𝑴𝒂𝒚𝒃𝒆 𝒕𝒉𝒆 𝒓𝒆𝒂𝒔𝒐𝒏 𝑨𝒍𝒍𝒂𝒉 𝒂𝒍𝒍𝒐𝒘𝒆𝒅 𝒚𝒐𝒖 𝒕𝒐 𝒃𝒆 𝒂𝒑𝒂𝒓𝒕 𝒇𝒐𝒓 𝒂 𝒘𝒉𝒊𝒍𝒆 𝒘𝒂𝒔 𝒏𝒐𝒕 𝒕𝒐 𝒆𝒏𝒅 𝒚𝒐𝒖𝒓 𝒔𝒕𝒐𝒓𝒚—𝒃𝒖𝒕 𝒕𝒐 𝒈𝒊𝒗𝒆 𝒃𝒐𝒕𝒉 𝒐𝒇 𝒚𝒐𝒖 𝒕𝒉𝒆 𝒄𝒉𝒂𝒏𝒄𝒆 𝒕𝒐 𝒃𝒆𝒄𝒐𝒎𝒆 𝒕𝒉𝒆 𝒉𝒖𝒔𝒃𝒂𝒏𝒅 𝒂𝒏𝒅 𝒘𝒊𝒇𝒆 𝒚𝒐𝒖 𝒘𝒆𝒓𝒆 𝒂𝒍𝒘𝒂𝒚𝒔 𝒎𝒆𝒂𝒏𝒕 𝒕𝒐 𝒃𝒆.
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How Problems Start In Marriage?
Based on my experience as a married man I can tell you with absolute certainty that this is what's happening in many marriages.
When you first met your wife, she was the most beautiful woman. You called her your Queen, your darling, your baby, your sweet heart. Soon, you got married, life was good. You loved each other so much. Then sudden he got pregnant, sudden her looks began to change, from a beauty queen to something else. Her face and legs swelled. She loses her shape and figures. After she put to bed, she started to breastfeed your child, her tummy protrudes. She looks like she is in her 60s or 70s.
Now, Instead of you to help her repair herself body, improve her beauty, get rid of that tummy and swelling, you simply abandon her. You dislike her looks. You some times hate to see her. Suddenly your darling become get out of my face, or I don’t want to see you. So problems starts. You start to creates problems that don’t exist. You make every thing a big dead. Then you start to see other women.
Brother look, a woman is like a Car. When you purchase a Car, after sometimes, you need to repair it, sometimes you service the engine, sometimes you change some parts with new parts. All in order to enjoy driving it and to live longer.
Likewise a woman. She cooked for you for years, dresses you for years, conceive for you for years, breastfeed your child until her beautiful breasts collapse. Now both you and your children have drained and exhausted her. So what should you do? You repair her. Take her to place where people are fixed after their delivery. Give her money to collect those post pregnancy therapies. Buy good cosmetics and body creams for her. Buy new jewelries, buy new cloths. Make her comfortable. Take her out time to time. That's how you fix her.
but Instead, as soon as she begin to get tired, most Muslim men would start to ask for Fatwa, they want to marry again.
Brother, the problem is not your wife, the problem is you. Even if you marry 100 women, they will also deteriorate because that's the nature of life. Everything deteriorates with time. I’m sure if many men were to take good care of their wives, their wives will last longer, their body and shape will remain intact.
Brothers and sisters, this is what I do to my wife. I make sure she is the happiest woman. I make sure she gets what she wants. I try to make sure she is not depressed. Because depression and sadness can destroy women. She deserves it, because I took her away from her parents. I took over that responsibility the very day I married her from them.
Please be just in your house. And Take care of them. They need it. May Allah SWT bless all our marriages. Ameen 🤲
Based on my experience as a married man I can tell you with absolute certainty that this is what's happening in many marriages.
When you first met your wife, she was the most beautiful woman. You called her your Queen, your darling, your baby, your sweet heart. Soon, you got married, life was good. You loved each other so much. Then sudden he got pregnant, sudden her looks began to change, from a beauty queen to something else. Her face and legs swelled. She loses her shape and figures. After she put to bed, she started to breastfeed your child, her tummy protrudes. She looks like she is in her 60s or 70s.
Now, Instead of you to help her repair herself body, improve her beauty, get rid of that tummy and swelling, you simply abandon her. You dislike her looks. You some times hate to see her. Suddenly your darling become get out of my face, or I don’t want to see you. So problems starts. You start to creates problems that don’t exist. You make every thing a big dead. Then you start to see other women.
Brother look, a woman is like a Car. When you purchase a Car, after sometimes, you need to repair it, sometimes you service the engine, sometimes you change some parts with new parts. All in order to enjoy driving it and to live longer.
Likewise a woman. She cooked for you for years, dresses you for years, conceive for you for years, breastfeed your child until her beautiful breasts collapse. Now both you and your children have drained and exhausted her. So what should you do? You repair her. Take her to place where people are fixed after their delivery. Give her money to collect those post pregnancy therapies. Buy good cosmetics and body creams for her. Buy new jewelries, buy new cloths. Make her comfortable. Take her out time to time. That's how you fix her.
but Instead, as soon as she begin to get tired, most Muslim men would start to ask for Fatwa, they want to marry again.
Brother, the problem is not your wife, the problem is you. Even if you marry 100 women, they will also deteriorate because that's the nature of life. Everything deteriorates with time. I’m sure if many men were to take good care of their wives, their wives will last longer, their body and shape will remain intact.
Brothers and sisters, this is what I do to my wife. I make sure she is the happiest woman. I make sure she gets what she wants. I try to make sure she is not depressed. Because depression and sadness can destroy women. She deserves it, because I took her away from her parents. I took over that responsibility the very day I married her from them.
Please be just in your house. And Take care of them. They need it. May Allah SWT bless all our marriages. Ameen 🤲
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When Allah tests you, pause and remind yourself, الحمد لله Alhamdulillah.
In every hardship, there is reward.
In every illness, there is reward.
In every loss, there is reward.
In every moment of patience, there is reward.
Through these tests, Allah is elevating you, purifying you, and preparing you for something far better.
Reflect: Is there any greater mercy than knowing that every pain, every tear, and every struggle is witnessed, counted, and rewarded by the Most Merciful?
In every hardship, there is reward.
In every illness, there is reward.
In every loss, there is reward.
In every moment of patience, there is reward.
Through these tests, Allah is elevating you, purifying you, and preparing you for something far better.
Reflect: Is there any greater mercy than knowing that every pain, every tear, and every struggle is witnessed, counted, and rewarded by the Most Merciful?
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𝑺𝒐𝒎𝒆 𝒎𝒂𝒓𝒓𝒊𝒂𝒈𝒆𝒔 𝒅𝒊𝒅𝒏’𝒕 𝒇𝒂𝒍𝒍 𝒂𝒑𝒂𝒓𝒕 𝒃𝒆𝒄𝒂𝒖𝒔𝒆 𝒕𝒉𝒆𝒚 𝒍𝒂𝒄𝒌𝒆𝒅 𝒍𝒐𝒗𝒆, 𝒕𝒉𝒆𝒚 𝒇𝒆𝒍𝒍 𝒂𝒑𝒂𝒓𝒕 𝒃𝒆𝒄𝒂𝒖𝒔𝒆 𝒕𝒉𝒆𝒚 𝒈𝒂𝒗𝒆 𝒕𝒉𝒆 𝒘𝒉𝒐𝒍𝒆 𝒘𝒐𝒓𝒍𝒅 𝒂 𝒇𝒓𝒐𝒏𝒕-𝒓𝒐𝒘 𝒔𝒆𝒂𝒕.
𝑵𝒐𝒕 𝒆𝒗𝒆𝒓𝒚 𝒃𝒍𝒆𝒔𝒔𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒊𝒔 𝒎𝒆𝒂𝒏𝒕 𝒕𝒐 𝒃𝒆 𝒃𝒓𝒐𝒂𝒅𝒄𝒂𝒔𝒕.
A marriage is not a Netflix series. It doesn’t need weekly episodes, public updates, or millions of spectators waiting for the next chapter.
The more people know about your private life, the more opinions, expectations, envy, and unnecessary attention you invite. 𝗥𝗲𝗺𝗲𝗺𝗯𝗲𝗿, 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗲𝘃𝗶𝗹 𝗲𝘆𝗲 𝗶𝘀 𝗿𝗲𝗮𝗹, 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝗻𝗼𝘁 𝗲𝘃𝗲𝗿𝘆𝗼𝗻𝗲 𝘄𝗵𝗼 𝘀𝗮𝘆𝘀 “𝗜’𝗺 𝗵𝗮𝗽𝗽𝘆 𝗳𝗼𝗿 𝘆𝗼𝘂” 𝘁𝗿𝘂𝗹𝘆 𝗶𝘀. Some hearts admire, others envy, and some don’t even realize the harm their gaze can carry.
𝑺𝒕𝒐𝒑 𝒕𝒖𝒓𝒏𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒚𝒐𝒖𝒓 𝒔𝒑𝒐𝒖𝒔𝒆 𝒊𝒏𝒕𝒐 𝒄𝒐𝒏𝒕𝒆𝒏𝒕.
The strongest marriages are often the quietest. They don’t need validation from strangers because they seek the pleasure of Allah, not the applause of social media.
𝑷𝒓𝒊𝒗𝒂𝒄𝒚 𝒊𝒔 𝒏𝒐𝒕 𝒔𝒆𝒄𝒓𝒆𝒄𝒚—𝒊𝒕 𝒊𝒔 𝒑𝒓𝒐𝒕𝒆𝒄𝒕𝒊𝒐𝒏.
A marriage doesn’t become successful because it trends. It becomes successful because Allah places sakīnah (tranquility), mawaddah (love), and raḥmah (mercy) in it.
A reminder to myself before anyone else, and to every husband and wife: Keep your marriage sacred. Share less. Make more du’a. 𝗣𝗿𝗼𝘁𝗲𝗰𝘁 𝘆𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝗯𝗹𝗲𝘀𝘀𝗶𝗻𝗴𝘀 𝗯𝗲𝗳𝗼𝗿𝗲 𝘆𝗼𝘂’𝗿𝗲 𝗳𝗼𝗿𝗰𝗲𝗱 𝘁𝗼 𝗲𝘅𝗽𝗹𝗮𝗶𝗻 𝘁𝗵𝗲𝗶𝗿 𝗱𝗶𝘀𝗮𝗽𝗽𝗲𝗮𝗿𝗮𝗻𝗰𝗲.
𝑵𝒐𝒕 𝒆𝒗𝒆𝒓𝒚 𝒃𝒍𝒆𝒔𝒔𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒊𝒔 𝒎𝒆𝒂𝒏𝒕 𝒕𝒐 𝒃𝒆 𝒃𝒓𝒐𝒂𝒅𝒄𝒂𝒔𝒕.
A marriage is not a Netflix series. It doesn’t need weekly episodes, public updates, or millions of spectators waiting for the next chapter.
The more people know about your private life, the more opinions, expectations, envy, and unnecessary attention you invite. 𝗥𝗲𝗺𝗲𝗺𝗯𝗲𝗿, 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗲𝘃𝗶𝗹 𝗲𝘆𝗲 𝗶𝘀 𝗿𝗲𝗮𝗹, 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝗻𝗼𝘁 𝗲𝘃𝗲𝗿𝘆𝗼𝗻𝗲 𝘄𝗵𝗼 𝘀𝗮𝘆𝘀 “𝗜’𝗺 𝗵𝗮𝗽𝗽𝘆 𝗳𝗼𝗿 𝘆𝗼𝘂” 𝘁𝗿𝘂𝗹𝘆 𝗶𝘀. Some hearts admire, others envy, and some don’t even realize the harm their gaze can carry.
𝑺𝒕𝒐𝒑 𝒕𝒖𝒓𝒏𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒚𝒐𝒖𝒓 𝒔𝒑𝒐𝒖𝒔𝒆 𝒊𝒏𝒕𝒐 𝒄𝒐𝒏𝒕𝒆𝒏𝒕.
The strongest marriages are often the quietest. They don’t need validation from strangers because they seek the pleasure of Allah, not the applause of social media.
𝑷𝒓𝒊𝒗𝒂𝒄𝒚 𝒊𝒔 𝒏𝒐𝒕 𝒔𝒆𝒄𝒓𝒆𝒄𝒚—𝒊𝒕 𝒊𝒔 𝒑𝒓𝒐𝒕𝒆𝒄𝒕𝒊𝒐𝒏.
A marriage doesn’t become successful because it trends. It becomes successful because Allah places sakīnah (tranquility), mawaddah (love), and raḥmah (mercy) in it.
A reminder to myself before anyone else, and to every husband and wife: Keep your marriage sacred. Share less. Make more du’a. 𝗣𝗿𝗼𝘁𝗲𝗰𝘁 𝘆𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝗯𝗹𝗲𝘀𝘀𝗶𝗻𝗴𝘀 𝗯𝗲𝗳𝗼𝗿𝗲 𝘆𝗼𝘂’𝗿𝗲 𝗳𝗼𝗿𝗰𝗲𝗱 𝘁𝗼 𝗲𝘅𝗽𝗹𝗮𝗶𝗻 𝘁𝗵𝗲𝗶𝗿 𝗱𝗶𝘀𝗮𝗽𝗽𝗲𝗮𝗿𝗮𝗻𝗰𝗲.
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WHY MARRY?
Often people marry blindly.
They look at the outward achievements of a person and marry according to that. For instance a person having a house, a car and a high end job. Many would marry just based upon that, and also the added condition of the individual being nice.
However we never really truly look at their inward achievements. Their spiritual achievements. That which is based upon their character and religious obligations. Many a time this is pushed aside when wealth and status are presented. But this is the most important aspect of choosing a spouse.
Marriage is a religious obligation. It is about rights and responsibilities. Every aspect of marriage becomes a means of reward, an act of 'ibaadah - worship.
But if one doesn't choose wisely, rightly even, then how can one achieve such rewards through marriage? If the other half encourages towards sins and transgression, how will one strive towards closeness to Allah?
The bond must be based on mutual love for Allah and a desire to gain closeness to Him, that's the purpose of marriage. But more so, to raise righteous offspring. The spouse you choose will be a role model for your child, so consider whether your prospective spouse is the role model you would like in your child's life.
A person complained to Umar RA about his disobedient child. Umar RA asked about the mother, and found that the mother was a disobedient individual. When Umar RA spoke to the child, the child complained about the name he had been given. He was named "جعل" which means toilet worm. Umar RA said "You have spoiled him before he even got a chance to spoil you!"
We understand that choosing a good spouse is greatly important. And naming your children good names is also very important. So consider these things before marriage because it's more than just romance, it's responsibilities.
May Allah make us from the righteous. آمين.
Often people marry blindly.
They look at the outward achievements of a person and marry according to that. For instance a person having a house, a car and a high end job. Many would marry just based upon that, and also the added condition of the individual being nice.
However we never really truly look at their inward achievements. Their spiritual achievements. That which is based upon their character and religious obligations. Many a time this is pushed aside when wealth and status are presented. But this is the most important aspect of choosing a spouse.
Marriage is a religious obligation. It is about rights and responsibilities. Every aspect of marriage becomes a means of reward, an act of 'ibaadah - worship.
But if one doesn't choose wisely, rightly even, then how can one achieve such rewards through marriage? If the other half encourages towards sins and transgression, how will one strive towards closeness to Allah?
The bond must be based on mutual love for Allah and a desire to gain closeness to Him, that's the purpose of marriage. But more so, to raise righteous offspring. The spouse you choose will be a role model for your child, so consider whether your prospective spouse is the role model you would like in your child's life.
A person complained to Umar RA about his disobedient child. Umar RA asked about the mother, and found that the mother was a disobedient individual. When Umar RA spoke to the child, the child complained about the name he had been given. He was named "جعل" which means toilet worm. Umar RA said "You have spoiled him before he even got a chance to spoil you!"
We understand that choosing a good spouse is greatly important. And naming your children good names is also very important. So consider these things before marriage because it's more than just romance, it's responsibilities.
May Allah make us from the righteous. آمين.
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Shaykh ibn Uthaymeen said:
"Polygyny in this time is more needed than in previous times, due to the large number of women, the abundance of fitan, and women's need for someone
to preserve their chastity."
"Polygyny in this time is more needed than in previous times, due to the large number of women, the abundance of fitan, and women's need for someone
to preserve their chastity."
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Muslim Marriage Tips
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🌹 About Unattainable Love
There’s a pain unseen by the eyes, yet it eats away the heart deeper than any wound. That pain is called unattainable love. When you love someone with all your soul, hoping to walk together on the path of righteousness, but fate says otherwise. You must watch them go, hold another’s hand, while your heart silently breaks.
How intense this feeling is. It feels like the world stops turning, like every prayer you’ve ever made falls unanswered. But know this: here lies the honor of your love. Not in possession, but in guarding it.
The Prophet ﷺ said:
مَنْ عَشِقَ فَعَفَّ فَكَتَمَ ثُمَّ مَاتَ، مَاتَ شَهِيدًا
“Whoever falls in love, then guards his chastity, hides his love, and then dies because of it, he dies a martyr.”
(HR. al-Hakim, considered hasan by some scholars)
Love is not just daring to hold on, but also brave enough to let go for Allah’s sake. Not everyone we love is destined for us, and not every struggle ends in our arms. Sometimes, true love is born in silence, nurtured with prayers, and surrendered with tears.
Maybe your heart is broken now, but remember: Allah is teaching you that the greatest love is not for the person we chase, but for Him who is always waiting.
🌿 So don’t let your heart die from love, but let it live with purified love. Because when you can love, guard yourself, keep the secret, and be patient despite the pain, you’re not just a lover… you’re a warrior. And warriors like that, the Prophet ﷺ said, die as martyrs.
There’s a pain unseen by the eyes, yet it eats away the heart deeper than any wound. That pain is called unattainable love. When you love someone with all your soul, hoping to walk together on the path of righteousness, but fate says otherwise. You must watch them go, hold another’s hand, while your heart silently breaks.
How intense this feeling is. It feels like the world stops turning, like every prayer you’ve ever made falls unanswered. But know this: here lies the honor of your love. Not in possession, but in guarding it.
The Prophet ﷺ said:
مَنْ عَشِقَ فَعَفَّ فَكَتَمَ ثُمَّ مَاتَ، مَاتَ شَهِيدًا
“Whoever falls in love, then guards his chastity, hides his love, and then dies because of it, he dies a martyr.”
(HR. al-Hakim, considered hasan by some scholars)
Love is not just daring to hold on, but also brave enough to let go for Allah’s sake. Not everyone we love is destined for us, and not every struggle ends in our arms. Sometimes, true love is born in silence, nurtured with prayers, and surrendered with tears.
Maybe your heart is broken now, but remember: Allah is teaching you that the greatest love is not for the person we chase, but for Him who is always waiting.
🌿 So don’t let your heart die from love, but let it live with purified love. Because when you can love, guard yourself, keep the secret, and be patient despite the pain, you’re not just a lover… you’re a warrior. And warriors like that, the Prophet ﷺ said, die as martyrs.
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Not every marriage is destroyed by incompatibility.
Sometimes, the greatest threat to a marriage is not personality differences, financial struggles, or misunderstandings. Sometimes, the real danger comes from people who deliberately sow discord or even from the influence of the jinn, whose mission is to drive a husband and wife apart.
Sometimes, the greatest enemy is invisible.
Shayṭān knows that if he can destroy a marriage, he can destroy a family. And if he destroys a family, he can corrupt an entire generation. That is why causing separation between a husband and wife is one of his greatest victories.
The Messenger of Allah ﷺ said:
«إِنَّ إِبْلِيسَ يَضَعُ عَرْشَهُ عَلَى الْمَاءِ… فَيَقُولُ أَحَدُهُمْ: مَا تَرَكْتُهُ حَتَّى فَرَّقْتُ بَيْنَهُ وَبَيْنَ امْرَأَتِهِ، فَيُدْنِيهِ مِنْهُ وَيَقُولُ: نِعْمَ أَنْتَ.»
“Indeed, Iblis places his throne upon the water… One of his devils says, ‘I did not leave him until I separated him from his wife.’ Iblis draws him near and says, ‘Excellent!’” — Sahih Muslim
So before giving up on your marriage, ask yourself:
Is this really my spouse… or am I allowing Shayṭān to turn temporary problems into permanent destruction?
Guard your home with prayer, dhikr, sincere communication, and tawakkul. Don’t hand Shayṭān the victory he is striving for every single day.
Sometimes, the greatest threat to a marriage is not personality differences, financial struggles, or misunderstandings. Sometimes, the real danger comes from people who deliberately sow discord or even from the influence of the jinn, whose mission is to drive a husband and wife apart.
Sometimes, the greatest enemy is invisible.
Shayṭān knows that if he can destroy a marriage, he can destroy a family. And if he destroys a family, he can corrupt an entire generation. That is why causing separation between a husband and wife is one of his greatest victories.
The Messenger of Allah ﷺ said:
«إِنَّ إِبْلِيسَ يَضَعُ عَرْشَهُ عَلَى الْمَاءِ… فَيَقُولُ أَحَدُهُمْ: مَا تَرَكْتُهُ حَتَّى فَرَّقْتُ بَيْنَهُ وَبَيْنَ امْرَأَتِهِ، فَيُدْنِيهِ مِنْهُ وَيَقُولُ: نِعْمَ أَنْتَ.»
“Indeed, Iblis places his throne upon the water… One of his devils says, ‘I did not leave him until I separated him from his wife.’ Iblis draws him near and says, ‘Excellent!’” — Sahih Muslim
So before giving up on your marriage, ask yourself:
Is this really my spouse… or am I allowing Shayṭān to turn temporary problems into permanent destruction?
Guard your home with prayer, dhikr, sincere communication, and tawakkul. Don’t hand Shayṭān the victory he is striving for every single day.
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The earlier generations measured the excellence of women based upon their knowledge of Hadith, Fiqh, their piety and their memorisation of Qur’an. These are the factors that define the greatness of our women.
Greatness is not defined by: Can you make Biryani? How round is your Roti? Are you good at making tea? Are you confident when it comes to making Kebabs?
We need to raise women who are ennobled and great - not for marriage, men or future children, but for the sole reason that they deserve to be great. They are the followers of the Messenger of Allah. ﷺ
(Shaykh Aslam)
Greatness is not defined by: Can you make Biryani? How round is your Roti? Are you good at making tea? Are you confident when it comes to making Kebabs?
We need to raise women who are ennobled and great - not for marriage, men or future children, but for the sole reason that they deserve to be great. They are the followers of the Messenger of Allah. ﷺ
(Shaykh Aslam)
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Let the Muslim woman fear Allaah and prepare...
"Let her remember that one day she will depart from this life. There will come a day when she, along with her beautiful body, her tempting good looks, her adorning of herself, and her tribulation of men will be placed in a hole, dirt will be heaved on her, and worms will eat her; her beauty and glamour will leave her, and she will be in that hole, dependant upon her actions and shackled to what she put forth in this life.
There were women before her who lived in castles, then they lived in graves wherein there were petrifying conditions, heads detached from bodies, and eyes hanging on cheeks. So, let the Muslim woman fear Allaah and prepare for this day it’s proper preparation.”
[“A Piece Of Advice And Admonition For The Women” By Shaykh ‘Abd al-Razzāq Ibn ‘Abd Al-Muhsin Al-Abbād, Page 68 | Translated By Jameel Finch]
"Let her remember that one day she will depart from this life. There will come a day when she, along with her beautiful body, her tempting good looks, her adorning of herself, and her tribulation of men will be placed in a hole, dirt will be heaved on her, and worms will eat her; her beauty and glamour will leave her, and she will be in that hole, dependant upon her actions and shackled to what she put forth in this life.
There were women before her who lived in castles, then they lived in graves wherein there were petrifying conditions, heads detached from bodies, and eyes hanging on cheeks. So, let the Muslim woman fear Allaah and prepare for this day it’s proper preparation.”
[“A Piece Of Advice And Admonition For The Women” By Shaykh ‘Abd al-Razzāq Ibn ‘Abd Al-Muhsin Al-Abbād, Page 68 | Translated By Jameel Finch]
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Having co-wives is viewed as a crime nowadays. We should be ashamed for shaming them... we've lost our way as Muslims.!
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If every woman on the earth starts wearing a Burqa, men would still be answerable to God for what they see. And if all the men in this world get blind, women would still have to be answerable about appropriate clothing.
Rather than playing the blame game, just do your part. Ignore such useless debates. Just do what is your responsibility.
Rather than playing the blame game, just do your part. Ignore such useless debates. Just do what is your responsibility.
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MUSLIM MARRIAGE 💎 TIPS
Women, if you want a peaceful marriage, stop competing with your husband.
Support him, respect him. Let him lead.
A man who feels respected at home will move mountains for you..
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Its that simple.
Women, if you want a peaceful marriage, stop competing with your husband.
Support him, respect him. Let him lead.
A man who feels respected at home will move mountains for you..
https://t.me/MuslimMarriageTips
Its that simple.
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Most successful couples,r thse,who don’t live according to d expectations of others.Thy don’t look around&try to copy others, instead, thy look towards1 another&start this journey of marriage with trust in Allaah&eachOther.
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ALL OF US MEN/WOMEN WERE CREATED ONLY TO WORSHIP ALLAAH
Sisters, You might be married to the worst man ever, like ASIYA ('alayha salam) was married to Pharaoh – but it didn’t change her and her loyalty and love to Allah SWT
You might be married to the best of men, and still not be saved from Allah's punishment – like the wife of Prophet Lut ('alaihi salam)
You might be a mature woman assisting your man in his 'mission', like the praised KHADIJAH (radiallahu 'anha) with her business empire. Yet her devotion was foremost to the Rabb of her Messenger (sallalahu 'alayhi wassallam)
You might not be married to any man, like MARYAM ('alaiha salam), and Allah SWT can make your rank higher than any women on the Earth
You might be a lifelong student of knowledge, aspiring to follow in the footsteps of the greatest female scholar AISHA (radiallahu 'anha), working hard for your Deen and for your Akhirah, while living your dunya
You might be a divorcee or a widow like UMM SALAMAH (radiallahu 'anha) whose complete trust in Allah's Plan allowed her to overcome the agony of her husband's death. To thereafter be rewarded with the love of the greatest man to have ever lived, Muhammad (sallallahu 'alayhi wassallam)
You might be a young mother striving hard with young children like FATIMAH (radiallahu 'anha). And striving to strike that balance in being woman, wife and mother for the Sake of your Rabb to attain His Pleasure
⌚ Know your priorities. Know your purpose in this dunya. Love and trust is with Allah SWT first
Whatever your reality, the ONLY relationship in this dunya where you will NEVER have your heart broken is the relationship between you and Allah SWT
Successful truly are those relationships which bring you closer to Allah SWT. Aspiring to walk hand in hand with your man in Jannah. Everlasting, blissful, true, complete love. Aim for that. Work for that.
- Sheikh Umran Kader
Sisters, You might be married to the worst man ever, like ASIYA ('alayha salam) was married to Pharaoh – but it didn’t change her and her loyalty and love to Allah SWT
You might be married to the best of men, and still not be saved from Allah's punishment – like the wife of Prophet Lut ('alaihi salam)
You might be a mature woman assisting your man in his 'mission', like the praised KHADIJAH (radiallahu 'anha) with her business empire. Yet her devotion was foremost to the Rabb of her Messenger (sallalahu 'alayhi wassallam)
You might not be married to any man, like MARYAM ('alaiha salam), and Allah SWT can make your rank higher than any women on the Earth
You might be a lifelong student of knowledge, aspiring to follow in the footsteps of the greatest female scholar AISHA (radiallahu 'anha), working hard for your Deen and for your Akhirah, while living your dunya
You might be a divorcee or a widow like UMM SALAMAH (radiallahu 'anha) whose complete trust in Allah's Plan allowed her to overcome the agony of her husband's death. To thereafter be rewarded with the love of the greatest man to have ever lived, Muhammad (sallallahu 'alayhi wassallam)
You might be a young mother striving hard with young children like FATIMAH (radiallahu 'anha). And striving to strike that balance in being woman, wife and mother for the Sake of your Rabb to attain His Pleasure
⌚ Know your priorities. Know your purpose in this dunya. Love and trust is with Allah SWT first
Whatever your reality, the ONLY relationship in this dunya where you will NEVER have your heart broken is the relationship between you and Allah SWT
Successful truly are those relationships which bring you closer to Allah SWT. Aspiring to walk hand in hand with your man in Jannah. Everlasting, blissful, true, complete love. Aim for that. Work for that.
- Sheikh Umran Kader
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From a brother
Widow and divorcee are similar. A divorcee who was the oppressed is likely going to value an averagely good man but a widow whose husband was extraordinary good will be difficult to satisfy.
Widow and divorcee are similar. A divorcee who was the oppressed is likely going to value an averagely good man but a widow whose husband was extraordinary good will be difficult to satisfy.
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Dear singles,
May Allâh make Nikkah easy for you, and grant you a spouse who'd be the coolness of your eyes, and make you a good significant half to your spouse, and grant you offspring on the fitrah of Islaam, who'd be a good ambassador of Islaam.
Aameen
May Allâh make Nikkah easy for you, and grant you a spouse who'd be the coolness of your eyes, and make you a good significant half to your spouse, and grant you offspring on the fitrah of Islaam, who'd be a good ambassador of Islaam.
Aameen
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Shaykh Bashir al-Ibrahimi رحمه الله:
"If a woman is ignorant of the religious sciences, she burdens her husband, corrupts her children, and destroys the Ummah."
[Al-Athar, 4/50]
"If a woman is ignorant of the religious sciences, she burdens her husband, corrupts her children, and destroys the Ummah."
[Al-Athar, 4/50]
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The story that shall make you cry, for the great manners of the Prophet (pbuh), and for the man who wanted to commit zina:
Imam Ahmad recorded Abu Umamah saying that a young man came to the Prophet and said,
"O Messenger of Allah! Give me permission to commit Zina (unlawful sex).'' The people surrounded him and rebuked him, saying, "Stop! Stop!'' But the Prophet said,
"Come close."
The young man came to him, and he said:
"Sit down."
So he sat down.
The Prophet pbuh said:
"Would you like it (unlawful sex) for your mother."
He said, "No, by Allah, may I be ransomed for you.''
The Prophet said,
"Neither do the people like it for their mothers."
The Prophet said,
"Would you like it for your daughter."
He said, "No, by Allah, may I be ransomed for you.''
The Prophet said,
"Neither do the people like it for their daughters."
The Prophet said,
"Would you like it for your sister."
He said, "No, by Allah, may I be ransomed for you.''
The Prophet said,
"Neither do the people like it for their sisters."
The Prophet said,
"Would you like it for your paternal aunt."
He said, "No, by Allah, O Allah's Messenger! may I be ransomed for you.''
The Prophet said,
"Neither do the people like it for their paternal aunts.
The Prophet said,
"Would you like it for your maternal aunt."
He said, "No, by Allah, O Allah's Messenger! may I be ransomed for you.''
The Prophet said,
"Neither do the people like it for their maternal aunts."
Then the Prophet put his hand on him and said,
"O Allah, forgive his sin, purify his heart and guard his chastity."
After that, it is said, the young man never paid attention to anything of that nature.
Imam Ahmad recorded Abu Umamah saying that a young man came to the Prophet and said,
"O Messenger of Allah! Give me permission to commit Zina (unlawful sex).'' The people surrounded him and rebuked him, saying, "Stop! Stop!'' But the Prophet said,
"Come close."
The young man came to him, and he said:
"Sit down."
So he sat down.
The Prophet pbuh said:
"Would you like it (unlawful sex) for your mother."
He said, "No, by Allah, may I be ransomed for you.''
The Prophet said,
"Neither do the people like it for their mothers."
The Prophet said,
"Would you like it for your daughter."
He said, "No, by Allah, may I be ransomed for you.''
The Prophet said,
"Neither do the people like it for their daughters."
The Prophet said,
"Would you like it for your sister."
He said, "No, by Allah, may I be ransomed for you.''
The Prophet said,
"Neither do the people like it for their sisters."
The Prophet said,
"Would you like it for your paternal aunt."
He said, "No, by Allah, O Allah's Messenger! may I be ransomed for you.''
The Prophet said,
"Neither do the people like it for their paternal aunts.
The Prophet said,
"Would you like it for your maternal aunt."
He said, "No, by Allah, O Allah's Messenger! may I be ransomed for you.''
The Prophet said,
"Neither do the people like it for their maternal aunts."
Then the Prophet put his hand on him and said,
"O Allah, forgive his sin, purify his heart and guard his chastity."
After that, it is said, the young man never paid attention to anything of that nature.
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Find yourself a wife who shares your purpose, and there is no purpose higher than seeking the pleasure of الله.
If thats the goal that truly unites you,
then your marriage will be blessed, your bond will be strong, and your love will rest upon the strongest foundation a marriage can have.
Never trade that away for greater beauty, and never be deceived by pictures.
By الله, even if you married the most beautiful woman you have ever seen,
you'll never find peace if your purpose, your priorities, your way of living, and your direction aren't one.
Beauty cannot hold together what conflicting hearts pull apart.
Instead of becoming your place of comfort, the marriage becomes a source of chaos, exhaustion, and sorrow.
Our Creator, said, "A believing slave woman is better than a polytheist, even though she may please you."
And the Prophet ﷺ said, "Choose the one who is religious, may your hands be covered with dust."
The wise man chooses a woman of religion, adorned with modesty and beautiful character,
A woman who seeks to please her husband because she knows that in doing so she seeks the pleasure of her Lord, and who helps him remain firm upon his faith and draws him closer to الله.
I am not telling you to marry a woman who brings you no joy when you look at her.
Physical attraction has its place.
But let your first priority always be her religion, because thats what remains when everything else fades.
Beauty, no matter how extraordinary, eventually becomes familiar.
Faith, character, and righteousness only grow more beautiful with time.
If thats the goal that truly unites you,
then your marriage will be blessed, your bond will be strong, and your love will rest upon the strongest foundation a marriage can have.
Never trade that away for greater beauty, and never be deceived by pictures.
By الله, even if you married the most beautiful woman you have ever seen,
you'll never find peace if your purpose, your priorities, your way of living, and your direction aren't one.
Beauty cannot hold together what conflicting hearts pull apart.
Instead of becoming your place of comfort, the marriage becomes a source of chaos, exhaustion, and sorrow.
Our Creator, said, "A believing slave woman is better than a polytheist, even though she may please you."
And the Prophet ﷺ said, "Choose the one who is religious, may your hands be covered with dust."
The wise man chooses a woman of religion, adorned with modesty and beautiful character,
A woman who seeks to please her husband because she knows that in doing so she seeks the pleasure of her Lord, and who helps him remain firm upon his faith and draws him closer to الله.
I am not telling you to marry a woman who brings you no joy when you look at her.
Physical attraction has its place.
But let your first priority always be her religion, because thats what remains when everything else fades.
Beauty, no matter how extraordinary, eventually becomes familiar.
Faith, character, and righteousness only grow more beautiful with time.
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