Polygany is not just about a man having many wives but for every woman having a husband because Allah has created more women than men. Dear sisters, Allah made polygamy lawful and for you hating it, is an act of disbelief! Don't let jealousy make you hate what Allah has made lawful!!!🌹
Shaykh Ibn Uthaymeen رحمه الله said: “Polygyny in this age is more necessary than it was in the past due to the large number of women, the abundance of temptations, and women’s need for those who will preserve their chastity.”
📚 •Sharḥ Ḥilyat Ṭālib al-‘Ilm
Shaykh Ibn Uthaymeen رحمه الله said: “Polygyny in this age is more necessary than it was in the past due to the large number of women, the abundance of temptations, and women’s need for those who will preserve their chastity.”
📚 •Sharḥ Ḥilyat Ṭālib al-‘Ilm
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Finding the right man for marriage is the second challenge. The first challenge is to be the right woman that a right man wants to marry.
And Vice Versa.
Are you a good marriage candidate?
And Vice Versa.
Are you a good marriage candidate?
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“When the women of the city heard of what the wife of the azīz did (as in the story of Prophet Yūsuf عليه السلام), they said, out of astonishment and condemning, ‘Verily we see her in a clear error.’ [Sūrat Yūsuf 30] Then, it wasn’t long until they fell into the same fitnah!
So do not look to the one who fell into a sin as if you are better than them, because nothing is between you and this sin except the mercy of Allāh upon you [that He did not let you do this]. So do not remove your cover by your arrogance, and make du’ā for them for repentance, and for yourself for salvation.”
So do not look to the one who fell into a sin as if you are better than them, because nothing is between you and this sin except the mercy of Allāh upon you [that He did not let you do this]. So do not remove your cover by your arrogance, and make du’ā for them for repentance, and for yourself for salvation.”
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Hadith : Dua to get love of Allah Subhanhu
RasoolAllah SallAllahu Alahi Wasallam supplicated like this
اللَّهُمَّ إِنِّي أَسْأَلُكَ حُبَّكَ وَحُبَّ مَنْ يُحِبُّكَ وَحُبَّ عَمَلٍ يُقَرِّبُ إِلَى حُبِّكَ
Allahumma inni AsAluka Hubbak, Wa Hubba mann Yuhibbuk, Wa Hubba Amalin Yuqarribu ila Hubbik.
O Allah I ask You for Your love and the love of whomever You love, and the of the deeds that bring one nearer to Your love.
Jamia Tirmizi, Book 44, 3235-Hasan
RasoolAllah SallAllahu Alahi Wasallam supplicated like this
اللَّهُمَّ إِنِّي أَسْأَلُكَ حُبَّكَ وَحُبَّ مَنْ يُحِبُّكَ وَحُبَّ عَمَلٍ يُقَرِّبُ إِلَى حُبِّكَ
Allahumma inni AsAluka Hubbak, Wa Hubba mann Yuhibbuk, Wa Hubba Amalin Yuqarribu ila Hubbik.
O Allah I ask You for Your love and the love of whomever You love, and the of the deeds that bring one nearer to Your love.
Jamia Tirmizi, Book 44, 3235-Hasan
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يُقال قديماً:
كان الفرق بين الجارية والحرة في الأماكن العامة أن الحرة تتحجب والجاريّة تتزين لأنها تُباع وتُشترى.
"ما أكثر الجواري اليوم"!
والله المُستعان...
It used to be said in the past:
The difference in public places between a slave woman and a free woman was that the free woman would veil herself, while the slave woman would adorn herself because she was bought and sold.
"How numerous are the slave women today!"
And Allah is the One whose help is sought...
كان الفرق بين الجارية والحرة في الأماكن العامة أن الحرة تتحجب والجاريّة تتزين لأنها تُباع وتُشترى.
"ما أكثر الجواري اليوم"!
والله المُستعان...
It used to be said in the past:
The difference in public places between a slave woman and a free woman was that the free woman would veil herself, while the slave woman would adorn herself because she was bought and sold.
"How numerous are the slave women today!"
And Allah is the One whose help is sought...
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Some of our sisters are suffering in their marriages because their parents didn't teach them how to be good wives, and these sisters do not bother to learn either.
Marriage is not just about speaking English or acquiring certificates.
Marriage is beyond the 'rosy' things you see on social media and in movies.
If you cannot take proper care of the home and your husband, you're not wife material.
And if you think you can outsource every single thing, you'll later outsource your husband to a caring and homely co-wife.
My advice to our single sisters is for them to learn everything possible to be a homely wife before stepping into marriage.
Know how to cook.
Know how to keep the home sparkling clean 🫧.
Know how to lay your beddings.
Know how to pamper your husband.
Know how to take care of the kids.
Know your duties as a wife and a mother.
Allah has blessed you with a caring and responsible man; the best way to show gratitude is to make the home a place of peace for him and not of worries.
Barakallahu feekum.
Marriage is not just about speaking English or acquiring certificates.
Marriage is beyond the 'rosy' things you see on social media and in movies.
If you cannot take proper care of the home and your husband, you're not wife material.
And if you think you can outsource every single thing, you'll later outsource your husband to a caring and homely co-wife.
My advice to our single sisters is for them to learn everything possible to be a homely wife before stepping into marriage.
Know how to cook.
Know how to keep the home sparkling clean 🫧.
Know how to lay your beddings.
Know how to pamper your husband.
Know how to take care of the kids.
Know your duties as a wife and a mother.
Allah has blessed you with a caring and responsible man; the best way to show gratitude is to make the home a place of peace for him and not of worries.
Barakallahu feekum.
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Some wives are waiting for their husbands to become more romantic.
Some husbands are waiting for their wives to become more affectionate.
Both are sitting there waiting.
Nobody makes the moves, no one wants to try
Then both complain:
"My spouse has changed."
Sometimes the marriage doesn't need a miracle.
It needs somebody to make the first move.
Some husbands are waiting for their wives to become more affectionate.
Both are sitting there waiting.
Nobody makes the moves, no one wants to try
Then both complain:
"My spouse has changed."
Sometimes the marriage doesn't need a miracle.
It needs somebody to make the first move.
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Sister, why is "Khadijah was a businesswoman” the only thing you remember about her?
You forget that she was:
• A righteous woman with modesty
• A woman with noble manners.
• She was a wonderful mother.
• A loving wife.
• She obeyed her husband.
• She had no trouble following him.
• She was his biggest supporter.
• She suffered hardship after hardship, but remained faithful to her dīn and to her husband.
• She made her home righteous!
Next time you mention Khadijah bint Khuwaylid radiallahu ‘anha, try to mention these qualities and characteristics as well.
You forget that she was:
• A righteous woman with modesty
• A woman with noble manners.
• She was a wonderful mother.
• A loving wife.
• She obeyed her husband.
• She had no trouble following him.
• She was his biggest supporter.
• She suffered hardship after hardship, but remained faithful to her dīn and to her husband.
• She made her home righteous!
Next time you mention Khadijah bint Khuwaylid radiallahu ‘anha, try to mention these qualities and characteristics as well.
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Dear sister in Islaam,
If you still have your virginity intact, keep it for your prospective husband; don't bend to any peer pressure or societal bashing by people who claim virginity isn't dignifying.
Chastity and modesty carry a lot of dignity; don't let anyone make you think otherwise.
Be chaste like Maryam the daughter of Imran, the mother of Prophet 'Eesa, the only woman to whom Allâh ﷻ dedicated a whole verse for in the only Qur'an, the mothers of the believers are meant to be your role model, not celebrities and influencer who share negative mentalities, nudity, excessive love for worldly things, promiscuity, lack of modesty, feminist ideologies that goes against the tenets of Islaam, there's nothing in this world that protect the rights of women and raise their rank than Islaam, read Suratul Maryam and Surah An-Nisâ, you'll certainly learn a lot.
If you still have your virginity intact, keep it for your prospective husband; don't bend to any peer pressure or societal bashing by people who claim virginity isn't dignifying.
Chastity and modesty carry a lot of dignity; don't let anyone make you think otherwise.
Be chaste like Maryam the daughter of Imran, the mother of Prophet 'Eesa, the only woman to whom Allâh ﷻ dedicated a whole verse for in the only Qur'an, the mothers of the believers are meant to be your role model, not celebrities and influencer who share negative mentalities, nudity, excessive love for worldly things, promiscuity, lack of modesty, feminist ideologies that goes against the tenets of Islaam, there's nothing in this world that protect the rights of women and raise their rank than Islaam, read Suratul Maryam and Surah An-Nisâ, you'll certainly learn a lot.
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What Goes Around Comes Around
A couple were once seated for meals. Suddenly a knock was heard at the door from a beggar standing outside. The husband in a fit of rage approached the beggar, scolded him and chased him away. As time passed it so happened that this wealthy man became poor. He lost his entire empire and eventually even ended up divorcing his wife.
Life continued. She remarried and now was seated for meals with her new husband. Again a knock was heard at the door from a beggar. Her husband told her: “Take this food which was prepared for us and give it to the beggar outside.” She did as he instructed her but she returned crying. She replied: “The beggar outside was my previous husband.” Then she related to him the entire incident which transpired between her previous husband and his abuse to that beggar. Her new husband then told her: “By the qasm of Allah, I am that very same beggar.” (Al Mustatraf vol 1 pg 24)
Lesson: If you have been blessed with prosperity and ease, never regard it as your achievement. Also, do not look down upon those who are less fortunate or treat them with pride and arrogance. Instead, be humble and grateful to Allah Ta’ala and treat His creation with compassion and kindness. Otherwise, the tables could turn
A couple were once seated for meals. Suddenly a knock was heard at the door from a beggar standing outside. The husband in a fit of rage approached the beggar, scolded him and chased him away. As time passed it so happened that this wealthy man became poor. He lost his entire empire and eventually even ended up divorcing his wife.
Life continued. She remarried and now was seated for meals with her new husband. Again a knock was heard at the door from a beggar. Her husband told her: “Take this food which was prepared for us and give it to the beggar outside.” She did as he instructed her but she returned crying. She replied: “The beggar outside was my previous husband.” Then she related to him the entire incident which transpired between her previous husband and his abuse to that beggar. Her new husband then told her: “By the qasm of Allah, I am that very same beggar.” (Al Mustatraf vol 1 pg 24)
Lesson: If you have been blessed with prosperity and ease, never regard it as your achievement. Also, do not look down upon those who are less fortunate or treat them with pride and arrogance. Instead, be humble and grateful to Allah Ta’ala and treat His creation with compassion and kindness. Otherwise, the tables could turn
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“Keep this in mind: You are not marrying the wedding, you are marrying the husband or wife. While the wedding might seem very important to you, what matters is life after the wedding. The wedding is only a few hours, so be smart when spending your money. The spouse is long term, so make sure that is where you are spending your time wisely.”
from thepathofabeliever
from thepathofabeliever
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#Honouring_the_parents
قال الشيخ عبد المحسن بن حمد البدر حفظه الله، " بر الوالدين، من أسباب إجابة الدعاء "
[درس صحيح البخاري/ السبت ٩ ربيع الأول ١٤٤٠هـ / كتاب الأدب]
Shaykh 'Abdul-Muhsin bin Hamad al-'Badr (may Allāh preserve him) said,
“Honoring one's parents, is from the reasons the supplication is answered.”
[Dars Sahīh al-Bukhārī / Saturday 9th Rabī’ al-Awwal 1440 Hijrī / Kitāb al-Adab]
قال الشيخ عبد المحسن بن حمد البدر حفظه الله، " بر الوالدين، من أسباب إجابة الدعاء "
[درس صحيح البخاري/ السبت ٩ ربيع الأول ١٤٤٠هـ / كتاب الأدب]
Shaykh 'Abdul-Muhsin bin Hamad al-'Badr (may Allāh preserve him) said,
“Honoring one's parents, is from the reasons the supplication is answered.”
[Dars Sahīh al-Bukhārī / Saturday 9th Rabī’ al-Awwal 1440 Hijrī / Kitāb al-Adab]
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Forwarded from Muslim Health Tips
Man to man
1. Oysters + Beef liver + Eggs = Highest testosterone meal alive
2. Pomegranate + Beetroot + Watermelon = Blood flow unlocked
3. Broccoli + Onions + Garlic = Estrogen flushed naturally
4. Walnuts + Brazil nuts + Pumpkin seeds = Fertility in a handful
5. Salmon + Avocado + Olive oil = Hormone building fats
Eat with a purpose.
Every meal is a hormonal decision.
Add the following food combinations:
1. Ginger + Maca root + Honey = Libido ignited instantly
2. Dark chocolate + Almonds + Bananas = Stamina and energy maximized
3. Spinach + Citrus fruits + Asparagus = Nitric oxide boosted completely
4. Blueberries + Flaxseeds + Chia seeds = Prostate health protected
https://t.me/health049
1. Oysters + Beef liver + Eggs = Highest testosterone meal alive
2. Pomegranate + Beetroot + Watermelon = Blood flow unlocked
3. Broccoli + Onions + Garlic = Estrogen flushed naturally
4. Walnuts + Brazil nuts + Pumpkin seeds = Fertility in a handful
5. Salmon + Avocado + Olive oil = Hormone building fats
Eat with a purpose.
Every meal is a hormonal decision.
Add the following food combinations:
1. Ginger + Maca root + Honey = Libido ignited instantly
2. Dark chocolate + Almonds + Bananas = Stamina and energy maximized
3. Spinach + Citrus fruits + Asparagus = Nitric oxide boosted completely
4. Blueberries + Flaxseeds + Chia seeds = Prostate health protected
https://t.me/health049
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Bcoz women r hyper & there mode swings 101 times in a Day.
"If divorce was in the hands of some women, they would divorce their husband twenty times a day."
– الشيخ مقبل الوادعي
https://t.me/MuslimMarriageTips
"If divorce was in the hands of some women, they would divorce their husband twenty times a day."
– الشيخ مقبل الوادعي
https://t.me/MuslimMarriageTips
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Is your Spouse Afflicted, Suffering from Magic Jinn Possession!?
#Ruqyah and #Sabr – Shaykh Taamir Fatooh (May Allah Preserve Him Upon Good).
Question: - A man’s wife is under the opinion that her husband is possessed by a Jinn. He leaves his home and doesn’t return for days. He doesn’t sleep with his wife and is constantly angry. However, he does not want to sit with a Shaykh or Raaqin (one who is proficient in Ruqyah (casting spells or exorcism, legislated by Islaam). What is a wife to do in this situation? They also have children, who are afraid of him. By Allah, what do you advise shaykh?
Answer: - It is upon her to establish Sabr (Patience) and to study Ruqyah. She must learn and understand this for herself. She must learn how to apply Ruqyah upon herself. She must learn how to perform Ruqyah upon her husband, if he does not want to sit with anyone. He doesn’t want to sit with a Raaqin, nor a Shaykh. However, it is necessary that she studies Ruqyah and memorizes the Aayaat from the Qur’aan which are used for Ruqyah. Such as Aayah 102, from Suratul-Baqarah. As well as Aayatul-Kursiyy. It is upon her that she performs Ruqyah by using these 2 Aayah. As well as Mu’awwidhatayn (Suratul-Falaq and Suratun-Naas) and Suratul-Faatihah. She read these Aayaat upon her husband in abundance. She must supplicate to Allah before everything; that He removes this evil. She must establish Sabr in regards to this affair, because these affairs take time. Indeed these affairs take time. She must continue upon this affair through its duration, in sickness and in health in regards to these affairs.
It is necessary that whoever performs the Ruqyah and whoever marries must establish Sabr in regards to these affairs. Do not cease, in Ruqyah nor in Du’aa’. And with all of these statements, I ask Allah for His forgiveness and I repent to Him
Translated by: Aboo Abdir-Rahmaan Abdur-Raqeeb.
#Ruqyah and #Sabr – Shaykh Taamir Fatooh (May Allah Preserve Him Upon Good).
Question: - A man’s wife is under the opinion that her husband is possessed by a Jinn. He leaves his home and doesn’t return for days. He doesn’t sleep with his wife and is constantly angry. However, he does not want to sit with a Shaykh or Raaqin (one who is proficient in Ruqyah (casting spells or exorcism, legislated by Islaam). What is a wife to do in this situation? They also have children, who are afraid of him. By Allah, what do you advise shaykh?
Answer: - It is upon her to establish Sabr (Patience) and to study Ruqyah. She must learn and understand this for herself. She must learn how to apply Ruqyah upon herself. She must learn how to perform Ruqyah upon her husband, if he does not want to sit with anyone. He doesn’t want to sit with a Raaqin, nor a Shaykh. However, it is necessary that she studies Ruqyah and memorizes the Aayaat from the Qur’aan which are used for Ruqyah. Such as Aayah 102, from Suratul-Baqarah. As well as Aayatul-Kursiyy. It is upon her that she performs Ruqyah by using these 2 Aayah. As well as Mu’awwidhatayn (Suratul-Falaq and Suratun-Naas) and Suratul-Faatihah. She read these Aayaat upon her husband in abundance. She must supplicate to Allah before everything; that He removes this evil. She must establish Sabr in regards to this affair, because these affairs take time. Indeed these affairs take time. She must continue upon this affair through its duration, in sickness and in health in regards to these affairs.
It is necessary that whoever performs the Ruqyah and whoever marries must establish Sabr in regards to these affairs. Do not cease, in Ruqyah nor in Du’aa’. And with all of these statements, I ask Allah for His forgiveness and I repent to Him
Translated by: Aboo Abdir-Rahmaan Abdur-Raqeeb.
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