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Most successful couples,r thse,who don’t live according to d expectations of others.Thy don’t look around&try to copy others, instead, thy look towards1 another&start this journey of marriage with trust in Allaah&eachOther.

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TO OUR SISTERS IN DEEN.
A married woman enters Jannah through her husband.
"Narrated by Anas ibn Malik:
Allah`s messenger said: If a woman observes her five daily prayers, fasts during then month of Ramadhan, gaurds her chastity, and obeys her husband, she will be given the priviledge of entering Paradis through any of the gates she wishes."
(Hadith Al-Tirmidhi, 3254)
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If u want barakah in ur marriage, then spend less on the wedding keep it simple & remember going on honeymoon is an imitation of kuffar:

"Having very expensive dowers and extravagant wedding parties is something that goes against the Shariah . The marriage which has the greatest blessing is the one with lesser financial burden. Any time the burdens are lessened, the blessings are increased.
This is a matter that is many times caused by women. Women are the ones that often insist upon their husbands to set very high dower [for their daughter]. If a lesser dower is offered, they will say their daughter is deserving of such and such. Furthermore, expensive and luxurious wedding parties are prohibited by the Shariah . they fall under the command of the verse.

''But be not extravagant. Verily, He loves not those who are extravagant ” (Surah Al- Anam 7:141)

Again, many times it is the women who force their husbands to do such things. They say that so and so’s party they had this and that. However, such gatherings must be according to the Shariah .The person should not spend what is beyond his means. He must also never be extravagant for Allah has prohibited extravagance.

'' Verily, He loves not those who are extravagant .” (Surah Al- Anam 7:141)

Honeymoons are WORSE and even MORE EVIL. This is because they are an IMITATION of the non-Muslims. They are a waste of lots of wealth. It also leads to people being lax with respect to their religious duties when such honeymoons take place in non- Muslim areas. The people come back with customs and behaviour that are harmful for them and for the Muslim community . This is something that is to be feared for the Ummah . However there is no harm, Allah Willing, if a man travels with his wife to make Umrah or to visit Madinah"

Shaykh Muhammad bin Saalih al-`Uthaymeen
Islamic Fatawa Regarding Women - Darussalam Pg. 193-194

Taken from http://www.fatwaislam.com/fis/index.cfm?scn=fd&ID=637
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Most women get into good marriages led by responsible men.
Then they start listening to “friends.”
Some of those friends are stuck in bad marriages.

Some are single, frustrated, and bitter.

They begin feeding her inciting and misleading information.

“Don’t submit.”
“He’s controlling.”
“You deserve more.”
“Leave if you’re not happy every day.”

Slowly a peaceful home becomes starts breaking because outside bitter voices entered the marriage.

If you are a wise woman, stp listiening to, divorced, single, unmarried women. They want you to also get divorced so you can suffer together.
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Fatimah bint Qays reported: Her husband divorced her three times, and the Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, had not appointed her housing or maintenance. The Prophet said to her, “When your waiting period is over, come to me.” Fatimah came to him as she was given a marriage proposal from Mu’awiyyah, Abu Jahm, and Usamah ibn Zayd. The Prophet said, “As for Mu’awiyyah, he is poor and has no property. As for Abu Jahm, he is a man who often beats women. Rather, choose Usamah ibn Zayd.” Fatimah indicated with her hand that she did not want Usamah. The Prophet said, “Obedience to Allah and His Messenger is better for you.” Fatimah said, “I married him, and I was envied.”
Source: Ṣaḥīḥ Muslim 1480
Grade: Sahih (authentic) according to Muslim
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Men, if you marry a woman who grew up in a home where her father was respected, loved and genuinely appreciated by her mother, you may have won the lottery.

She grew up watching what a healthy marriage can look like. She saw her mother respect her father and she saw her father love and protect his wife. She learned that a husband and wife are supposed to be on the same team, and that marriage requires both people to contribute.

A woman doesn't automatically become a good wife because her father was a good man, but the environment she grew up in can shape what she considers normal in a relationship.

If she watched her parents communicate, forgive each other, show affection and stand together through difficult seasons, she has already seen something many people spend years trying to learn.

Pay attention to the home someone comes from.

You aren't just marrying the person in front of you. You're also marrying some of the lessons they learned about love, conflict, money, respect and family while growing up.
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Can we normalize simple weddings again?

In Islam, marriage is meant to begin with barakah, not financial pressure. There is nothing wrong with celebrating, feeding people, and making beautiful memories—but going into five-figure debt just to impress people defeats the purpose.

Allah says:

وَلَا تُسْرِفُوا إِنَّهُ لَا يُحِبُّ الْمُسْرِفِينَ
“Do not be extravagant. Indeed, Allah does not love those who are extravagant.”
— Qur’an 7:31

Do the nikah, have a simple walimah, fulfill the rights of your spouse, and if you can afford it, enjoy a beautiful honeymoon together.

Marriage is about building a life—not performing one expensive day for society.

A simple wedding with barakah is far better than a lavish wedding followed by years of debt.

Maybe it’s time we stop asking, “What will people say?” and start asking, “What will please Allah and benefit our marriage?”
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I have been married for more than 15 years, and here are 10 important lessons I have learned:

1. Love is not enough.
Respect, discipline, and responsibility keep the home standing when feelings go quiet.

2. A soft man loses his house.
The moment you stop leading and now your wife becomes the head it is over. She will never respect you again.

3. Sex is not a bonus, its what holds a marriage together.
If intimacy dies, bitterness, distance, and temptation grow fast.Intimacy makes the bond strong.

4. Money problems become marriage problems.
A broke and directionless man will struggle to keep respect, no matter how kind he is.Everything requires money, without it you can't provide and that lowers your respect.

5. Your wife’s friends can destroy your home.
If her friends are divorced or unmarried they might talk her out of the marriage.Bitter women will teach her to fight a marriage they failed to build.

6.In-laws will test you.
Don't you let your in-laws have a say in your marriage, they will destroy it.If you don’t set boundaries early, your marriage will belong to them and it won't last.

7. Comfort kills attraction.
Most men get cormfortable after marriage, thinking the work is done.When you stop improving your body, money, and character, she starts seeing you as a roommate.

8.Silence is not always peace.
If your wife still loves you, she will argue with you sometimes, once she stops arguing and never tries to fix things, your marriage is in trouble.Sometimes she has already checked out and is only waiting for the perfect time to leave.

9. Children do not save a bad marriage.
They only make leaving harder and the suffering longer.

10. You must keep choosing each other.
The wedding ends in one day. The real marriage is the work you do after the guests go home.

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Ibn Taymiyyah on Love |

When you love a person for the sake of Allāh, your love for them is rooted in your love for Allāh. You love them because of their faith, obedience, and closeness to Him. Remembering such a person reminds you of the obedience to Allāh that you love, and this strengthens your love for Allāh and your love for those who are beloved to Him.

In contrast, love that is based only on worldly benefit, such as what someone gives you, does for you, or how they make you feel, is connected to those benefits. When the benefit comes to an end, that love often weakens or disappears. The strongest and most lasting love is the love that is for the sake of Allāh.

Love is at the heart of worship. True worship is founded upon complete love of Allāh together with humility and submission to Him. It is from the creed of Ahl al Sunnah to love Allāh and His Messenger ﷺ more than anyone or anything else. Every other righteous love follows from this foundation.

The Prophet ﷺ informed us that among the seven who will be shaded by Allāh on the Day when there is no shade but His is "two people who loved one another for the sake of Allāh, meeting and parting upon that."

May Allāh make us among them. May He fill our hearts with love for Him and make His love and the love of His Messenger ﷺ the greatest love in our hearts. Āmīn. ✨
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*THIS IS SO COMMON THIS DAYS WITH FEW MARRIED MEN FLIRTING WITH WOMEN. ASTAGRIFULLAH*

SUBHAN'ALLAH!! My respected married brothers in Islam please Ponder over this !

Your wife is complaining about you Online and crying in private.

You have a wife and children @ home, yet you choose to have an "Online Wife". Someone you can flirt with and call "Honey / Jaan / Baby". Brother, please have Taqwa... !! Your wife is your treasure, she left her house to be with you, she left her family to receive your comfort and she wants to be your Queen so treat her like one daily. Avoid Zina Online.

My respected brothers in Islam with children have Modesty .

Your wife is your Garment so respect her, love her and think of your children. Please think of them! What example will you set?
Get marry as 2nd wife instead of chatting nonsense stuffs with her.

Your children will be a reflection of you. Communicate with your wife and be a man, please be a man and address issues.

MAY ALLAH HAVE MERCY ON US ALL. Ameen
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Remember Fatimah رضي الله عنها

Before saying, “I deserve an easy life,” remember Fatimah رضي الله عنها.

She was the beloved daughter of the Prophet ﷺ, yet the hardships of daily life were not hidden from her. Her hands became rough from grinding grain, but she continued with Sabr, dignity, and trust in Allah.

This doesn’t mean women should never seek comfort or that hardship is their only role. Rather, it reminds us that comfort is not the measure of a blessed life. Sometimes patience through difficulty carries a reward far greater than worldly ease.

🤍 A believer’s strength is not in having an easy life, but in remaining close to Allah through every condition.

🤲 May Allah grant us Sabr, contentment, and a heart that remains grateful in both ease and hardship. Ameen.

📖 Sahih al-Bukhari & Sahih Muslim

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Every pain needs time, but it’s not time that heals it.
It’s when the heart slowly learns to accept,
the soul slowly learns to make peace.
And when that happens, the heavy wounds turn into lessons.

Believe this:
All pain will heal, not because time heals,
but because the heart finally makes peace with the pain.
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Ibn Taymiyyah رحمه الله said,

Whoever breaks someone's heart is obligated to heal that person's heart.

[Majmu al Fatawa 18/384]
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If u want barakah in ur marriage, then spend less on the wedding keep it simple & remember going on honeymoon is an imitation of kuffar:

"Having very expensive dowers and extravagant wedding parties is something that goes against the Shariah . The marriage which has the greatest blessing is the one with lesser financial burden. Any time the burdens are lessened, the blessings are increased.
This is a matter that is many times caused by women. Women are the ones that often insist upon their husbands to set very high dower [for their daughter]. If a lesser dower is offered, they will say their daughter is deserving of such and such. Furthermore, expensive and luxurious wedding parties are prohibited by the Shariah . they fall under the command of the verse.

''But be not extravagant. Verily, He loves not those who are extravagant ” (Surah Al- Anam 7:141)

Again, many times it is the women who force their husbands to do such things. They say that so and so’s party they had this and that. However, such gatherings must be according to the Shariah .The person should not spend what is beyond his means. He must also never be extravagant for Allah has prohibited extravagance.

'' Verily, He loves not those who are extravagant .” (Surah Al- Anam 7:141)

Honeymoons are WORSE and even MORE EVIL. This is because they are an IMITATION of the non-Muslims. They are a waste of lots of wealth. It also leads to people being lax with respect to their religious duties when such honeymoons take place in non- Muslim areas. The people come back with customs and behaviour that are harmful for them and for the Muslim community . This is something that is to be feared for the Ummah . However there is no harm, Allah Willing, if a man travels with his wife to make Umrah or to visit Madinah"

Shaykh Muhammad bin Saalih al-`Uthaymeen
Islamic Fatawa Regarding Women - Darussalam Pg. 193-194

Taken from http://www.fatwaislam.com/fis/index.cfm?scn=fd&ID=637
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Men Need Respect and Women Need Love.

💘Men and women have different needs in relationships, with men prioritising respect and women prioritising love.

💘When men feel disrespected, they tend to react in unloving ways, and when women feel unloved, they tend to react in disrespectful ways.

💞Be sure to communicate what makes you feel loved as a wife and respected as a husband.

💞Once you've done this, be intentional about communicating in the language of love or respect of your partner.
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Forwarded from Jannah is Our Dream
The Duʿā of the Oppressed Has No Barrier

Imām Muḥammad ibn Ṣāliḥ al-ʿUthaymīn (رحمه الله) explained:

Even when the one who has been wronged is a disbeliever, if you have oppressed him and he turns to Allāh in supplication, Allāh may answer his duʿā.

This is not because of love for his disbelief, but because Allāh loves justice and does not approve of oppression.

📚 Riyāḍ al-Ṣāliḥīn, 4/616
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*Don't Speak ill of your Wife*

It is mentioned, there was a villager who divorced his wife.

People went to enquire the reason for his divorce.

He said: ❝I have given her one talaq, and she is still in my nikah, if I take her back during her Iddah (waiting period), and if I am going to open to you her faults, how will it be possible to take her back?❞

They waited till her Iddah was over, and they returned to the villager with the same question.

He said: ❝If I open up her faults to you; how will it be possible for her to find a suitable person to get married to?❞

As soon as she remarried, these people were back again at the villagers door with the same question.

The villager replied: ❝How can it possible for me to tell you about another man's wife, destroy her reputation and honour, whilst I'm a stranger to her?❞

Subhan'Allah Here is a fine example of how a husband and wife should ❝BEHAVE❞ for the sake of Allah! (The Most High)

All those years that a husband and wife spend together whether happy or sad a special bond is formed.

May Allah (The Most High) never let us become bitter towards each other no matter what the outcome.

Ameen!

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❝One who guides to something good has a reward similar to that of it’s doer.❞

[Saheeh Muslim Vol: 3, No; 4665]
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“Always keep your relationship information private from others. This is another one of the causes of marriages breaking apart and infidelity creeping in, as you would be sharing your concerns about your relationship with a person other than your own spouse. This may cause feelings to develop and then Shaytaan will takeover. Always make sure to talk to your spouse directly with regards to any issues within your relationship instead of an outsider. May Allah SWT bless all our marriages Ameen.”
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Sisters,

Protect Yourselves!

How many sisters are walking around unknowingly possessed by jinns and some even married to them? You don't understand why up till now you're not married? You don't know why every Suitor suddenly looses interest in you and backs out? You are having numerous dreams of sexual encounter with strange Men? You don't know why you feel so distant from your spouse or emotionally unavailable when with your spouse? Check yourself!
Your hair is all exposed, tight jeans and exposed cleavage. You think it's fashion, No sister, it's an open invitation to the jinns, that's what mostly attract them(Jinns). Allah ordered you to cover up not only as a sign of modesty but to also protect yourself from the unseen.

Protect Yourselves Sisters!

May Allaah Subuhanahu Wa Ta'ala protect us all. Aameen
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Women... Take a note of it...
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Marry someone you love and who loves you for the sake of Allah. When love is rooted in taqwa, mercy and sincerity, forgiveness becomes easier and both spouses are more willing to stand by each other through life’s difficulties.


Marry for mutual love and it becomes easier to forgive, grow, and stay. When both hearts choose each other, loyalty follows naturally. 💞
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