A pious spouse is not necessarily a 'loving' and 'caring' spouse. You may be married to tons of voluntary fasting, night prayers, and Qur'ān recitation. Some female Companions and Tābi'ūn suffered a similar fate. Some people are too pious to be romantic.
Sanusi Lafiagi
Sanusi Lafiagi
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May Allah guide our Muslim women.
Where are they heading?
They are raising questions against Islam and misinterpreting the law and words of Allah and the Sunnah of the Prophet salelahualehiwasalam.
If they want to remove their hijabs, be naked, and do what haram they want to do according to their desires. They are creating so many filthy, nasty, and disgusting things that are so dangerous, and they are going to destroy their own lives and the lives of others. May they all be guided before it’s too late.
But instead, why are you maligning, corrupting, and misleading other women against Islam?
That’s why it’s said that most of the people who enter hellfire are women.
That’s because of their lack of knowledge in Islam, and they are so much influenced by modern culture and vain desires.
May Allah guide them all to the right path, with right understanding and right knowledge of deen-e-Islam. Ameen.
May Allah bless every house with pious and righteous women. Ameen
May Allah protect all our wives, daughters, sisters, and mothers on the right and straight path that Allah loves most. Ameen.
Where are they heading?
They are raising questions against Islam and misinterpreting the law and words of Allah and the Sunnah of the Prophet salelahualehiwasalam.
If they want to remove their hijabs, be naked, and do what haram they want to do according to their desires. They are creating so many filthy, nasty, and disgusting things that are so dangerous, and they are going to destroy their own lives and the lives of others. May they all be guided before it’s too late.
But instead, why are you maligning, corrupting, and misleading other women against Islam?
That’s why it’s said that most of the people who enter hellfire are women.
That’s because of their lack of knowledge in Islam, and they are so much influenced by modern culture and vain desires.
May Allah guide them all to the right path, with right understanding and right knowledge of deen-e-Islam. Ameen.
May Allah bless every house with pious and righteous women. Ameen
May Allah protect all our wives, daughters, sisters, and mothers on the right and straight path that Allah loves most. Ameen.
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❌Sisters, don’t be deceived. A woman’s biological clock ticks faster than a man’s — and time doesn’t wait.❌
Modern society has sold women a lie: "You don’t need a man. Chase your career. Marriage and children can wait."
By the time many wake up, they’re deep into their 30s — successful, maybe — but alone, unprepared for family life, unfamiliar with homemaking, and without the tools to nurture a husband or raise children.
Suddenly, the silence hits. The empty house. The empty bed. No “I love you.” No child calling her “Mama.” No legacy.
They start looking — for meaning, for love, for purpose. But time is not on their side.
They’re now in competition with younger women raised with traditional values — or older women (divorced or widow) who’ve learned, through pain how to raise kids, take care of an household and family and learned that beauty and ambition are not everything.
💔 The Fantasy That Broke Them
Many sisters grow up fantasizing about love — not based on truth or deen — but on Disney fairytales and social media filters.
They want a “prince charming” who brings roses, plans magical proposals, and writes poetry under the stars — but they ignore the prophetic model of manhood.
They search for feelings... not qualities. They reject men who are simple, God-fearing, hard-working — men who would actually lead, protect, and honor them.
They chase butterflies and sparks, but forget to ask:
Does he pray Fajr in the masjid?
Does he lower his gaze?
Is he responsible?
Is he emotionally stable, patient, generous, and protective of his deen?
📜 The Prophet ﷺ didn’t teach us to look for a man with six-pack abs and a perfect Instagram profile —
He said:
“If someone with good character and deen comes to you [for marriage], marry him.” (Tirmidhi)
But the ummah raised a generation of sisters who confuse flirting with love, and attention with commitment.
They reject men who would lead them to Jannah, for boys who promise “forever” but can’t even commit to five daily prayers.
🤦 And then it dawns on them — the brutal truth:
They’ve been lied to.
❌By the media.
❌By the education system.
❌By their friends.
❌By a culture that pushed them away from what truly matters.
🛡 Sisters, understand this:
A devoted wife and loving mother is stronger, more resilient, more honored, and more fulfilled than any woman chasing promotions and paychecks.
40 hours in an office will never compare to the reward of raising righteous children and building a home filled with love — a living sadaqah jariyah that echoes into eternity.
✨ Return to the Sunnah.
✨ Redefine your standards by the Book of Allah and the example of His Messenger ﷺ.
✨ Don’t wake up too late.
Time is not on your side. But Allah still is — if you turn back now.
Modern society has sold women a lie: "You don’t need a man. Chase your career. Marriage and children can wait."
By the time many wake up, they’re deep into their 30s — successful, maybe — but alone, unprepared for family life, unfamiliar with homemaking, and without the tools to nurture a husband or raise children.
Suddenly, the silence hits. The empty house. The empty bed. No “I love you.” No child calling her “Mama.” No legacy.
They start looking — for meaning, for love, for purpose. But time is not on their side.
They’re now in competition with younger women raised with traditional values — or older women (divorced or widow) who’ve learned, through pain how to raise kids, take care of an household and family and learned that beauty and ambition are not everything.
💔 The Fantasy That Broke Them
Many sisters grow up fantasizing about love — not based on truth or deen — but on Disney fairytales and social media filters.
They want a “prince charming” who brings roses, plans magical proposals, and writes poetry under the stars — but they ignore the prophetic model of manhood.
They search for feelings... not qualities. They reject men who are simple, God-fearing, hard-working — men who would actually lead, protect, and honor them.
They chase butterflies and sparks, but forget to ask:
Does he pray Fajr in the masjid?
Does he lower his gaze?
Is he responsible?
Is he emotionally stable, patient, generous, and protective of his deen?
📜 The Prophet ﷺ didn’t teach us to look for a man with six-pack abs and a perfect Instagram profile —
He said:
“If someone with good character and deen comes to you [for marriage], marry him.” (Tirmidhi)
But the ummah raised a generation of sisters who confuse flirting with love, and attention with commitment.
They reject men who would lead them to Jannah, for boys who promise “forever” but can’t even commit to five daily prayers.
🤦 And then it dawns on them — the brutal truth:
They’ve been lied to.
❌By the media.
❌By the education system.
❌By their friends.
❌By a culture that pushed them away from what truly matters.
🛡 Sisters, understand this:
A devoted wife and loving mother is stronger, more resilient, more honored, and more fulfilled than any woman chasing promotions and paychecks.
40 hours in an office will never compare to the reward of raising righteous children and building a home filled with love — a living sadaqah jariyah that echoes into eternity.
✨ Return to the Sunnah.
✨ Redefine your standards by the Book of Allah and the example of His Messenger ﷺ.
✨ Don’t wake up too late.
Time is not on your side. But Allah still is — if you turn back now.
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Some parents refuse to marry their daughters to righteous suitors because they are poor. And they go ahead to marry them to unrighteous men who are rich, expressing hope that Allaah would guide them.
The question is:
Is the One Who guides not also the One Who provides?!
Don’t be afraid of poverty when it comes to marriage!
‘Umar ibn al-Khaṭṭāb رضي الله عنه said:
“I have never seen anything stranger than a man who does not seek richness through marriage, even though Allāh has promised, as a result of it (i.e. marriage):
‘…if they are poor, Allāh will enrich them out of His Bounty.’”
(سورة النور ٢٤:٣٢)
[Ad-Durr al-Manthūr, v. 5, pgs. 80-81]l
The question is:
Is the One Who guides not also the One Who provides?!
Don’t be afraid of poverty when it comes to marriage!
‘Umar ibn al-Khaṭṭāb رضي الله عنه said:
“I have never seen anything stranger than a man who does not seek richness through marriage, even though Allāh has promised, as a result of it (i.e. marriage):
‘…if they are poor, Allāh will enrich them out of His Bounty.’”
(سورة النور ٢٤:٣٢)
[Ad-Durr al-Manthūr, v. 5, pgs. 80-81]l
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A woman's true beauty is not in her features or shade of her skin, It is in her heart, her Iman, her Taqwa & her love for the Deen. So few men understand this, but even fewer women do.
We live in a world that constantly teaches women to measure their worth by mirrors, filters, and fleeting standards. Skin tone, facial features, body shape. All of it is made to seem like the definition of beauty. But the truth is far deeper, far more lasting.
A woman’s true beauty is not something the eye can fully capture. It is the softness of her heart when she remembers her Lord. It is the strength of her īmān when she is tested. It is her taqwā that holds her back when no one is watching. It is her love for the Deen that shapes her choices, her words, her silence, and her entire life.
Beauty fades. Youth slips away. Trends change. But a heart connected to Allah only grows more radiant with time.
How many women exhaust themselves trying to perfect their outer appearance yet neglect the very thing that gives them true value? And how many men fail to see beyond what is visible, overlooking the light of faith within a woman?
The real tragedy is not that people don’t understand this. It is that even women forget it themselves.
Work on your heart. Beautify your soul. Protect your modesty. Strengthen your connection with Allah. Because the beauty that is seen by people may earn admiration, but the beauty that is seen by Allah earns His love.
And what is greater than being loved by your Creator?
Choose a beauty that does not fade. A beauty that will stand for you on the day when nothing else will.
We live in a world that constantly teaches women to measure their worth by mirrors, filters, and fleeting standards. Skin tone, facial features, body shape. All of it is made to seem like the definition of beauty. But the truth is far deeper, far more lasting.
A woman’s true beauty is not something the eye can fully capture. It is the softness of her heart when she remembers her Lord. It is the strength of her īmān when she is tested. It is her taqwā that holds her back when no one is watching. It is her love for the Deen that shapes her choices, her words, her silence, and her entire life.
Beauty fades. Youth slips away. Trends change. But a heart connected to Allah only grows more radiant with time.
How many women exhaust themselves trying to perfect their outer appearance yet neglect the very thing that gives them true value? And how many men fail to see beyond what is visible, overlooking the light of faith within a woman?
The real tragedy is not that people don’t understand this. It is that even women forget it themselves.
Work on your heart. Beautify your soul. Protect your modesty. Strengthen your connection with Allah. Because the beauty that is seen by people may earn admiration, but the beauty that is seen by Allah earns His love.
And what is greater than being loved by your Creator?
Choose a beauty that does not fade. A beauty that will stand for you on the day when nothing else will.
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FORCED MARRIAGE IS NOT PERMISSIBLE IN ISLAM
Shaykh Jamal Al Harithi
A woman may be forced into marriage for example, a girl may be compelled by her father or brothers to marry someone, such as her cousin or a relative. This type of coercion often occurs among close kin, where she is pressured to marry someone they desire for her, even though she herself does not wish to do so.
The Prophet ﷺ established that a virgin must give her permission, and a previously married woman (thayyib) must give her consent. He said that “the consent of a virgin is signified by her silence.”
[Narrated by Al-Bukhārī]
Therefore, a woman must not be forced into marriage , neither a virgin nor a previously married woman. Likewise, a man must not be coerced into marrying.
If a woman is not to be forced, then it is even more fitting that a man should not be forced. Yet some people, due to tribal or familial pride rooted in pre-Islamic ignorance, compel their sons to marry certain women , such as their cousin or another relative, against their will. The man, though unwilling, consents out of pressure, and remains married for a time until the matter ends in divorce.
This occurs frequently in some societies, and I say of such communities that they are “ignorant societies”, not in the sense of disbelief, but in the sense of ignorance concerning the laws and guidance of Islam.
{Divorce and its causes}
Shaykh Jamal Al Harithi
A woman may be forced into marriage for example, a girl may be compelled by her father or brothers to marry someone, such as her cousin or a relative. This type of coercion often occurs among close kin, where she is pressured to marry someone they desire for her, even though she herself does not wish to do so.
The Prophet ﷺ established that a virgin must give her permission, and a previously married woman (thayyib) must give her consent. He said that “the consent of a virgin is signified by her silence.”
[Narrated by Al-Bukhārī]
Therefore, a woman must not be forced into marriage , neither a virgin nor a previously married woman. Likewise, a man must not be coerced into marrying.
If a woman is not to be forced, then it is even more fitting that a man should not be forced. Yet some people, due to tribal or familial pride rooted in pre-Islamic ignorance, compel their sons to marry certain women , such as their cousin or another relative, against their will. The man, though unwilling, consents out of pressure, and remains married for a time until the matter ends in divorce.
This occurs frequently in some societies, and I say of such communities that they are “ignorant societies”, not in the sense of disbelief, but in the sense of ignorance concerning the laws and guidance of Islam.
{Divorce and its causes}
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“And how many from women would come forward in yawm al Qiyāmah written in their books, ‘Adultress’, and she never committed adultery, and that is due to her perfume and her Tabarruj [a woman adorning herself] between the (non-mahram) men.”
Abū Mūsā al-Ash’ari said: the Messenger of Allāh (peace and blessings of Allāh be upon him) said: “Any woman who puts on perfume then passes by people so that they can smell her fragrance, is an adulteress.”
“And stay in your houses, and do not display yourselves like that of the times of ignorance.”
[al-Ahzāb 33:33]
Abū Mūsā al-Ash’ari said: the Messenger of Allāh (peace and blessings of Allāh be upon him) said: “Any woman who puts on perfume then passes by people so that they can smell her fragrance, is an adulteress.”
“And stay in your houses, and do not display yourselves like that of the times of ignorance.”
[al-Ahzāb 33:33]
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Necessary Test Before Marriage
1. HIV & Syphilis test
2. Genotype test
3. Hepatitis B & Hepatitis C
4. Blood Group/Rhesus
5. Pregnancy test
6. Sperm count/Fertility profile test
7. STD test
8. Blood disorder test
9. Complete Blood count
1. HIV & Syphilis test
2. Genotype test
3. Hepatitis B & Hepatitis C
4. Blood Group/Rhesus
5. Pregnancy test
6. Sperm count/Fertility profile test
7. STD test
8. Blood disorder test
9. Complete Blood count
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●•💎•● My sister, what is the purpose of your Abaya?•●
👤Sheikh Salih al Fawzaan
●•💠•● O my brothers! the purpose of the Abaya(*) is [to achieve] covering, not adornment, it is not a garment for adornment, and it is not permissible to be worn for adornment, to be embroidered, to have ornaments, or to open sleeves in it so it becomes like a shirt/thaub [in this case] it won't be an Abaya anymore, it will be a shirt/thaub
•●• So the abaya is for no other reason save covering, it should cover all the body, like a big cloak which is Al Jilbab (i.e, a garment which covers all the body).
•●• So its purpose is covering not adorning. Rather the purpose is covering the adornment in front of men.
•●• Accordingly is not permissible to invent new decorations/styles of the Abaya.
Calling [such Abaya] islamic is merely for marketing, while in reality it is not islamic, this [title] is for marketing purposes. For the islamic Abaya is that which covers [all the body] is thick, free from any ornaments, embroidery or adornment. It has to be plain, without decoration. Yes.
🌐 Source (https://www.alfawzan.af.org.sa/ar/node/3192) (Arabic)
(*) Abaya: an outdoor, sleeveless, women's overgarment, that hangs loosely from the head.
Benefit -95-
#Translation
Razaan's Benefits
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👤Sheikh Salih al Fawzaan
●•💠•● O my brothers! the purpose of the Abaya(*) is [to achieve] covering, not adornment, it is not a garment for adornment, and it is not permissible to be worn for adornment, to be embroidered, to have ornaments, or to open sleeves in it so it becomes like a shirt/thaub [in this case] it won't be an Abaya anymore, it will be a shirt/thaub
•●• So the abaya is for no other reason save covering, it should cover all the body, like a big cloak which is Al Jilbab (i.e, a garment which covers all the body).
•●• So its purpose is covering not adorning. Rather the purpose is covering the adornment in front of men.
•●• Accordingly is not permissible to invent new decorations/styles of the Abaya.
Calling [such Abaya] islamic is merely for marketing, while in reality it is not islamic, this [title] is for marketing purposes. For the islamic Abaya is that which covers [all the body] is thick, free from any ornaments, embroidery or adornment. It has to be plain, without decoration. Yes.
🌐 Source (https://www.alfawzan.af.org.sa/ar/node/3192) (Arabic)
(*) Abaya: an outdoor, sleeveless, women's overgarment, that hangs loosely from the head.
Benefit -95-
#Translation
Razaan's Benefits
t.me/Razaan_Space
📌 THE PUNISHMENT OF ZINĀ (FORNICATION) IS INDEED SCARY 📌
Imam Ad-Dhahabt relates in Kitaabul Kabaa'ir, that Rasul Allah PBUH said: "Whoever touches a woman who is not lawful for him with lust, he will be resurrected with his hands shackled to his neck on the Day of Judgment. If he kissed her, his lips will be cut off and thrown into the fire. He will then say, "What did I do?" If he committed fornication, his thighs will says, "I was mounted for something impermissible." Then, Allah S.W.T will look at him with such anger that the flesh on the man's face will peel off. Then his tongue will bear witness against him and say, "I spoke to that which was unlawful." Then his legs will say, "I walked towards something haram" Then his hands will say, "I held that which was impermissible for me to hold." Then his eyes will testify against him, "I gazed at that which was haram for me to gaze at." Then his private parts will say, "I committed the act."
Then one angel will say, "I heard it!" And another angel will say, "I wrote it down!" Then Allah will say, "I was aware of it but I concealed it."
*Those who boast with the evil deed they commit too 😗 because these people boasted about their relationship, broadcasted it to their friends, told the whole world about it and walked hand in hand with each other so that everybody knows of their sin, Allah~ will say to the angels: "0 angels! Take him away and torture him! My anger has increased on the one who has no shame."
*●Source📚: Kitabul Kabaair of Imam Ad-Dhahabt*
Allah says in Suratul Al-Isra' 17:32
وَلَا تَقْرَبُوا۟ ٱلزِّنَىٰٓۖ إِنَّهُۥ كَانَ فَٰحِشَةً وَسَآءَ سَبِيلًا
"And do not approach unlawful sexual intercourse. Indeed, it is ever an immorality and is evil as a way."
May Allāh save us and our Families from Zina and all deeds that leads to it. Aameen..
Imam Ad-Dhahabt relates in Kitaabul Kabaa'ir, that Rasul Allah PBUH said: "Whoever touches a woman who is not lawful for him with lust, he will be resurrected with his hands shackled to his neck on the Day of Judgment. If he kissed her, his lips will be cut off and thrown into the fire. He will then say, "What did I do?" If he committed fornication, his thighs will says, "I was mounted for something impermissible." Then, Allah S.W.T will look at him with such anger that the flesh on the man's face will peel off. Then his tongue will bear witness against him and say, "I spoke to that which was unlawful." Then his legs will say, "I walked towards something haram" Then his hands will say, "I held that which was impermissible for me to hold." Then his eyes will testify against him, "I gazed at that which was haram for me to gaze at." Then his private parts will say, "I committed the act."
Then one angel will say, "I heard it!" And another angel will say, "I wrote it down!" Then Allah will say, "I was aware of it but I concealed it."
*Those who boast with the evil deed they commit too 😗 because these people boasted about their relationship, broadcasted it to their friends, told the whole world about it and walked hand in hand with each other so that everybody knows of their sin, Allah~ will say to the angels: "0 angels! Take him away and torture him! My anger has increased on the one who has no shame."
*●Source📚: Kitabul Kabaair of Imam Ad-Dhahabt*
Allah says in Suratul Al-Isra' 17:32
وَلَا تَقْرَبُوا۟ ٱلزِّنَىٰٓۖ إِنَّهُۥ كَانَ فَٰحِشَةً وَسَآءَ سَبِيلًا
"And do not approach unlawful sexual intercourse. Indeed, it is ever an immorality and is evil as a way."
May Allāh save us and our Families from Zina and all deeds that leads to it. Aameen..
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Forwarded from Muslim Health Tips
Perimenopause does not announce itself. It takes things from you quietly and lets you believe it was your fault.
Look at the top row of this graphic. Forgetting ayat you have known for 20 years. Losing motivation for Sunnah acts you used to love. Feeling disconnected from the deen. Feeling distant from Allah.
Almost nobody says those four out loud. Women decide their iman got weak and make istighfar for something that is partly hormonal.
Estrogen is not only a reproductive hormone. It has receptors in your brain, your bones, your joints, your blood vessels and your gut. When it starts declining and swinging, memory, mood, sleep, focus and motivation go with it. That is why this list is so long, and why it feels like 40 unrelated problems instead of one transition.
This is not you falling apart. This is not a spiritual failure. This is a hormonal shift nobody prepared you for.
And much of it responds to real intervention. Stabilizing your blood sugar. Building muscle. Protecting your sleep. Sitting in front of a doctor who takes you seriously.
One thing I will not scroll past. If suicidal thoughts are on your list, please do not carry that alone. Call or text 988 in the US, any hour. For Muslim-specific support, Naseeha is 1-866-627-3342, also 24/7. Reaching out is not weakness in your deen.
Share this with a woman who thinks she is losing her deen. She may be losing estrogen. 🙌🏾
Look at the top row of this graphic. Forgetting ayat you have known for 20 years. Losing motivation for Sunnah acts you used to love. Feeling disconnected from the deen. Feeling distant from Allah.
Almost nobody says those four out loud. Women decide their iman got weak and make istighfar for something that is partly hormonal.
Estrogen is not only a reproductive hormone. It has receptors in your brain, your bones, your joints, your blood vessels and your gut. When it starts declining and swinging, memory, mood, sleep, focus and motivation go with it. That is why this list is so long, and why it feels like 40 unrelated problems instead of one transition.
This is not you falling apart. This is not a spiritual failure. This is a hormonal shift nobody prepared you for.
And much of it responds to real intervention. Stabilizing your blood sugar. Building muscle. Protecting your sleep. Sitting in front of a doctor who takes you seriously.
One thing I will not scroll past. If suicidal thoughts are on your list, please do not carry that alone. Call or text 988 in the US, any hour. For Muslim-specific support, Naseeha is 1-866-627-3342, also 24/7. Reaching out is not weakness in your deen.
Share this with a woman who thinks she is losing her deen. She may be losing estrogen. 🙌🏾
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High-value woman or high-value man is not really about money, beauty, status, followers, or how desirable someone appears to the world; it is about the quality of the person they have become when no one is watching.
A high-value person knows their worth without needing to prove that they are better than others; they possess self-respect without arrogance, confidence without entitlement, and strength without cruelty. They understand that emotional maturity means being able to regulate anger, desires, impulses, jealousy, and disappointment rather than becoming a slave to them. They take responsibility for their mistakes instead of blaming circumstances or manipulating others to escape accountability. They have boundaries because they understand that kindness without boundaries can become self-abandonment, and love without self-respect can become dependency.
They do not confuse intensity with intimacy, attention with love, or potential with character. They observe actions, consistency, integrity, and responsibility because they understand a profound truth: people should be judged by the patterns they repeatedly demonstrate, not by the promises they occasionally make.
They do not enter relationships believing they can rescue, repair, or transform another adult through love; they choose people based on who they actually are, not merely on who they might become. They can love deeply without losing themselves, forgive without becoming foolish, walk away without hatred, and remain compassionate without tolerating abuse.
They communicate honestly, handle disagreement with dignity, and refuse to participate in mind games, emotional blackmail, silent punishment, or manipulation. They continuously work on themselves because they understand that self-improvement is not about becoming superior to others, it is about becoming less controlled by one’s own weaknesses.
Ultimately, a high-value person is not someone who has convinced the world of their worth; it is someone whose character gives that worth substance. Their greatest asset is not what they possess, but who they are; not how many people desire them, but how wisely they choose; not how much attention they receive, but how much integrity they maintain when attention disappears.
In a world obsessed with appearance, validation, and superficial standards, true value remains remarkably simple: character, self-respect, emotional discipline, moral integrity, humility, responsibility, and the wisdom to choose relationships that preserve rather than destroy your dignity and peace.
A high-value person knows their worth without needing to prove that they are better than others; they possess self-respect without arrogance, confidence without entitlement, and strength without cruelty. They understand that emotional maturity means being able to regulate anger, desires, impulses, jealousy, and disappointment rather than becoming a slave to them. They take responsibility for their mistakes instead of blaming circumstances or manipulating others to escape accountability. They have boundaries because they understand that kindness without boundaries can become self-abandonment, and love without self-respect can become dependency.
They do not confuse intensity with intimacy, attention with love, or potential with character. They observe actions, consistency, integrity, and responsibility because they understand a profound truth: people should be judged by the patterns they repeatedly demonstrate, not by the promises they occasionally make.
They do not enter relationships believing they can rescue, repair, or transform another adult through love; they choose people based on who they actually are, not merely on who they might become. They can love deeply without losing themselves, forgive without becoming foolish, walk away without hatred, and remain compassionate without tolerating abuse.
They communicate honestly, handle disagreement with dignity, and refuse to participate in mind games, emotional blackmail, silent punishment, or manipulation. They continuously work on themselves because they understand that self-improvement is not about becoming superior to others, it is about becoming less controlled by one’s own weaknesses.
Ultimately, a high-value person is not someone who has convinced the world of their worth; it is someone whose character gives that worth substance. Their greatest asset is not what they possess, but who they are; not how many people desire them, but how wisely they choose; not how much attention they receive, but how much integrity they maintain when attention disappears.
In a world obsessed with appearance, validation, and superficial standards, true value remains remarkably simple: character, self-respect, emotional discipline, moral integrity, humility, responsibility, and the wisdom to choose relationships that preserve rather than destroy your dignity and peace.
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Ibn 'Abbās رضي الله عنه said:
❝Marry for if the servant of Allāh commits zinā,
Allāh snatches the light of Eemān from him,
and may or may not return it❞
● {الطبقات الكبرى ٥/٢٨٧}
You're too young for Nikkah, but not too young for illegal sexual intercourse (Zina).
May Allah forgive us and may we end well
(آمين)
Zina is common because it only needs a place, while Nikah requires car, house, wealth and luxury.
A man has done NOTHING for you until he makes you his wife.
He won’t let you commit zina and instead marry you to keep you pure and safe from sin.
If that is not true gesture of love, then I don’t know what that is.
❝Marry for if the servant of Allāh commits zinā,
Allāh snatches the light of Eemān from him,
and may or may not return it❞
● {الطبقات الكبرى ٥/٢٨٧}
You're too young for Nikkah, but not too young for illegal sexual intercourse (Zina).
May Allah forgive us and may we end well
(آمين)
Zina is common because it only needs a place, while Nikah requires car, house, wealth and luxury.
A man has done NOTHING for you until he makes you his wife.
He won’t let you commit zina and instead marry you to keep you pure and safe from sin.
If that is not true gesture of love, then I don’t know what that is.
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The sisters of yesterday shied away from unnecessary attention.
The sisters of today compete for likes and views, their faces glowing under filters.
The sisters of yesterday lowered their gaze, guarding their hearts from fitnah.
The sisters of today take selfies with angles that invite gazes they claim to detest.
The sisters of yesterday sought knowledge from scholars with humility.
The sisters of today follow influencers who mix truth with desires, reshaping modesty into trends.
The sisters of yesterday preferred the company of righteous women, reminding each other of the hereafter.
The sisters of today form circles where gossip and fashion take center stage, with “deen talk” as a side note.
The sisters of yesterday valued their husbands and homes, seeing them as part of their ‘ibadah.
The sisters of today are told that submission is oppression, that a woman’s worth lies in how loud she can be.
The sisters of yesterday feared the fire of Hell and hoped for Jannah.
The sisters of today say, “Don’t judge me, only Allah can.”
But tomorrow? Who will the next generation of sisters become?
- Eeman Spur
The sisters of today compete for likes and views, their faces glowing under filters.
The sisters of yesterday lowered their gaze, guarding their hearts from fitnah.
The sisters of today take selfies with angles that invite gazes they claim to detest.
The sisters of yesterday sought knowledge from scholars with humility.
The sisters of today follow influencers who mix truth with desires, reshaping modesty into trends.
The sisters of yesterday preferred the company of righteous women, reminding each other of the hereafter.
The sisters of today form circles where gossip and fashion take center stage, with “deen talk” as a side note.
The sisters of yesterday valued their husbands and homes, seeing them as part of their ‘ibadah.
The sisters of today are told that submission is oppression, that a woman’s worth lies in how loud she can be.
The sisters of yesterday feared the fire of Hell and hoped for Jannah.
The sisters of today say, “Don’t judge me, only Allah can.”
But tomorrow? Who will the next generation of sisters become?
- Eeman Spur
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Secrets of your Spouse ...
1. To Marry: Women looks Future of Men, but Men looks Past of Women.
2. Love: Women Likes Quality of Love, but Men likes Quantity of Love.
3. Search: Mostly Women Search for Character of Men. So its easier for her to forgive him but difficult to forget him, Whereas Mostly Men Likes Beauty of Women so if he find better one he can forget her but if she makes any mistake to him its difficult to forgive her.
Here are some tips to maintain a healthy relation with your spouse 😊
Ways To Keep Your Wife's Love ❤
1. Make her feel secure and sakinah - don’t threaten her with divorce.
2. Advise in private, at the best time, in the best way and atmosphere.
3. Be a good listener.
4. Call your wife with the best names, cute nicknames, names she loves to hear.
5. Don’t act as if you are doing her a favor by working or providing, Allah is the Provider, the husband is the carrier of the sustenance to the family.
6. Sit down and eat meals together.
7. Keep disputes between the two of you, don’t take it outside.
8. Don’t leave home in anger.
Ways to Keep Your Husband's Love ❤
1. Behave like a female, i.e. all the tenderness of a female--a man doesn’t want a man for his wife.
2. Dress pleasantly/attractively. If you are a home-maker, don’t stay in your sleeping suit all day.
3. Don’t lay out all your problems on your husband as soon as he walks in. Give him a little mental break.
4. Don’t keep asking him, “what are you thinking?”
5. Be kind to your mother-in-law the same way you would like your husband to be kind to your own mother.
6. Keep your house clean, at least to the level that he wants it.
7. If he’s angry with you and starts yelling, let him yell it out while you’re quiet. You will see your fight will end a lot faster. Then when he’s calm, you can tell him your side of the story and how you wanthim to change something.
8. The way to a man’s heart is through his stomach.
9. Look attractive and be seductive towards him. Flirt with him.
10. Don't ever compare your husbands to other husbands! For example don't say, "well her husband doesn't do that, why do you" (thats a killer!)
11. Wake him up for Qiyam ul-Layl (in the last third of the night) and ask him to pray with you.
May Allâh subhanahu wa ta’ala preserve all of our marriages and help us understand and implement them in and with the best of manners. Ameen
1. To Marry: Women looks Future of Men, but Men looks Past of Women.
2. Love: Women Likes Quality of Love, but Men likes Quantity of Love.
3. Search: Mostly Women Search for Character of Men. So its easier for her to forgive him but difficult to forget him, Whereas Mostly Men Likes Beauty of Women so if he find better one he can forget her but if she makes any mistake to him its difficult to forgive her.
Here are some tips to maintain a healthy relation with your spouse 😊
Ways To Keep Your Wife's Love ❤
1. Make her feel secure and sakinah - don’t threaten her with divorce.
2. Advise in private, at the best time, in the best way and atmosphere.
3. Be a good listener.
4. Call your wife with the best names, cute nicknames, names she loves to hear.
5. Don’t act as if you are doing her a favor by working or providing, Allah is the Provider, the husband is the carrier of the sustenance to the family.
6. Sit down and eat meals together.
7. Keep disputes between the two of you, don’t take it outside.
8. Don’t leave home in anger.
Ways to Keep Your Husband's Love ❤
1. Behave like a female, i.e. all the tenderness of a female--a man doesn’t want a man for his wife.
2. Dress pleasantly/attractively. If you are a home-maker, don’t stay in your sleeping suit all day.
3. Don’t lay out all your problems on your husband as soon as he walks in. Give him a little mental break.
4. Don’t keep asking him, “what are you thinking?”
5. Be kind to your mother-in-law the same way you would like your husband to be kind to your own mother.
6. Keep your house clean, at least to the level that he wants it.
7. If he’s angry with you and starts yelling, let him yell it out while you’re quiet. You will see your fight will end a lot faster. Then when he’s calm, you can tell him your side of the story and how you wanthim to change something.
8. The way to a man’s heart is through his stomach.
9. Look attractive and be seductive towards him. Flirt with him.
10. Don't ever compare your husbands to other husbands! For example don't say, "well her husband doesn't do that, why do you" (thats a killer!)
11. Wake him up for Qiyam ul-Layl (in the last third of the night) and ask him to pray with you.
May Allâh subhanahu wa ta’ala preserve all of our marriages and help us understand and implement them in and with the best of manners. Ameen
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