Forwarded from Muslim Health Tips
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Ginger➕bitter kola ➡️delays ejaculation
Ginseng roots➡️eliminates all forms of erectile dysfunction
Ginger➕cloves ➡️supports morning erection.
Ginger ➕garlic ➡️enhance circulation to the penis.
Ginger ➕garlic➕cloves➡️maintains erection
Pineapple➕water melon➡️builds testosterone levels
Exercise, keeps you fit. avoid sugar, alcohol. eat healthy.
Ginger➕bitter kola ➡️delays ejaculation
Ginseng roots➡️eliminates all forms of erectile dysfunction
Ginger➕cloves ➡️supports morning erection.
Ginger ➕garlic ➡️enhance circulation to the penis.
Ginger ➕garlic➕cloves➡️maintains erection
Pineapple➕water melon➡️builds testosterone levels
Exercise, keeps you fit. avoid sugar, alcohol. eat healthy.
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Al-Qurtubi رحمه الله :
Shyness is found in the eyes. A girl who stares at men and lets her gaze wander among passersby will lose some of her beauty.
[at-Tadhkira, p. 31]
Shyness is found in the eyes. A girl who stares at men and lets her gaze wander among passersby will lose some of her beauty.
[at-Tadhkira, p. 31]
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😜😜😜 Types of Ladies
Technically there are 7 TYPES OF LADIES:
1. HARD DISK lady: Remembers everything forever.
2. RAM lady: Forgets about you the moment you leave.
3. SCREENSAVER lady: Just for looking.
4. INTERNET lady: Difficult to access.
5. SERVER lady: Always busy when needed
6. MULTIMEDIA lady: Looks beautiful but you can only look.
7. VIRUS lady: This type of lady is normally called 'WIFE', once enters your system, never leaves even if the system is formatted.😝😝
Technically there are 7 TYPES OF LADIES:
1. HARD DISK lady: Remembers everything forever.
2. RAM lady: Forgets about you the moment you leave.
3. SCREENSAVER lady: Just for looking.
4. INTERNET lady: Difficult to access.
5. SERVER lady: Always busy when needed
6. MULTIMEDIA lady: Looks beautiful but you can only look.
7. VIRUS lady: This type of lady is normally called 'WIFE', once enters your system, never leaves even if the system is formatted.😝😝
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Loving the wife and loving the children aren't always connected. The fact that you dont like your husband doesn't mean he is automatically a bad father, and trying to make your kids hate him because you don't like him isn't only mischievous, you are destroying their lives. A child that isn't able to love one of his parents will struggle with that trauma for life and have problems with deep emotional bonding with others.
Learn to compartmentalise issues even if overlaps may not always be avoidable. If you have a problem with your husband, allow the kids to have a normal relationship with their father. Irrespective of how hard you try you will NEVER replace their father in their life. If he is truly irresponsible, let him be the one that proves it to them. Don't poison their hearts. Don't drag them into the battle or use them as either weapons or shields.
It is not fair to destroy your children's life with your unfortunate condition. Your kids are too young to be your comforter when your husband offends you. Look for an adult to talk to. Allow them love their father. What they feel for him is natural and biological. Yours is conditional. Do not co-opt your kids into hating their father because you hate him.
Abu Imrān
Learn to compartmentalise issues even if overlaps may not always be avoidable. If you have a problem with your husband, allow the kids to have a normal relationship with their father. Irrespective of how hard you try you will NEVER replace their father in their life. If he is truly irresponsible, let him be the one that proves it to them. Don't poison their hearts. Don't drag them into the battle or use them as either weapons or shields.
It is not fair to destroy your children's life with your unfortunate condition. Your kids are too young to be your comforter when your husband offends you. Look for an adult to talk to. Allow them love their father. What they feel for him is natural and biological. Yours is conditional. Do not co-opt your kids into hating their father because you hate him.
Abu Imrān
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You see that your fiancee that is making your blood hot, you wish you could hold her hands, you wish you could hug her, you wish it was allowed to kiss her even once, you wish he could peck or cuddle you, you wish he could sing his love for you, you can't just wait till your guardian gives the green light, so that you can jump into his arms... Just chill, when the knot is tied, half of these cravings and feelings will vanish immediately, after the honeymoon, the remaining half will start withering away. He texts you 'I love you' thrice a day now, but after marriage, saying it for even once becomes a problem, and he can't just explain why he doesn't say it anymore. It's the work of Shaitan.
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Among the tricks of Shaitan is that, before marriage he makes sex look delicious and enticing to the young man and the lady, but after marriage, the same Shaitan makes copulation look ugly and hectic to the couple. Ever wondered why a newly married couple who has been looking forward to their consummation night, suddenly looses appetite for anything when that much awaited night comes? They may even spend days together before going for the adventure, whereas they had always been extremely hungry and salivating for it. That was LUST.
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Shaitan makes people crave for each other before marriage, so that he can lure them to commit Zina, if he doesn't succeed, then he makes them hate sex after marriage, so that it will cause problems between them, and so that they won't birth a new child from it, for every time a new soul is born who will worship Allah, it hurts Shaitan so much that he pokes the new born baby to make him or her cry, which usually indicates the reason for the first cry of every child. Ever wondered why a couple who live in the same house and sleep on the same bed spend several months without having intimacy? It's because Shaitan has made them to abhor each other.
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عن شقيق قال : جاء رجل إلى عبد الله [يعني : ابن مسعود] يقال له أبو جرير فقال : إني تزوجت جارية شابة وإني أخاف أن تفركني (أي : تبغضني) .
قال : فقال عبد الله : إن الإلف من الله ، والفرك من الشيطان ، يريد أن يكره إليكم ما أحل الله لكم ، فإذا أتتك فمرها أن تصلي وراءك ركعتين
Shaqeeq said:
A man who was called Abu Jareer came to AbdiLlah ibn Mas'ud radiAllahu anhu and said:
I have just gotten married to a young girl and I am afraid that she will dislike me.
Ibn Masud replied: Love is from Allah and separation is from Shaytaan, who wants to make hateful to you that which Allah has permitted for you. So when she comes to you, tell her to pray two rak‘ahs behind you.
(Ibn Abi Shaybah in al-Musannaf (3/402); ‘Abd al-Razzaaq in al-Musannaf (6/191); al-Tabaraani in al-Mu‘jam al-Kabeer, 9/204)
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So don't be surprised if you hear that a Haafiz and a Haafizah committed Zina, even though they know all the warnings against it.
Allah says:
Shaitan made their (bad) deeds fair-seeming to them, and turned them away from the right Path, even though they were intelligent. (Ankabut vs 38).
So, that a brother has long beards or that a sister wears Hijaab doesn't mean they have the anti-virus against the feelings of the flesh. That a man has four wives doesn't mean he won't still crave for the women outside once in a while. It's the work of shaitan.
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That is why the Prophet said:
'When a woman fascinates you, go and mate with your wife, for she has whatever that woman outside has. (Saheeh Muslim).
Hence, a secondary school girl who has not even started menstruating can sometimes look more appealing to you than your wife at home who wears alluring garments and is ever ready to grace your bed. It is Shaitan that has made your wife look ugly and has made that groundnut hawker look more beautiful to you. Often seek refuge in Allah from Shaitan, fear Allah, lower your gaze and discipline your own soul, for if you were even allowed to marry all the women in the world, Shaitan would still make the genitals of the animals to appear seductive to you.
May Allah protect us. Aameen
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Among the tricks of Shaitan is that, before marriage he makes sex look delicious and enticing to the young man and the lady, but after marriage, the same Shaitan makes copulation look ugly and hectic to the couple. Ever wondered why a newly married couple who has been looking forward to their consummation night, suddenly looses appetite for anything when that much awaited night comes? They may even spend days together before going for the adventure, whereas they had always been extremely hungry and salivating for it. That was LUST.
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Shaitan makes people crave for each other before marriage, so that he can lure them to commit Zina, if he doesn't succeed, then he makes them hate sex after marriage, so that it will cause problems between them, and so that they won't birth a new child from it, for every time a new soul is born who will worship Allah, it hurts Shaitan so much that he pokes the new born baby to make him or her cry, which usually indicates the reason for the first cry of every child. Ever wondered why a couple who live in the same house and sleep on the same bed spend several months without having intimacy? It's because Shaitan has made them to abhor each other.
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عن شقيق قال : جاء رجل إلى عبد الله [يعني : ابن مسعود] يقال له أبو جرير فقال : إني تزوجت جارية شابة وإني أخاف أن تفركني (أي : تبغضني) .
قال : فقال عبد الله : إن الإلف من الله ، والفرك من الشيطان ، يريد أن يكره إليكم ما أحل الله لكم ، فإذا أتتك فمرها أن تصلي وراءك ركعتين
Shaqeeq said:
A man who was called Abu Jareer came to AbdiLlah ibn Mas'ud radiAllahu anhu and said:
I have just gotten married to a young girl and I am afraid that she will dislike me.
Ibn Masud replied: Love is from Allah and separation is from Shaytaan, who wants to make hateful to you that which Allah has permitted for you. So when she comes to you, tell her to pray two rak‘ahs behind you.
(Ibn Abi Shaybah in al-Musannaf (3/402); ‘Abd al-Razzaaq in al-Musannaf (6/191); al-Tabaraani in al-Mu‘jam al-Kabeer, 9/204)
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So don't be surprised if you hear that a Haafiz and a Haafizah committed Zina, even though they know all the warnings against it.
Allah says:
Shaitan made their (bad) deeds fair-seeming to them, and turned them away from the right Path, even though they were intelligent. (Ankabut vs 38).
So, that a brother has long beards or that a sister wears Hijaab doesn't mean they have the anti-virus against the feelings of the flesh. That a man has four wives doesn't mean he won't still crave for the women outside once in a while. It's the work of shaitan.
.
That is why the Prophet said:
'When a woman fascinates you, go and mate with your wife, for she has whatever that woman outside has. (Saheeh Muslim).
Hence, a secondary school girl who has not even started menstruating can sometimes look more appealing to you than your wife at home who wears alluring garments and is ever ready to grace your bed. It is Shaitan that has made your wife look ugly and has made that groundnut hawker look more beautiful to you. Often seek refuge in Allah from Shaitan, fear Allah, lower your gaze and discipline your own soul, for if you were even allowed to marry all the women in the world, Shaitan would still make the genitals of the animals to appear seductive to you.
May Allah protect us. Aameen
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Forwarded from Muslim Marriage Tips
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May Allah ta'aala guide our sisters to have Haya. Aameen
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Most successful couples,r thse,who don’t live according to d expectations of others.Thy don’t look around&try to copy others, instead, thy look towards1 another&start this journey of marriage with trust in Allaah&eachOther.
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Marry someone who will encourage you, elevate your Imaan and most importantly, bring to closer to Allâh.
Make the deen your primary criteria in choosing a spouse, every other factors should come after.
Make the deen your primary criteria in choosing a spouse, every other factors should come after.
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Forwarded from Muslim Children Tips
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Dear Dad,
I miss you in ways that break me every single day. Sometimes it feels like the world kept moving, but I stayed behind, stuck in the moment you left. I search for you in the stars, in the quiet, in the pieces of my heart that will never feel whole again.
I would give anything for one more hug, one more laugh, one more chance to hear your voice. The silence without you is unbearable. People say time heals, but time has only taught me how to carry the pain, never erase it.
You were more than just my father—you were my strength, my safe place, my home. Now I walk through life with tears that no one sees, carrying a love that will never fade, and a longing that will never end.
I miss you, Dad. Always.
Dear Dad,
I miss you in ways that break me every single day. Sometimes it feels like the world kept moving, but I stayed behind, stuck in the moment you left. I search for you in the stars, in the quiet, in the pieces of my heart that will never feel whole again.
I would give anything for one more hug, one more laugh, one more chance to hear your voice. The silence without you is unbearable. People say time heals, but time has only taught me how to carry the pain, never erase it.
You were more than just my father—you were my strength, my safe place, my home. Now I walk through life with tears that no one sees, carrying a love that will never fade, and a longing that will never end.
I miss you, Dad. Always.
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A man who cannot lead will always be frustrated by a strong woman.
A strong woman carries herself with confidence and purpose. She knows what she wants and where she is going. She is not looking for someone to complete her because she is already whole.
She wants a partner, not a project or a boy pretending to be a man.
But a man who lacks direction, maturity, or ambition will not admire her strength. He will see it as a threat. He will mistake her independence for arrogance and her standards for being too much. He will feel insecure beside a woman who chooses him but does not need him.
A man who cannot lead will feel small next to a woman who leads herself. He will try to control what he cannot compete with. He will try to silence what he cannot match. Instead of rising to meet her, he will try to bring her down.
But a strong woman does not need control. She needs leadership rooted in wisdom, integrity, and love. A man secure enough to respect her voice. A man who knows leadership is not about control but about guidance and partnership.
Many men want the benefits of a strong woman....her loyalty, her love, her support...but they are not prepared to lead her. Leadership means creating a safe space where she can trust, rest, and be soft without sacrificing her strength.
A man who cannot lead will want her to shrink so he feels big. But a real man will step up. He will lead in a way that honors her strength. He will walk beside her, building a path they can walk together.
Ladies, never dim your light for a man’s comfort. A real leader will not be intimidated by you....he will be inspired.
And men? If you are praying for a strong woman, make sure you are prepared to be a strong man. She is not looking for someone to crown. She is looking for someone already walking in wisdom, strength, and love.
A strong woman carries herself with confidence and purpose. She knows what she wants and where she is going. She is not looking for someone to complete her because she is already whole.
She wants a partner, not a project or a boy pretending to be a man.
But a man who lacks direction, maturity, or ambition will not admire her strength. He will see it as a threat. He will mistake her independence for arrogance and her standards for being too much. He will feel insecure beside a woman who chooses him but does not need him.
A man who cannot lead will feel small next to a woman who leads herself. He will try to control what he cannot compete with. He will try to silence what he cannot match. Instead of rising to meet her, he will try to bring her down.
But a strong woman does not need control. She needs leadership rooted in wisdom, integrity, and love. A man secure enough to respect her voice. A man who knows leadership is not about control but about guidance and partnership.
Many men want the benefits of a strong woman....her loyalty, her love, her support...but they are not prepared to lead her. Leadership means creating a safe space where she can trust, rest, and be soft without sacrificing her strength.
A man who cannot lead will want her to shrink so he feels big. But a real man will step up. He will lead in a way that honors her strength. He will walk beside her, building a path they can walk together.
Ladies, never dim your light for a man’s comfort. A real leader will not be intimidated by you....he will be inspired.
And men? If you are praying for a strong woman, make sure you are prepared to be a strong man. She is not looking for someone to crown. She is looking for someone already walking in wisdom, strength, and love.
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There should be a pre-marital islamic counselling school where would-be couples attend for 6 months or so to understand the rights of spouses intensively, it’s like a lot of us are ready for marriage financially and age wise but no sense or any knowledge of what marriage really entails. The moment we satisfy our lust, we start misbehaving. Too bad!
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One of the greatest fitan of our time is the rise of so-called 'hijabi influencers' and 'dawah bros' who sugarcoat Islam, romanticize the deen, and present a version of it that pleases the nafs, not Allah ﷻ.
Stay away from them.
Stay away from them.
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Polygany is not just about a man having many wives but for every woman having a husband because Allah has created more women than men. Dear sisters, Allah made polygamy lawful and for you hating it, is an act of disbelief! Don't let jealousy make you hate what Allah has made lawful!!!🌹
Shaykh Ibn Uthaymeen رحمه الله said: “Polygyny in this age is more necessary than it was in the past due to the large number of women, the abundance of temptations, and women’s need for those who will preserve their chastity.”
📚 •Sharḥ Ḥilyat Ṭālib al-‘Ilm
Shaykh Ibn Uthaymeen رحمه الله said: “Polygyny in this age is more necessary than it was in the past due to the large number of women, the abundance of temptations, and women’s need for those who will preserve their chastity.”
📚 •Sharḥ Ḥilyat Ṭālib al-‘Ilm
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Finding the right man for marriage is the second challenge. The first challenge is to be the right woman that a right man wants to marry.
And Vice Versa.
Are you a good marriage candidate?
And Vice Versa.
Are you a good marriage candidate?
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“When the women of the city heard of what the wife of the azīz did (as in the story of Prophet Yūsuf عليه السلام), they said, out of astonishment and condemning, ‘Verily we see her in a clear error.’ [Sūrat Yūsuf 30] Then, it wasn’t long until they fell into the same fitnah!
So do not look to the one who fell into a sin as if you are better than them, because nothing is between you and this sin except the mercy of Allāh upon you [that He did not let you do this]. So do not remove your cover by your arrogance, and make du’ā for them for repentance, and for yourself for salvation.”
So do not look to the one who fell into a sin as if you are better than them, because nothing is between you and this sin except the mercy of Allāh upon you [that He did not let you do this]. So do not remove your cover by your arrogance, and make du’ā for them for repentance, and for yourself for salvation.”
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Hadith : Dua to get love of Allah Subhanhu
RasoolAllah SallAllahu Alahi Wasallam supplicated like this
اللَّهُمَّ إِنِّي أَسْأَلُكَ حُبَّكَ وَحُبَّ مَنْ يُحِبُّكَ وَحُبَّ عَمَلٍ يُقَرِّبُ إِلَى حُبِّكَ
Allahumma inni AsAluka Hubbak, Wa Hubba mann Yuhibbuk, Wa Hubba Amalin Yuqarribu ila Hubbik.
O Allah I ask You for Your love and the love of whomever You love, and the of the deeds that bring one nearer to Your love.
Jamia Tirmizi, Book 44, 3235-Hasan
RasoolAllah SallAllahu Alahi Wasallam supplicated like this
اللَّهُمَّ إِنِّي أَسْأَلُكَ حُبَّكَ وَحُبَّ مَنْ يُحِبُّكَ وَحُبَّ عَمَلٍ يُقَرِّبُ إِلَى حُبِّكَ
Allahumma inni AsAluka Hubbak, Wa Hubba mann Yuhibbuk, Wa Hubba Amalin Yuqarribu ila Hubbik.
O Allah I ask You for Your love and the love of whomever You love, and the of the deeds that bring one nearer to Your love.
Jamia Tirmizi, Book 44, 3235-Hasan
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يُقال قديماً:
كان الفرق بين الجارية والحرة في الأماكن العامة أن الحرة تتحجب والجاريّة تتزين لأنها تُباع وتُشترى.
"ما أكثر الجواري اليوم"!
والله المُستعان...
It used to be said in the past:
The difference in public places between a slave woman and a free woman was that the free woman would veil herself, while the slave woman would adorn herself because she was bought and sold.
"How numerous are the slave women today!"
And Allah is the One whose help is sought...
كان الفرق بين الجارية والحرة في الأماكن العامة أن الحرة تتحجب والجاريّة تتزين لأنها تُباع وتُشترى.
"ما أكثر الجواري اليوم"!
والله المُستعان...
It used to be said in the past:
The difference in public places between a slave woman and a free woman was that the free woman would veil herself, while the slave woman would adorn herself because she was bought and sold.
"How numerous are the slave women today!"
And Allah is the One whose help is sought...
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Some of our sisters are suffering in their marriages because their parents didn't teach them how to be good wives, and these sisters do not bother to learn either.
Marriage is not just about speaking English or acquiring certificates.
Marriage is beyond the 'rosy' things you see on social media and in movies.
If you cannot take proper care of the home and your husband, you're not wife material.
And if you think you can outsource every single thing, you'll later outsource your husband to a caring and homely co-wife.
My advice to our single sisters is for them to learn everything possible to be a homely wife before stepping into marriage.
Know how to cook.
Know how to keep the home sparkling clean 🫧.
Know how to lay your beddings.
Know how to pamper your husband.
Know how to take care of the kids.
Know your duties as a wife and a mother.
Allah has blessed you with a caring and responsible man; the best way to show gratitude is to make the home a place of peace for him and not of worries.
Barakallahu feekum.
Marriage is not just about speaking English or acquiring certificates.
Marriage is beyond the 'rosy' things you see on social media and in movies.
If you cannot take proper care of the home and your husband, you're not wife material.
And if you think you can outsource every single thing, you'll later outsource your husband to a caring and homely co-wife.
My advice to our single sisters is for them to learn everything possible to be a homely wife before stepping into marriage.
Know how to cook.
Know how to keep the home sparkling clean 🫧.
Know how to lay your beddings.
Know how to pamper your husband.
Know how to take care of the kids.
Know your duties as a wife and a mother.
Allah has blessed you with a caring and responsible man; the best way to show gratitude is to make the home a place of peace for him and not of worries.
Barakallahu feekum.
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