built on self-reflection, patience, & growth.
Allah describes marriage as a source of "tranquility, love, & mercy." That starts with working on our own character first
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We are living in a time, where men and women justify fornication and adultery, may Allah protect us... Aameen
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