"The good woman is for the good man, and the good man is for the good woman." (QS. An Nur: 26)
But what about the story of Asiyah, who was married to Pharaoh? Or the story of Prophet Lot whose wife was disobedient?
These stories teach us why a wife must remain righteous and a husband must stay righteous, even if their spouse’s character isn’t yet good.
They shouldn’t be used as a standard for judging men and women today because, no matter how bad people’s character is now, Allah will not allow it to be as bad as in the time of ignorance.
So for those still unsure because you feel you’re not yet good enough for a righteous partner,
there’s good news for you.
A good man for a good woman isn’t just about already being perfect,
but about being willing to grow together toward righteousness.
Learn to understand history with Allah’s greatness and knowledge,
not just with limited human understanding."
But what about the story of Asiyah, who was married to Pharaoh? Or the story of Prophet Lot whose wife was disobedient?
These stories teach us why a wife must remain righteous and a husband must stay righteous, even if their spouse’s character isn’t yet good.
They shouldn’t be used as a standard for judging men and women today because, no matter how bad people’s character is now, Allah will not allow it to be as bad as in the time of ignorance.
So for those still unsure because you feel you’re not yet good enough for a righteous partner,
there’s good news for you.
A good man for a good woman isn’t just about already being perfect,
but about being willing to grow together toward righteousness.
Learn to understand history with Allah’s greatness and knowledge,
not just with limited human understanding."
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Forwarded from 𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐝𝐞𝐞𝐧𝐝𝐮𝐧𝐲𝐚
Don’t Miss the Golden Hour of Dua Saat al Istijabah✨
The Prophet Muhammad ﷺ said:
“On Friday, there is an hour during which no Muslim asks Allah for good but He grants it to him — and it is after ‘Asr.”
This is Sāʿat al-Istijābah – the Hour of Response.
A precious window of mercy.
A divine invitation to pour your heart out.
Amoment where the heavens open and the Most Merciful listens closely.
📿 After ‘Asr on Fridays…
Raise your hands.
Whisper your pain.
Ask boldly. Cry sincerely.
Pray for yourself, your family, this Ummah.
🤍Don’t scroll it away. Don’t let it pass distracted.
This could be the moment your duʿāʾ is answered.
May Allah make us among those who remember, ask, and are answered.
Ya Allah, do not let this hour pass without accepting our duʿās. Ameen.
The Prophet Muhammad ﷺ said:
“On Friday, there is an hour during which no Muslim asks Allah for good but He grants it to him — and it is after ‘Asr.”
📖 Abu Dawood (1048), al-Nasaa’i (1389)
This is Sāʿat al-Istijābah – the Hour of Response.
A precious window of mercy.
A divine invitation to pour your heart out.
Amoment where the heavens open and the Most Merciful listens closely.
📿 After ‘Asr on Fridays…
Raise your hands.
Whisper your pain.
Ask boldly. Cry sincerely.
Pray for yourself, your family, this Ummah.
🤍Don’t scroll it away. Don’t let it pass distracted.
This could be the moment your duʿāʾ is answered.
May Allah make us among those who remember, ask, and are answered.
Ya Allah, do not let this hour pass without accepting our duʿās. Ameen.
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A man might be praising his wife on social media for being a supportive wife while she is all burnt out and fed up in the marriage.
A woman might be praising her husband for being quite an understanding husband while in reality he got pushed to a point he no longer complains. He is fed up deep down and just letting things be for the sake of the kids.
Do not prioritise the public image of your marriage over its true health. Go and fix your marriage!
Abu Imrān
A woman might be praising her husband for being quite an understanding husband while in reality he got pushed to a point he no longer complains. He is fed up deep down and just letting things be for the sake of the kids.
Do not prioritise the public image of your marriage over its true health. Go and fix your marriage!
Abu Imrān
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A couple recently reached out to me for premarital counselling before making the decision to marry.
They wanted guidance on what they should be discussing now, what they should be looking out for, and what actually helps build a healthy and lasting marriage.
Here is a summary of some of the advice I gave them:
1. Make sure there is genuine attraction.
Not just physical attraction, but attraction to the person’s character, personality, values and overall presence.
2. Look carefully at their relationship with Allah.
Prayer, halal and haram, Islamic values, modesty, financial dealings and how they want to raise children all matter.
A marriage cannot be separated from the deen of the two people entering it.
3. Character matters enormously.
Look for emotional maturity, empathy, honesty, patience, humility, accountability and the ability to manage difficult emotions without becoming destructive.
4. Understand each other’s upbringing.
Ask about their relationship with their mother and father, what marriage looked like in their childhood home, how conflict was handled, whether there was neglect, abuse, instability or other unresolved trauma.
We often bring our childhood into our marriage without even realising it.
5. Learn about attachment styles.
Some people become anxious when they feel distance. Others withdraw when they feel overwhelmed.
Understanding these patterns can prevent both people from constantly misinterpreting each other.
6. Discuss any mental health or neurodivergent factors.
ADHD, emotional regulation difficulties, trauma, addictions and other challenges do not automatically make someone unsuitable for marriage.
But they should be understood, managed and never hidden.
7. Discuss your deal-breakers before marriage.
Children. Parenting. Money. In-laws. Living arrangements. Career. Religious practice. Smoking. Lifestyle. Health decisions. Social boundaries.
Do not assume you will “work it out later.”
8. Talk openly about money.
Who will provide? What are your expectations around saving, spending, debt, work, children and lifestyle?
Financial assumptions can create major problems later.
9. Discuss children before having children.
How many? When? Islamic schooling? Qur’an? Arabic? Discipline? Grandparents? Childcare? Work arrangements?
Parenting disagreements are often value disagreements.
10. Be very clear about in-laws and living arrangements.
Healthy boundaries are not disrespect.
A couple needs enough space to build their own identity as husband and wife.
11. Learn how to manage conflict before the first major conflict happens.
Conflict is inevitable.
Disrespect is not.
Learn how to pause when emotionally flooded, come back to the discussion when calm, listen properly and look for solutions rather than trying to win.
12. Never allow unresolved problems to keep accumulating.
Resistance to discussing a problem can become resentment.
Resentment can eventually become rejection.
Many couples who think they have a “communication problem” actually have an unresolved connection problem underneath it.
13. Learn your partner’s personality instead of constantly trying to change it.
Temperament, personality type, love language and emotional style can help explain why someone responds differently.
Different does not always mean wrong.
14. Ask yourself one very important question:
“Can I tolerate the weaknesses this person may never completely change?”
Never marry someone based only on their potential.
You must also be able to accept the reality of who they are today.
15. Keep Allah at the centre of the relationship.
One of the simplest ways I explain it is with a triangle.
Allah is at the top and the husband and wife are at the two lower corners.
As both people move closer to Allah, they naturally move closer to one another.
16. Protect the marriage spiritually.
Maintain the prayers.
Stay away from haram.
Read the morning and evening adhkar.
Make regular du’a for your marriage.
And never underestimate the power of asking Allah to protect the hearts of two people.
They wanted guidance on what they should be discussing now, what they should be looking out for, and what actually helps build a healthy and lasting marriage.
Here is a summary of some of the advice I gave them:
1. Make sure there is genuine attraction.
Not just physical attraction, but attraction to the person’s character, personality, values and overall presence.
2. Look carefully at their relationship with Allah.
Prayer, halal and haram, Islamic values, modesty, financial dealings and how they want to raise children all matter.
A marriage cannot be separated from the deen of the two people entering it.
3. Character matters enormously.
Look for emotional maturity, empathy, honesty, patience, humility, accountability and the ability to manage difficult emotions without becoming destructive.
4. Understand each other’s upbringing.
Ask about their relationship with their mother and father, what marriage looked like in their childhood home, how conflict was handled, whether there was neglect, abuse, instability or other unresolved trauma.
We often bring our childhood into our marriage without even realising it.
5. Learn about attachment styles.
Some people become anxious when they feel distance. Others withdraw when they feel overwhelmed.
Understanding these patterns can prevent both people from constantly misinterpreting each other.
6. Discuss any mental health or neurodivergent factors.
ADHD, emotional regulation difficulties, trauma, addictions and other challenges do not automatically make someone unsuitable for marriage.
But they should be understood, managed and never hidden.
7. Discuss your deal-breakers before marriage.
Children. Parenting. Money. In-laws. Living arrangements. Career. Religious practice. Smoking. Lifestyle. Health decisions. Social boundaries.
Do not assume you will “work it out later.”
8. Talk openly about money.
Who will provide? What are your expectations around saving, spending, debt, work, children and lifestyle?
Financial assumptions can create major problems later.
9. Discuss children before having children.
How many? When? Islamic schooling? Qur’an? Arabic? Discipline? Grandparents? Childcare? Work arrangements?
Parenting disagreements are often value disagreements.
10. Be very clear about in-laws and living arrangements.
Healthy boundaries are not disrespect.
A couple needs enough space to build their own identity as husband and wife.
11. Learn how to manage conflict before the first major conflict happens.
Conflict is inevitable.
Disrespect is not.
Learn how to pause when emotionally flooded, come back to the discussion when calm, listen properly and look for solutions rather than trying to win.
12. Never allow unresolved problems to keep accumulating.
Resistance to discussing a problem can become resentment.
Resentment can eventually become rejection.
Many couples who think they have a “communication problem” actually have an unresolved connection problem underneath it.
13. Learn your partner’s personality instead of constantly trying to change it.
Temperament, personality type, love language and emotional style can help explain why someone responds differently.
Different does not always mean wrong.
14. Ask yourself one very important question:
“Can I tolerate the weaknesses this person may never completely change?”
Never marry someone based only on their potential.
You must also be able to accept the reality of who they are today.
15. Keep Allah at the centre of the relationship.
One of the simplest ways I explain it is with a triangle.
Allah is at the top and the husband and wife are at the two lower corners.
As both people move closer to Allah, they naturally move closer to one another.
16. Protect the marriage spiritually.
Maintain the prayers.
Stay away from haram.
Read the morning and evening adhkar.
Make regular du’a for your marriage.
And never underestimate the power of asking Allah to protect the hearts of two people.
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17. Pray Istikharah.
Do your research.
Ask difficult questions.
Seek advice.
Then ask Allah to facilitate what is good and turn away what is harmful.
18. Never stop learning.
Marriage requires ongoing growth spiritually, emotionally, physically, financially and relationally.
The goal before marriage should not only be:
“How do I find the right person?”
It should also be:
“How do I become the right person?”
Premarital counselling can uncover conversations that many couples simply never think to have until they are already married and struggling.
Sometimes one honest conversation before marriage can prevent years of pain afterwards.
If you are seriously considering someone for marriage, seek guidance early.
Ask the difficult questions.
Understand yourself.
Understand them.
And do everything possible to enter marriage with clarity rather than assumptions.
Choosing the right spouse is one of the most important decisions you will ever make.
Prepare for it accordingly.
Do your research.
Ask difficult questions.
Seek advice.
Then ask Allah to facilitate what is good and turn away what is harmful.
18. Never stop learning.
Marriage requires ongoing growth spiritually, emotionally, physically, financially and relationally.
The goal before marriage should not only be:
“How do I find the right person?”
It should also be:
“How do I become the right person?”
Premarital counselling can uncover conversations that many couples simply never think to have until they are already married and struggling.
Sometimes one honest conversation before marriage can prevent years of pain afterwards.
If you are seriously considering someone for marriage, seek guidance early.
Ask the difficult questions.
Understand yourself.
Understand them.
And do everything possible to enter marriage with clarity rather than assumptions.
Choosing the right spouse is one of the most important decisions you will ever make.
Prepare for it accordingly.
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❌Sisters, don’t be deceived. A woman’s biological clock ticks faster than a man’s — and time doesn’t wait.❌
Modern society has sold women a lie: "You don’t need a man. Chase your career. Marriage and children can wait."
By the time many wake up, they’re deep into their 30s — successful, maybe — but alone, unprepared for family life, unfamiliar with homemaking, and without the tools to nurture a husband or raise children.
Suddenly, the silence hits. The empty house. The empty bed. No “I love you.” No child calling her “Mama.” No legacy.
They start looking — for meaning, for love, for purpose. But time is not on their side.
They’re now in competition with younger women raised with traditional values — or older women (divorced or widow) who’ve learned, through pain how to raise kids, take care of an household and family and learned that beauty and ambition are not everything.
💔 The Fantasy That Broke Them
Many sisters grow up fantasizing about love — not based on truth or deen — but on Disney fairytales and social media filters.
They want a “prince charming” who brings roses, plans magical proposals, and writes poetry under the stars — but they ignore the prophetic model of manhood.
They search for feelings... not qualities. They reject men who are simple, God-fearing, hard-working — men who would actually lead, protect, and honor them.
They chase butterflies and sparks, but forget to ask:
Does he pray Fajr in the masjid?
Does he lower his gaze?
Is he responsible?
Is he emotionally stable, patient, generous, and protective of his deen?
📜 The Prophet ﷺ didn’t teach us to look for a man with six-pack abs and a perfect Instagram profile —
He said:
“If someone with good character and deen comes to you [for marriage], marry him.” (Tirmidhi)
But the ummah raised a generation of sisters who confuse flirting with love, and attention with commitment.
They reject men who would lead them to Jannah, for boys who promise “forever” but can’t even commit to five daily prayers.
🤦 And then it dawns on them — the brutal truth:
They’ve been lied to.
❌By the media.
❌By the education system.
❌By their friends.
❌By a culture that pushed them away from what truly matters.
🛡 Sisters, understand this:
A devoted wife and loving mother is stronger, more resilient, more honored, and more fulfilled than any woman chasing promotions and paychecks.
40 hours in an office will never compare to the reward of raising righteous children and building a home filled with love — a living sadaqah jariyah that echoes into eternity.
✨ Return to the Sunnah.
✨ Redefine your standards by the Book of Allah and the example of His Messenger ﷺ.
✨ Don’t wake up too late.
Time is not on your side. But Allah still is — if you turn back now.
Modern society has sold women a lie: "You don’t need a man. Chase your career. Marriage and children can wait."
By the time many wake up, they’re deep into their 30s — successful, maybe — but alone, unprepared for family life, unfamiliar with homemaking, and without the tools to nurture a husband or raise children.
Suddenly, the silence hits. The empty house. The empty bed. No “I love you.” No child calling her “Mama.” No legacy.
They start looking — for meaning, for love, for purpose. But time is not on their side.
They’re now in competition with younger women raised with traditional values — or older women (divorced or widow) who’ve learned, through pain how to raise kids, take care of an household and family and learned that beauty and ambition are not everything.
💔 The Fantasy That Broke Them
Many sisters grow up fantasizing about love — not based on truth or deen — but on Disney fairytales and social media filters.
They want a “prince charming” who brings roses, plans magical proposals, and writes poetry under the stars — but they ignore the prophetic model of manhood.
They search for feelings... not qualities. They reject men who are simple, God-fearing, hard-working — men who would actually lead, protect, and honor them.
They chase butterflies and sparks, but forget to ask:
Does he pray Fajr in the masjid?
Does he lower his gaze?
Is he responsible?
Is he emotionally stable, patient, generous, and protective of his deen?
📜 The Prophet ﷺ didn’t teach us to look for a man with six-pack abs and a perfect Instagram profile —
He said:
“If someone with good character and deen comes to you [for marriage], marry him.” (Tirmidhi)
But the ummah raised a generation of sisters who confuse flirting with love, and attention with commitment.
They reject men who would lead them to Jannah, for boys who promise “forever” but can’t even commit to five daily prayers.
🤦 And then it dawns on them — the brutal truth:
They’ve been lied to.
❌By the media.
❌By the education system.
❌By their friends.
❌By a culture that pushed them away from what truly matters.
🛡 Sisters, understand this:
A devoted wife and loving mother is stronger, more resilient, more honored, and more fulfilled than any woman chasing promotions and paychecks.
40 hours in an office will never compare to the reward of raising righteous children and building a home filled with love — a living sadaqah jariyah that echoes into eternity.
✨ Return to the Sunnah.
✨ Redefine your standards by the Book of Allah and the example of His Messenger ﷺ.
✨ Don’t wake up too late.
Time is not on your side. But Allah still is — if you turn back now.
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A pious spouse is not necessarily a 'loving' and 'caring' spouse. You may be married to tons of voluntary fasting, night prayers, and Qur'ān recitation. Some female Companions and Tābi'ūn suffered a similar fate. Some people are too pious to be romantic.
Sanusi Lafiagi
Sanusi Lafiagi
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May Allah guide our Muslim women.
Where are they heading?
They are raising questions against Islam and misinterpreting the law and words of Allah and the Sunnah of the Prophet salelahualehiwasalam.
If they want to remove their hijabs, be naked, and do what haram they want to do according to their desires. They are creating so many filthy, nasty, and disgusting things that are so dangerous, and they are going to destroy their own lives and the lives of others. May they all be guided before it’s too late.
But instead, why are you maligning, corrupting, and misleading other women against Islam?
That’s why it’s said that most of the people who enter hellfire are women.
That’s because of their lack of knowledge in Islam, and they are so much influenced by modern culture and vain desires.
May Allah guide them all to the right path, with right understanding and right knowledge of deen-e-Islam. Ameen.
May Allah bless every house with pious and righteous women. Ameen
May Allah protect all our wives, daughters, sisters, and mothers on the right and straight path that Allah loves most. Ameen.
Where are they heading?
They are raising questions against Islam and misinterpreting the law and words of Allah and the Sunnah of the Prophet salelahualehiwasalam.
If they want to remove their hijabs, be naked, and do what haram they want to do according to their desires. They are creating so many filthy, nasty, and disgusting things that are so dangerous, and they are going to destroy their own lives and the lives of others. May they all be guided before it’s too late.
But instead, why are you maligning, corrupting, and misleading other women against Islam?
That’s why it’s said that most of the people who enter hellfire are women.
That’s because of their lack of knowledge in Islam, and they are so much influenced by modern culture and vain desires.
May Allah guide them all to the right path, with right understanding and right knowledge of deen-e-Islam. Ameen.
May Allah bless every house with pious and righteous women. Ameen
May Allah protect all our wives, daughters, sisters, and mothers on the right and straight path that Allah loves most. Ameen.
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❌Sisters, don’t be deceived. A woman’s biological clock ticks faster than a man’s — and time doesn’t wait.❌
Modern society has sold women a lie: "You don’t need a man. Chase your career. Marriage and children can wait."
By the time many wake up, they’re deep into their 30s — successful, maybe — but alone, unprepared for family life, unfamiliar with homemaking, and without the tools to nurture a husband or raise children.
Suddenly, the silence hits. The empty house. The empty bed. No “I love you.” No child calling her “Mama.” No legacy.
They start looking — for meaning, for love, for purpose. But time is not on their side.
They’re now in competition with younger women raised with traditional values — or older women (divorced or widow) who’ve learned, through pain how to raise kids, take care of an household and family and learned that beauty and ambition are not everything.
💔 The Fantasy That Broke Them
Many sisters grow up fantasizing about love — not based on truth or deen — but on Disney fairytales and social media filters.
They want a “prince charming” who brings roses, plans magical proposals, and writes poetry under the stars — but they ignore the prophetic model of manhood.
They search for feelings... not qualities. They reject men who are simple, God-fearing, hard-working — men who would actually lead, protect, and honor them.
They chase butterflies and sparks, but forget to ask:
Does he pray Fajr in the masjid?
Does he lower his gaze?
Is he responsible?
Is he emotionally stable, patient, generous, and protective of his deen?
📜 The Prophet ﷺ didn’t teach us to look for a man with six-pack abs and a perfect Instagram profile —
He said:
“If someone with good character and deen comes to you [for marriage], marry him.” (Tirmidhi)
But the ummah raised a generation of sisters who confuse flirting with love, and attention with commitment.
They reject men who would lead them to Jannah, for boys who promise “forever” but can’t even commit to five daily prayers.
🤦 And then it dawns on them — the brutal truth:
They’ve been lied to.
❌By the media.
❌By the education system.
❌By their friends.
❌By a culture that pushed them away from what truly matters.
🛡 Sisters, understand this:
A devoted wife and loving mother is stronger, more resilient, more honored, and more fulfilled than any woman chasing promotions and paychecks.
40 hours in an office will never compare to the reward of raising righteous children and building a home filled with love — a living sadaqah jariyah that echoes into eternity.
✨ Return to the Sunnah.
✨ Redefine your standards by the Book of Allah and the example of His Messenger ﷺ.
✨ Don’t wake up too late.
Time is not on your side. But Allah still is — if you turn back now.
Modern society has sold women a lie: "You don’t need a man. Chase your career. Marriage and children can wait."
By the time many wake up, they’re deep into their 30s — successful, maybe — but alone, unprepared for family life, unfamiliar with homemaking, and without the tools to nurture a husband or raise children.
Suddenly, the silence hits. The empty house. The empty bed. No “I love you.” No child calling her “Mama.” No legacy.
They start looking — for meaning, for love, for purpose. But time is not on their side.
They’re now in competition with younger women raised with traditional values — or older women (divorced or widow) who’ve learned, through pain how to raise kids, take care of an household and family and learned that beauty and ambition are not everything.
💔 The Fantasy That Broke Them
Many sisters grow up fantasizing about love — not based on truth or deen — but on Disney fairytales and social media filters.
They want a “prince charming” who brings roses, plans magical proposals, and writes poetry under the stars — but they ignore the prophetic model of manhood.
They search for feelings... not qualities. They reject men who are simple, God-fearing, hard-working — men who would actually lead, protect, and honor them.
They chase butterflies and sparks, but forget to ask:
Does he pray Fajr in the masjid?
Does he lower his gaze?
Is he responsible?
Is he emotionally stable, patient, generous, and protective of his deen?
📜 The Prophet ﷺ didn’t teach us to look for a man with six-pack abs and a perfect Instagram profile —
He said:
“If someone with good character and deen comes to you [for marriage], marry him.” (Tirmidhi)
But the ummah raised a generation of sisters who confuse flirting with love, and attention with commitment.
They reject men who would lead them to Jannah, for boys who promise “forever” but can’t even commit to five daily prayers.
🤦 And then it dawns on them — the brutal truth:
They’ve been lied to.
❌By the media.
❌By the education system.
❌By their friends.
❌By a culture that pushed them away from what truly matters.
🛡 Sisters, understand this:
A devoted wife and loving mother is stronger, more resilient, more honored, and more fulfilled than any woman chasing promotions and paychecks.
40 hours in an office will never compare to the reward of raising righteous children and building a home filled with love — a living sadaqah jariyah that echoes into eternity.
✨ Return to the Sunnah.
✨ Redefine your standards by the Book of Allah and the example of His Messenger ﷺ.
✨ Don’t wake up too late.
Time is not on your side. But Allah still is — if you turn back now.
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Some parents refuse to marry their daughters to righteous suitors because they are poor. And they go ahead to marry them to unrighteous men who are rich, expressing hope that Allaah would guide them.
The question is:
Is the One Who guides not also the One Who provides?!
Don’t be afraid of poverty when it comes to marriage!
‘Umar ibn al-Khaṭṭāb رضي الله عنه said:
“I have never seen anything stranger than a man who does not seek richness through marriage, even though Allāh has promised, as a result of it (i.e. marriage):
‘…if they are poor, Allāh will enrich them out of His Bounty.’”
(سورة النور ٢٤:٣٢)
[Ad-Durr al-Manthūr, v. 5, pgs. 80-81]l
The question is:
Is the One Who guides not also the One Who provides?!
Don’t be afraid of poverty when it comes to marriage!
‘Umar ibn al-Khaṭṭāb رضي الله عنه said:
“I have never seen anything stranger than a man who does not seek richness through marriage, even though Allāh has promised, as a result of it (i.e. marriage):
‘…if they are poor, Allāh will enrich them out of His Bounty.’”
(سورة النور ٢٤:٣٢)
[Ad-Durr al-Manthūr, v. 5, pgs. 80-81]l
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A woman's true beauty is not in her features or shade of her skin, It is in her heart, her Iman, her Taqwa & her love for the Deen. So few men understand this, but even fewer women do.
We live in a world that constantly teaches women to measure their worth by mirrors, filters, and fleeting standards. Skin tone, facial features, body shape. All of it is made to seem like the definition of beauty. But the truth is far deeper, far more lasting.
A woman’s true beauty is not something the eye can fully capture. It is the softness of her heart when she remembers her Lord. It is the strength of her īmān when she is tested. It is her taqwā that holds her back when no one is watching. It is her love for the Deen that shapes her choices, her words, her silence, and her entire life.
Beauty fades. Youth slips away. Trends change. But a heart connected to Allah only grows more radiant with time.
How many women exhaust themselves trying to perfect their outer appearance yet neglect the very thing that gives them true value? And how many men fail to see beyond what is visible, overlooking the light of faith within a woman?
The real tragedy is not that people don’t understand this. It is that even women forget it themselves.
Work on your heart. Beautify your soul. Protect your modesty. Strengthen your connection with Allah. Because the beauty that is seen by people may earn admiration, but the beauty that is seen by Allah earns His love.
And what is greater than being loved by your Creator?
Choose a beauty that does not fade. A beauty that will stand for you on the day when nothing else will.
We live in a world that constantly teaches women to measure their worth by mirrors, filters, and fleeting standards. Skin tone, facial features, body shape. All of it is made to seem like the definition of beauty. But the truth is far deeper, far more lasting.
A woman’s true beauty is not something the eye can fully capture. It is the softness of her heart when she remembers her Lord. It is the strength of her īmān when she is tested. It is her taqwā that holds her back when no one is watching. It is her love for the Deen that shapes her choices, her words, her silence, and her entire life.
Beauty fades. Youth slips away. Trends change. But a heart connected to Allah only grows more radiant with time.
How many women exhaust themselves trying to perfect their outer appearance yet neglect the very thing that gives them true value? And how many men fail to see beyond what is visible, overlooking the light of faith within a woman?
The real tragedy is not that people don’t understand this. It is that even women forget it themselves.
Work on your heart. Beautify your soul. Protect your modesty. Strengthen your connection with Allah. Because the beauty that is seen by people may earn admiration, but the beauty that is seen by Allah earns His love.
And what is greater than being loved by your Creator?
Choose a beauty that does not fade. A beauty that will stand for you on the day when nothing else will.
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FORCED MARRIAGE IS NOT PERMISSIBLE IN ISLAM
Shaykh Jamal Al Harithi
A woman may be forced into marriage for example, a girl may be compelled by her father or brothers to marry someone, such as her cousin or a relative. This type of coercion often occurs among close kin, where she is pressured to marry someone they desire for her, even though she herself does not wish to do so.
The Prophet ﷺ established that a virgin must give her permission, and a previously married woman (thayyib) must give her consent. He said that “the consent of a virgin is signified by her silence.”
[Narrated by Al-Bukhārī]
Therefore, a woman must not be forced into marriage , neither a virgin nor a previously married woman. Likewise, a man must not be coerced into marrying.
If a woman is not to be forced, then it is even more fitting that a man should not be forced. Yet some people, due to tribal or familial pride rooted in pre-Islamic ignorance, compel their sons to marry certain women , such as their cousin or another relative, against their will. The man, though unwilling, consents out of pressure, and remains married for a time until the matter ends in divorce.
This occurs frequently in some societies, and I say of such communities that they are “ignorant societies”, not in the sense of disbelief, but in the sense of ignorance concerning the laws and guidance of Islam.
{Divorce and its causes}
Shaykh Jamal Al Harithi
A woman may be forced into marriage for example, a girl may be compelled by her father or brothers to marry someone, such as her cousin or a relative. This type of coercion often occurs among close kin, where she is pressured to marry someone they desire for her, even though she herself does not wish to do so.
The Prophet ﷺ established that a virgin must give her permission, and a previously married woman (thayyib) must give her consent. He said that “the consent of a virgin is signified by her silence.”
[Narrated by Al-Bukhārī]
Therefore, a woman must not be forced into marriage , neither a virgin nor a previously married woman. Likewise, a man must not be coerced into marrying.
If a woman is not to be forced, then it is even more fitting that a man should not be forced. Yet some people, due to tribal or familial pride rooted in pre-Islamic ignorance, compel their sons to marry certain women , such as their cousin or another relative, against their will. The man, though unwilling, consents out of pressure, and remains married for a time until the matter ends in divorce.
This occurs frequently in some societies, and I say of such communities that they are “ignorant societies”, not in the sense of disbelief, but in the sense of ignorance concerning the laws and guidance of Islam.
{Divorce and its causes}
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“And how many from women would come forward in yawm al Qiyāmah written in their books, ‘Adultress’, and she never committed adultery, and that is due to her perfume and her Tabarruj [a woman adorning herself] between the (non-mahram) men.”
Abū Mūsā al-Ash’ari said: the Messenger of Allāh (peace and blessings of Allāh be upon him) said: “Any woman who puts on perfume then passes by people so that they can smell her fragrance, is an adulteress.”
“And stay in your houses, and do not display yourselves like that of the times of ignorance.”
[al-Ahzāb 33:33]
Abū Mūsā al-Ash’ari said: the Messenger of Allāh (peace and blessings of Allāh be upon him) said: “Any woman who puts on perfume then passes by people so that they can smell her fragrance, is an adulteress.”
“And stay in your houses, and do not display yourselves like that of the times of ignorance.”
[al-Ahzāb 33:33]
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Necessary Test Before Marriage
1. HIV & Syphilis test
2. Genotype test
3. Hepatitis B & Hepatitis C
4. Blood Group/Rhesus
5. Pregnancy test
6. Sperm count/Fertility profile test
7. STD test
8. Blood disorder test
9. Complete Blood count
1. HIV & Syphilis test
2. Genotype test
3. Hepatitis B & Hepatitis C
4. Blood Group/Rhesus
5. Pregnancy test
6. Sperm count/Fertility profile test
7. STD test
8. Blood disorder test
9. Complete Blood count
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●•💎•● My sister, what is the purpose of your Abaya?•●
👤Sheikh Salih al Fawzaan
●•💠•● O my brothers! the purpose of the Abaya(*) is [to achieve] covering, not adornment, it is not a garment for adornment, and it is not permissible to be worn for adornment, to be embroidered, to have ornaments, or to open sleeves in it so it becomes like a shirt/thaub [in this case] it won't be an Abaya anymore, it will be a shirt/thaub
•●• So the abaya is for no other reason save covering, it should cover all the body, like a big cloak which is Al Jilbab (i.e, a garment which covers all the body).
•●• So its purpose is covering not adorning. Rather the purpose is covering the adornment in front of men.
•●• Accordingly is not permissible to invent new decorations/styles of the Abaya.
Calling [such Abaya] islamic is merely for marketing, while in reality it is not islamic, this [title] is for marketing purposes. For the islamic Abaya is that which covers [all the body] is thick, free from any ornaments, embroidery or adornment. It has to be plain, without decoration. Yes.
🌐 Source (https://www.alfawzan.af.org.sa/ar/node/3192) (Arabic)
(*) Abaya: an outdoor, sleeveless, women's overgarment, that hangs loosely from the head.
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👤Sheikh Salih al Fawzaan
●•💠•● O my brothers! the purpose of the Abaya(*) is [to achieve] covering, not adornment, it is not a garment for adornment, and it is not permissible to be worn for adornment, to be embroidered, to have ornaments, or to open sleeves in it so it becomes like a shirt/thaub [in this case] it won't be an Abaya anymore, it will be a shirt/thaub
•●• So the abaya is for no other reason save covering, it should cover all the body, like a big cloak which is Al Jilbab (i.e, a garment which covers all the body).
•●• So its purpose is covering not adorning. Rather the purpose is covering the adornment in front of men.
•●• Accordingly is not permissible to invent new decorations/styles of the Abaya.
Calling [such Abaya] islamic is merely for marketing, while in reality it is not islamic, this [title] is for marketing purposes. For the islamic Abaya is that which covers [all the body] is thick, free from any ornaments, embroidery or adornment. It has to be plain, without decoration. Yes.
🌐 Source (https://www.alfawzan.af.org.sa/ar/node/3192) (Arabic)
(*) Abaya: an outdoor, sleeveless, women's overgarment, that hangs loosely from the head.
Benefit -95-
#Translation
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