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Most successful couples,r thse,who don’t live according to d expectations of others.Thy don’t look around&try to copy others, instead, thy look towards1 another&start this journey of marriage with trust in Allaah&eachOther.

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*Righteous wife*

Shaykh al-Islam Ibn Taymiyah said:

A righteous wife will be with her righteous husband for many years, and she is the one who is meant in the hadeeth in which the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said:

“This world is temporary conveniences and the best of its comforts is a believing wife, who when you look at her she pleases you and if you tell her to do something she obeys you, and if you are away from her she protects you with regard to herself and your wealth.”

This is what the Prophet (Sallallahu Alaihi wa sallam) enjoined when the Muhaajiroon asked him which kind of wealth they should acquire, and he said: “Let one of you acquire :

- a tongue that remembers Allaah,
- a thankful heart, and
- a believing wife who will help him with regard to the Hereafter.”

Narrated by al-Tirmidhi.

She may offer the love and compassion that Allaah speaks of in His Book, and the pain of separation may be harder for her than death in some cases, and harder than losing wealth or leaving one’s homeland, especially if one of them is fond of the other or they have children together who will be harmed by separation.

Majmoo’ al-Fataawa (35/299).
#muslimah #wife #islam #marriage
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Do not chase desires that fade. Seek Allāh with a sincere heart, and He will grant you what is best, even beyond what you asked for.

When two people build their relationship upon righteousness, they are not only building a life together, but planting seeds for a future generation.
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"Why do you want to marry him? I want to marry him because of the Deen."

This statement is so deep than the way we take it. We should by now know that there is a big difference between religiosity and compatibility. The deen for some people ends with the appearance of the person they want to marry, while others think once you can copy and paste Qur'an and Hadith or recite, then you have the Deen.

We have to differentiate between knowledge and understanding of the deen, most times, we fall for the knowledge of the intending partner, but pay less attention to understanding of it. This is a big mistake. There are Muslims you cannot marry, not because they are bad, but due to the level of their understanding of the religion, if you go ahead and tie the knot with them, you might have problem.

The individual wearing the appearance is more than important, look out for how he or she relates with people, then you will understand what you are going to. The real character of your wife is the one she shows to the house help, you can see how derogatory she goes while talking to other people, obviously, the favour she gets from you might determine the way she currently honours you.

You have to search for a man of character, not the one that wears the appearance without proper understanding. When a man wants to catch a 'lady', he pretends, but after the game, he shows you the red card. Today, we are seeing Niqabite sisters dancing to hip hop on TikTok. We have recently seen a person who traveled to the holy Land, dancing in front of ka' bah.

Remember, the character of the brother or sister you intend to marry must mirror the religion. The problem is that, intending partners tend to pay attention to appearance and neglect character, the result of this error is in the public domain.

Always pay attention to details.

Abu Sheikh
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CAN A WOMAN BOYCOTT HER HUSBAND?

Advice to Spouses from Shaykh ‘Ubayd Al-Jaabiree حفظه الله

Question: May Allaah reward you with good, our Shaykh; this is the 6th question. The questioner from Morocco says: Is it permissible for me to boycott my husband when a misunderstanding takes place between us? By boycott I mean not speaking to him and preventing him from touching me.

Answer: The poor girl. Why, my daughter? We do not know that a woman from the female Companions or those who followed them did the likes of this action. The best of that which I can advise you with—you and your husband—intending the Pleasure of Allaah, is that it is obligatory upon each of you to have a firm belief that the other party is a trust that is (binding) upon your neck (Translator’s note: i.e., Each is responsible for the other and will be questioned regarding treatment of the other) and it is a must that each fulfills the other’s rights completely; and that one does not transgress against the other with regards to his/her rights. This is the first.

Secondly, I advise each of you to overlook and pardon the other with regards to that which emanates from the other from shortcoming. So if the woman falls short then her husband is advised to pardon her and not punish her for that. If the husband falls short then the wife is advised to pardon him. For perfection is (only) for Allaah.

You and you husband must beware of the dissension (caused by) Shaytaan. I will remind you with this verse:
وَقُل لِّعِبَادِي يَقُولُواْ الَّتِي هِيَ أَحْسَنُ إِنَّ الشَّيْطَانَ يَنزَغُ بَيْنَهُمْ إِنَّ الشَّيْطَانَ كَانَ لِلإِنْسَانِ عَدُوًّا مُّبِينًا

And say to My slaves that they should (only) say those words that are the best. (Because) Shaytaan, verily, sows dissension among them. Surely, Shaytaan is to man a plain enemy. (Al-Isra 17:53)

So you and your husband beware of the dissension (caused by) Shaytaan.

Translated by Raha ibn Donald Batts

https://mtws.posthaven.com/can-a-woman-boycott-her-husband-advice-to-the-spouses-from-shaykh-ubayd-al-jaabiree
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Beware of Istidraaj: When Delayed Punishment Becomes a Trial

بســـم اللــه الرحــمــن الـرحـــيــم

Brothers, beware of istidraaj — when Allaah allows a sinner to continue enjoying ease, success, status, and concealment while steadily increasing him in sin until destruction overtakes him unexpectedly.

Look at Fir‘awn. He was granted kingdom, power, authority, wealth, and influence until his very last moments. Yet he oppressed his wife, slaughtered innocent boys, humiliated women, enslaved a nation, and — greater than all of that — arrogantly rejected the clear signs brought by the Messenger of Allaah.

His worldly success was not honour. It was a rope being extended.

So do not be deceived when Allaah conceals your sins. Do not imagine that because punishment has not yet arrived, you are safe. A man may oppress his wife, betray trusts, nurture hidden hypocrisy, persist upon secret kufr, mock the limits of Allaah in private, and still wake up every day with provision, health, and reputation. That concealment is not always mercy. Sometimes it is a test. Sometimes it is abandonment.

Do not think you can spend the beginning of your life playing games with your Lord, then conveniently repent at the end when your desires weaken and death approaches. Allaah is not unjust, and evil plots only encircle its planner.

Even the grandfather of the Prophet ﷺ spent years protecting and supporting his grandson, defending him against harm and standing beside him in difficult times, yet he did not die upon Islaam. Good deeds alone do not guarantee a good ending. Nearness to righteousness is not righteousness itself. Lineage, service, intelligence, activism, reputation, or sacrifice cannot save a person if sincerity and submission to Allaah are absent.

So be humble.

Rush toward tawbah before the door closes. Increase in righteousness while you still possess strength. And constantly beg Allaah for steadfastness, because the greatest karāmah is not wealth, influence, intelligence, or admiration from people — it is to die upon guidance and sincerity.

A beautiful ending is not owed to anyone. It is granted by Allaah alone - And Allaah is not unjust!

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"In a marriage, there will be a time when physical beauty loses its meaning, the body becomes frail and returns to the earth, and love is no longer synonymous with romance. At that point, the strongest bond is faith. Therefore, in addition to choosing someone who appeals to your heart and eyes, choose someone who is willing to learn and nurture your relationship with God's guidance.

This way, no matter how intense the trials that spark anger may be, the ultimate refuge will be His pleasure. For if what we strive for is His pleasure, not only will we achieve sakinah, mawaddah, and rahmah, but marriage will also become a reflection of paradise.

Faith is that important, even if we still struggle to perfect it and sometimes do it half-heartedly. Still, prioritize it over love. Because eventually, a heart that fears Allah and is allowed to be attached to you will no longer worry about human matters, let alone worldly concerns.

For that heart will not look at anyone else, nor will it submit to anyone else but Him. This is the meaning of the verse 'Litaskunu ilaiha' - that you may find tranquility and peace with her."

Atau bisa juga diterjemahkan sebagai:
"In marriage, a time comes when looks fade, bodies weaken, and romance wanes. Faith becomes the strongest bond. Choose a partner who shares your commitment to nurturing your relationship with God's guidance.

With faith, trials become manageable, and His pleasure becomes the ultimate goal. Prioritizing faith over love may be imperfect, but it's essential. A heart that fears Allah and is drawn to you will find peace, free from worldly worries.

This is the essence of 'Litaskunu ilaiha' - finding tranquility and peace with one another."
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Loosing virginity before marriage has become kind of common. No I'm not talking about rape. That's totally a different topic. By this topic I mean girl and boy both of them willing to have haram sex. Astaghfirullah

After the haram sex most of the time the girl and boy act very innocent. They'll be like 'you know I didn't mean to do it but it just happened'.

Seriously? It just happened? Whom are trying to fool? It's obvious that you know what you were doing. It's not like you were unconscious and it all happened cuz of some sort of magic.

The truth this that you couldn't control your desire. The Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) Said: “No man is alone with a woman but the Shaytan is the third one present.” You should be aware of it.

Just imagine your husband/wife had sex with other person. How would you feel? Doesn't it hurt? If yes then how could you do the same thing? How could you cheat your future husband/wife? Are you that heartless? Don't you fear Allah SWT?

It's too late I already had haram sex. What should I do? Regret and repent to Allah SWT before it's too late. Before the punishment comes to you. And don't do it again!

Note: Before marriage relationship is called Zina. It’s haram prohibited in Islam. A real man will offer you (halal) marriage Nikkah, A loser will offer you (haram) Zina. Don't be so stupid to choose a loser. Remember Allah SWT Always watching at you!

May Allah SWT forgive us, guide us and protect us from doing major and minor sins. Ameen 🤲
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!! Has our trust become so cheap !!

Everyone can be an Angel online, because you never lived with them, never traveled or did business with them or have real references from people who truly know them and are not biased to them, so in-fact the the person behind the screen could be anyone!

Sadly in these realities young sisters are getting married online, brothers are sharing their personal details with strange females online

Sadly in the end in many cases there is only regret!
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A righteous wife is not created by beautiful words alone. She blossoms in the presence of a husband who fears Allah in the way he treats her.

A woman’s peace is often a reflection of the mercy, patience, and kindness she receives at home.

The man who lowers his voice, softens his heart, and honors his wife for the sake of Allah is building more than a marriage—he is building a home filled with barakah.🤍
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Quitting Porn and Masturbation

Two things can not remain simultaneously with a muslim; strong eemaan (faith) and addiction to sin. Some sins are so detrimental to eemaan that a muslim does not remain a muslim while in the state of committing the act. So the faith of a muslim while he is committing zina (fornication/Adultery) or stealing for instance leaves him and hovers above him like a cloud and only returns to him after he stops the act! Imagine if he died in that state!

So, does the one who watches porn realise the urgent need to quit the filthy act? Does he not think that Allaah is oft-forgiving (forgetting He is also severe in purnishment)? Does he even fear he could die in that state? What a disgraceful end that would be!

Untill a muslim realises the need to maintain a strong eemaan he would continue to find sins fair seeming! While the one with a strong eemaan feels saddened and remorseful when he falls into sin and hastens to repentance, the one with a weak faith finds excuses to justify his sins and delays repentance!

What follows are just suggestions which are hoped will help the one who genuinely wishes to quit porn addiction (and masturbation) by Allaah's will.

1. Some need therapy.
Some porn addicts need professional counsel and monitoring. They may have lost the self control and discipline to stop on their own. Such are those whom if they find internet access (or any other source) and privacy, there is a 95% certainty they will view pornographic material! Such need medical help or the help and guide of a scholar with experience in dealing with such .

2. Eliminate all links and triggers.
Links are people, things, places and actions that increases your tendency to watch porn. It is important to mention here the need to keep the company of the pious; people who remind you of Allaah and what is good, rather than those who make fitnah and haraam seem attractive and call you to it. If you are trying to quit porn addiction, you have to quit bad company!

Triggers are things that may cause you to relapse back to watching porn after having tried to quit. Chief among triggers are movies with sex scenes and nude displays. They may also include erotic novels and magazines, sex chats, free mixing with opposite sex, keeping girlfriends - anything that is likely to incite your urge and cause you to seek for a way to satisfy the urge unlawfully!

3. Get Married at the earliest convenient time.

There is nothing more beautiful than being able to satisfy your urge in a halal manner! Once, the prophet peace be upon him informed the companions saying "it is considered charity for a man to have sexual relations with his wife"! The companions were stunned beyond words! So they asked if a man gets rewarded while he satisfies his urge (through intercourse with his wife)? And the prophet peace be upon him replied "أرأيتم لو وضعها في حرام أكان عليه فيها وزر ؟ فكذلك إذا وضعها في الحلال كان له أجر "
"Do you think if he had satisfied his urge by unlawful means he wouldn't have had a sin for it, such it is that if he satisfies it by lawful means, he gets a reward!"
Allaahu akbar! It's a win win for the married man! He satisfies his urge and he gets a reward, but the unmarried one who resorts to porn and masturbation gets a sin instead and may be disgraced if he doesn't stop. May Allaah make marriage easy for those who need it.

A. Haroun
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Title: Kitaabun-Nikaah (The Book of Marriage) from Shaikh Saalih al-Fawzaan’s explanation of Buloogh al-Maraam min Adillatil-Ahkaam of Al-Haafidh Ahmad Ibn Alee Ibn Hajr al-Asqalaanee (Born 773H, Died 852H). Shaikh Al-Fawzaan’s tremendous explanation is entitled Tas-heel al-Ilmaam bi-fiqhil-Ahaadeeth min Bulooghil-Maraam and is printed in seven volumes. The following is a translation of this important and very enlightening chapter, adapted in places for brevity and simplicity. The following is from volume 4.

Al-Haafidh Ibn Hajr (rahimahullaah) said:

985 (English print, no. 838): Narrated Ibn
Abbaas (radiyallaahu anhumaa) that Allaah’s Messenger (salallaahu alaihi wassallam) said:

الثَّيِّبُ أَحَقُّ بِنَفْسِهَا مِنْ وَلِيِّهَا وَالْبِكْرُ تُسْتَأْمَرُ وَإِذْنُهَا سُكُوتُهَا

“A previously married woman has more right to her person than her guardian. The virgin must be consulted [prior to marriage], and her silence is her consent.”
Reported by Muslim, no 1421, 67.

And in a report:

لَيْسَ لِلْوَلِيِّ مَعَ الثَّيِّبِ أَمْرٌ وَالْيَتِيمَةُ تُسْتَأْمَرُ

“The guardian has no authority to command a previously married woman. And the orphan girl must be consulted (before marriage).”
Reported by Abu Dawood, no. 2100. An-Nasaa’ee, 6/85. Declared to be authentic by Ibn Hibbaan, no. 4089.

986: Narrated Abu Hurairah (radiyallaahu anhu) that Allaah’s Messenger (salallaahu alaihi wassallam) said:

لَا تُزَوِّجُ الْمَرْأَةُ الْمَرْأَةَ وَلَا تُزَوِّجُ الْمَرْأَةُ نَفْسَهَا

“A woman cannot give another woman away in marriage, and she cannot give herself away in marriage.”
Reported by Ibn Maajah, no. 1882. Ad-Daaruqutnee, 3/227. All the narrators are trustworthy. The narration is authentic with this wording.

Shaikh Saalih al-Fawzaan (hafidhahullaah) said:

Explanation:

This hadeeth just like the previous one proves that a woman cannot give herself away in marriage, she cannot marry herself off. That is because the contract of marriage is the right of the guardian. And were she to marry herself off, then that marriage would be invalid and void, as previously stated. And this is position of the vast majority of scholars. Furthermore, if it is the case that she can cannot give herself away in marriage, then likewise she cannot give another woman away in marriage either, because of the fact she does not have the right over the marriage contract; rather that belongs to her male guardian. Meaning that cannot marry off, for example, her daughter, her sister, or a near or far relative because she is not considered to be the guardian in marriage.
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“Bring back femininity…”
Not the fake softness that folds for the dunya—
But the real kind:
Gentle in speech, firm in faith,
Honoring her Lord by knowing her worth.

Allaah said:
“And stay in your homes and do not display yourselves as [was] the display of the former times of ignorance…”
— [Surah Al-Ahzab, 33:33]

Modesty is beauty.
Obedience to Allaah is power.
Femininity isn’t lost—it’s just been buried under pride. Let’s bring it back.
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One of the biggest signs you've chosen the right spouse isn't that life becomes easier. It's that difficult seasons become easier to survive because you're facing them together.
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🌹A Woman's Obedience to her Husband is A Reason for her to Enter Paradise 💐

The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said:

"If a woman prays her five (daily prayers), fasts her month (Ramadan), guards her chastity, and obeys her husband, she may enter by whichever of the gates of Paradise she wishes."

📚Saheeh At-Targheeb wa At-Tarheeb (1931)
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Seeking marriage looks stressful if you are yet to find a suitable partner. It can be challenging for many reasons. But the major obstacle is you. Have you discovered yourself? The delay can be caused by physical, emotional, spiritual, geographical or economical reasons.

Before you complain about the difficulty, work on yourself. Prayer and sincere efforts can open your doors to avaliable suitors. Do not quit until you achieve it. But what happens after finding a brother or sister, it is either you follow proper processes or get carried away, still, you are to be held responsible.

For those seeking marriage, it is often helpful to focus on faith, character, emotional maturity, compatibility, and shared life goals rather than superficial qualities alone. Careful background checks, family involvement where appropriate, and premarital counseling can also help identify a suitable partner.

Abu Sheikh
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Why Is the Blood Money [Diyah, دية] for Women Half That of Men in Islamic Law?

Imam al-Shāfiʿī رحمه الله wrote in '𝘈𝘭-𝘜𝘮𝘮', (6/106):
قال الإمام الشافعي في كتابه "الأم" (6\ 106): «لم أعلم مخالفاً من أهل العلم –قديماً ولا حديثاً– في أن دية المرأة نصف دية الرجل».
"𝗜 𝗱𝗼 𝗻𝗼𝘁 𝗸𝗻𝗼𝘄 𝗼𝗳 𝗮𝗻𝘆 𝘀𝗰𝗵𝗼𝗹𝗮𝗿, 𝗽𝗮𝘀𝘁 𝗼𝗿 𝗽𝗿𝗲𝘀𝗲𝗻𝘁, 𝘄𝗵𝗼 𝗱𝗶𝘀𝗮𝗴𝗿𝗲𝗲𝗱 𝘁𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗱𝗶𝘆𝗮𝗵 𝗼𝗳 𝗮 𝘄𝗼𝗺𝗮𝗻 𝗶𝘀 𝗵𝗮𝗹𝗳 𝘁𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝗼𝗳 𝗮 𝗺𝗮𝗻."

According to the classical consensus of Muslim jurists, in cases of accidental killing, the prescribed compensation (diyah) is:

Man: 𝟭𝟬𝟬 𝗰𝗮𝗺𝗲𝗹𝘀 🐪🐪
Woman: 𝟱𝟬 𝗰𝗮𝗺𝗲𝗹𝘀 🐪

Does this mean a woman’s blood is cheaper and her life is worth less than a man's?

The answer is 𝗻𝗼.

This ruling concerns 𝗳𝗶𝗻𝗮𝗻𝗰𝗶𝗮𝗹 𝗹𝗶𝗮𝗯𝗶𝗹𝗶𝘁𝘆, 𝗻𝗼𝘁 𝗵𝘂𝗺𝗮𝗻 𝘄𝗼𝗿𝘁𝗵.

The male and female are the same in the sight of God, the Diya (bloodmoney) is simply a financial compensation for the damage caused in worldly life.

The 𝗺𝗮𝗻 𝗶𝘀 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗳𝗶𝗻𝗮𝗻𝗰𝗶𝗮𝗹 𝗽𝗶𝗹𝗹𝗮𝗿 of the family, when he falls, 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗳𝗶𝗻𝗮𝗻𝗰𝗶𝗮𝗹 𝗱𝗮𝗺𝗮𝗴𝗲 𝗶𝘀 𝗴𝗿𝗲𝗮𝘁𝗲𝗿, as his 𝗱𝗲𝗽𝗲𝗻𝗱𝗲𝗻𝘁𝘀 𝗹𝗼𝘀𝗲 𝘁𝗵𝗲𝗶𝗿 𝗽𝗿𝗼𝘃𝗶𝗱𝗲𝗿, so his wife and family get a 𝗹𝗮𝗿𝗴𝗲𝗿 𝗳𝗶𝗻𝗮𝗻𝗰𝗶𝗮𝗹 𝗰𝗼𝗺𝗽𝗲𝗻𝘀𝗮𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻.

𝗪𝗵𝗲𝗻 𝗮 𝘄𝗼𝗺𝗮𝗻 𝗱𝗶𝗲𝘀, the emotional impact is equally, if not more davastating, but 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗳𝗶𝗻𝗮𝗻𝗰𝗶𝗮𝗹 𝗱𝗮𝗺𝗮𝗴𝗲 𝗶𝘀 𝘂𝘀𝘂𝗮𝗹𝗹𝘆 𝗹𝗲𝘀𝘀, because the main provider [the man] is still alive, so he gets a 𝘀𝗺𝗮𝗹𝗹𝗲𝗿 𝗳𝗶𝗻𝗮𝗻𝗰𝗶𝗮𝗹 𝗰𝗼𝗺𝗽𝗲𝗻𝘀𝗮𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻.

This is absolutely fair and makes 100% sense.

The dead person does not take the blood money with them to the grave, it goes to the living relatives to manage their lives.

And if you think about it:

- When a wife (female) dies, her 𝗵𝘂𝘀𝗯𝗮𝗻𝗱 (𝗺𝗮𝗹𝗲) and family 𝗿𝗲𝗰𝗲𝗶𝘃𝗲 𝟱𝟬 𝗰𝗮𝗺𝗲𝗹𝘀.

- When a husband (male) dies, his 𝘄𝗶𝗳𝗲 (𝗳𝗲𝗺𝗮𝗹𝗲) and family 𝗿𝗲𝗰𝗲𝗶𝘃𝗲 𝟭𝟬𝟬 𝗰𝗮𝗺𝗲𝗹𝘀.

If anything, it should be the men who create an uproar, because men receive less compensation than women!
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✍️ Pride ruins marriage!!
“Whoever humbles himself for the sake of Allah, Allah will raise him.”
— (Sahih Muslim)
In love, pride builds walls, but humility builds a home. The heart that chooses softness over ego will never lose—because Allaah lifts what lowers itself for Him.
Real love is not about pride—it is about gentleness, patience, and character. The one who lowers their ego for the sake of peace is not weak; they are elevated in the sight of Allah.

Pride will make you lose someone who truly loves you, just to prove a point that never really mattered.
In love, it’s not about who is right—it’s about who is willing to stay, understand, and soften their heart.
Or something a bit deeper:
Love survives on humility, not ego.
In love, this means: refusing to apologize, needing to always be right, or withholding affection just to feel in control—these are not strength. They are barriers to mercy.
The moment pride becomes louder than care, even the strongest feelings begin to fade. Sometimes, the real strength in love is choosing to lower your guard, not raise it.
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Forwarded from Muslim Marriage Tips
When a woman feels safe, supported, and deeply loved, her body responds in powerful ways.

Emotional security helps calm the nervous system, lowering stress hormones like cortisol that drive inflammation and weaken immunity.

Over time, this healthier internal environment can influence gene expression, improve immune function, and support overall healing.

Love isn’t just an emotion, it’s a biological signal that the body is safe enough to repair, regulate, and thrive.
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A woman can destroy her marriage without ever cheating.

Constant disrespect. Emotional manipulation. Playing victim. Never taking accountability. She thinks "cheating" is the only way to kill it. No, she killed it a long time ago.

"You're not a real man." She said it in front of the kids. Rolls her eyes when he talks. Talks over him when he leads. Cries to win. Silent treatment to punish him. Uses sex as leverage. Uses tears as a weapon.

"If you loved me, you would...."
"You always..." "You never..."
She keeps score. She never keeps promises.

She thinks she won every argument. But he's just done. He looks at her and feels nothing. No love. No hate. Nothing.

Then one day, he packs his bags. No warning. No begging. He just leaves.
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*MODESTY*

The clothing of a woman depicts her upbringing by her father, the sense of honour (ghayrah) of her brother, the manliness of her husband, her keenness to emulate her mother and above all, her conciousness of Allah watching her.

This is why they said to Maryam (RA):

_O sister of Haaroon, your father was not an evil man and your mother was not a loose woman._ (Quran )

They reminded her of her brother, father and mother. If these people are upright, she will also be upright.

A pious person said, "Revealing clothes on a woman is a sign that Allah is angry with her, as He removed the clothing of Adam and Hawwaa (as) when He was displeased with them."

A young girl says, "When I see a young female exposing and revealing herself, I look at her parents and think of the verse:

_Stop them, indeed they will be questioned_. This causes me to have even more modesty so that my mother should not be questioned."

Most of that which Allah made impermissible in this world will be allowed in Jannah, e.g. wine. One thing that is not allowed here and there is nakedness.

In fact, a great bounty [of Jannah] is to be properly covered. Describing Jannah, Allah says:

_You will not be hungry in it [Jannah] nor will you be unclothed_

One of the most beautiful messages I have read on modesty.
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